Marriage & Divorce - 18 April 2007

my husband and i have been together for 10 years, he wants sex EVERY day, it starts and ends the same. I have nothing against sex, but after chasing a 2 yr old all day on top on all my other daily jobs and my job sometimes I would like to not have to have the sex discussion, but he gets upset, I give in and so forth EVERY day, and if I don't give in at night he wakes me up early in the morning hunching. What should I do, He doesn't listen to reason, he says he works too and that I am just against sex. Help! Please!

2007-04-18 03:41:28 · 14 answers · asked by Tina H 1

some theories mentions that when the size of male and female of the same species are close to each other then monogamy is the usual result. What do you think?

2007-04-18 03:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has said she wants a sibling. Oddly enough, after we found out, we asked her again and she said she doesn't want a brother or sister. What is the best way to tell her and let her know she will still be loved just as much. We have her as much as the typical divorced father: 2 weekends a month and every tuesday. Help! We're affraid she'll dispise her new sibling and feel less loved!

2007-04-18 03:27:27 · 21 answers · asked by **happy** 1

2007-04-18 03:22:44 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2

There are many many issues to go over and I feel like we should be on the Jerry Springer show, but I think age and her child may be a major concern. She is 18 with a 2 yr old son and I am way older than she is. Like twice her age. I have been married before for 10 years and have no kids of my own. I worry that she lacks relationship experience and won't be in it for the long haul. I don't want to make a commitment to her child as well and then 10 yrs later she goes off with a younger man with the kid and I'm heart broken. The kid may not be mine biologically, but I am still the father