Marriage & Divorce - 18 April 2007

she has not put his name on the rent book and said she can do that .

2007-04-18 10:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by linda s 1

I am set to be married in a week. This is my second marriage whereby I have 2 kids from previous marriage. My new husband is 9 years younger then me! And I am 5 month pregnant with his child. He treats me great, I never had a man that was so good to me. I never met anyone with whom I had such a great understanding, love, etc. I am happy. My kids are happy. BUT, I am scared that when I get older he will loose interest and leave me for a younger woman. I didnt feel like this before pregnancy. On the other hand, we didnt plan to marry then. I mean we talked about it, but weren't going to do it for couple of years. I am older, I make more money, he gains more by being with me then I (in terms of finances, etc). I trust him, but I am just constantly paranoid that he wont be with me until the end. I even became a jelous person (i never was like this before). I dont know how to control it. We walk together and I NOTICE younger girls. Its crazy...How do I stop it? Why is this happening?

2007-04-18 10:30:57 · 9 answers · asked by nika 1

my husband has drank so much through our marriage and has hit me and the kids and he has changed and in rehab now but cps is involved now cause of him they say he can come back but has to go to classes he is better i have seen him just dont know what to do cause if this does happen they will take the kids. I still love him and dont know what to do it hurts so much i know i cant let him come back but it just hurts so much and i dont know how to get over it

2007-04-18 10:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by SHERRIE M 2

I personally don't believe in separating from my spouse but my husband thinks those are just sacrifices made in a relationship. I understand what he is saying but what is the point of getting married if we would not be living together or able to see each other. His brother just got married and left his wife to go do a 2-year masters degree program in Ethiopia. Now she is pregnant and he wont be able to come back until he finishes the program. So he won't be there for her whole pregnancy, birth, or the first year of his child's life. That is so weird to me.

I don't think anything is more important than family. I personally find it a bit selfish.
Now I'm interested in a 9 month program but its in Oklahoma. I asked him if we could move there. He said I could move there and live on-campus while he stay here and work. (Texas) It seems it doesn't bother him that we would be away from each other for that long but I can't imagine being even a month without him. Who's right on this?

2007-04-18 10:25:31 · 18 answers · asked by vanillacream753 3

We got back together, and now it seems he is stuck that because I left that I caused the problems. I just want everything to be happy, I know I made a mistake when I gave up, but I was stressed out and I didn't want to lose the baby I'm carry , so I need some time to relax, But now I dont think he will ever get over the fact I left. He is still hurt,and since I can back its like nothing is there anymore. He wont sleep in the bed with me, he doesn't talk much and when he does it about the show thats on or a friend, but wont touch "our" relationship. I want this to work I know I made the mistake but how do I fix it?

2007-04-18 10:22:56 · 7 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

How can I document my expenses?

2007-04-18 10:17:41 · 4 answers · asked by Carla 1

2007-04-18 10:13:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex use to pay 44.80 a month in child support . Now due to his new playmate that he seen he has cut paying child support and told every one that he his backrupt.
court will not touch him due to this.

2007-04-18 10:10:05 · 26 answers · asked by MOONBEAM7699 2

Does cheaters change?

2007-04-18 10:00:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 09:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by draco23rosa8 2

Ok..We decided fr me to move back in with him. But nothing is peachy, he still sleeps on the couch, not much talking etc. I talked to him today and he said that just because we are back living together that not everything is on good terms. I thought when people come back together its all happy and fun, and everything sugarcoated. But he isn't sugar coating anything just act how he feels, he told me yes he loves me, and wants to be with me but not everything will go to being a big happy family until we work things out more. My heart is broken again. He keeps saying I'm the one that left and he just asked me to come back, to work everything out. So now I kinda feel like I can't have a say in anything because I left and should of just stayed gone.
I need some help to get thru this I thought our life would be grand, but its not, Will it change in time? Once we talked more, etc? Any advice would be great.
I'm just confused on how this is supposed to go.

2007-04-18 09:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

need advice for revenge please

2007-04-18 09:51:39 · 25 answers · asked by kim w 1

In the event of a divorce, the woman gets half the man's property and money. Doesn't the constitution protect the man's property rights in this particular situation? Do you agree this should happen when a married couple divorce?

2007-04-18 09:47:03 · 17 answers · asked by Ian C 2

need revenge advice, please

2007-04-18 09:44:36 · 27 answers · asked by kim w 1

who's going to be in a long-term relationship? List 5-10 things that make a relationship sucessful

this is for my psych class, if u could answer it, it would really help me! please only people who have been in a long term relationship of 5 yrs or more..

2007-04-18 09:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by lucky 4

2007-04-18 09:35:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 09:27:29 · 17 answers · asked by nancy 1

We both have made our mistakes and have been separated for a while now. There was a lot of family interference and now I have been served with papers. I still love her very much as I got married for the right reasons. We have a 3 y/o baby girl and we both adore her. I know she has been having "bad" advice from her disgruntled-with-men friends. We are having our "final" talk tomorrow and I know she is going to fight with me (screaming etc) but I am willing to fight for my family as I love them both.

2007-04-18 09:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by BSY 1

This is a one sided marriage I have no friends not allowed this man didnt even go to my mothers funeral, I love him now is that wrong I was brought up to make things work my parents were married 43 yrs ,I'm just now relizing I'm intitled to happiness and so are my kids so do I wait untill she turns 18 do I leave now I'm afraid I will have to run to get totally away. I've always been the worker now refuse because its just not fair I feel taken advantage of. Beleive all inputs are being read I have nooooo one to turn to my kids are my all that keep me going!!!

2007-04-18 09:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by cmomma1 1

Even if she does look like Halle Berry? Ha!

2007-04-18 09:21:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I both had affairs previously. I no longer speak to any of the guys but my husband's accuses me of it with everyone now. He has a child from one of his affairs and has slept with her, since my affairs were over, to try to see his kid. He had the affair for three weeks and three days to try. When she wouldn't give him anything more than a picture he ended it. I wasn't having an affair then and haven't since. He throws my affairs in my face and even tells me to go sleep with everyone I even say hi to. How do I get it to stop? He would agree to go to conselling!

2007-04-18 09:14:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

They must be a few doughnuts short of a dozen.

2007-04-18 08:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by jazz41 2

I was listening to a radio show this morning and that was that topic of discussion. Personally, I have dated men that made less money than me and they had a huge problem with it...stating that they felt like less of a man and/or they couldn't do anything for me since I already had everything.

I never told them I made more money than them, but it was obvious when you compared our homes and cars....but the exact amount of money was never discussed. I have no problem with men making less money, but I would be interested to know how many men see this as an issue. Let me know your thoughts...

2007-04-18 08:46:21 · 14 answers · asked by Fireanddesir 2

I met my Husband 2 years ago while we were both in a bar cruising for men. I was attracted to him by his big cowbay hat and leather trousers. He looked so good drinking that pink cocktail. But recently I have started to suspect he might be gay. What should I do?

Brian x

2007-04-18 08:40:16 · 87 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mother is looking for gift ideas for husbands 25th wedding anniversary. Any ideas thanks.

2007-04-18 08:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by braveheart_lynch 1

I read a book that said a wife would appreciate a husband who willing ease her work load at home by doing stuff around the house without being told. My friend has been married for ten years and says that it is better to allow the wife to carryout her wifely duties but help her when she needs assistance. What do you think?

2007-04-18 08:30:30 · 17 answers · asked by Will 1

When a man has a wife or girlfriend, the money he earns becomes "Our Money" while hers remains hers ,seems fishy to me.

2007-04-18 08:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would be it was a female divorce attorney trying to rip off some poor guy who hadn't really done anything wrong but they needed to make him look bad in front of the judge!

Outside of threats of violence, which are wrong and should be reported to the police, there is NO SUCH THING AS "mental abuse"! Every thing else is just nasty words. If you don't like what someone says to you, leave but spare us the "emotional abuse" crap!

2007-04-18 08:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by Steve J 1

ok im nearly married to a lovely man, we have a two year old son lately everything is so serious i feel like ive been married for 50 years where is the fun and laughter gone and how do we get it back without splitting up??

2007-04-18 07:48:06 · 13 answers · asked by lynners 1

After 6 yrs. in our relationship, we decided to get married, but we feel now that we are not compatible.We are just married for 3 months up to present,My residence status is not adjusted yet. I he will divorce me for uncompatibilty, do I have the right to stay here in the US? By the way I am from somewhere in Asia. I have not committed any sin in our marriage.He said that we are not compatible, and divorce might be and option,I am worried because i have no job to return to anymore because he told me to quit and come here.

2007-04-18 07:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by bLueBerrY999 1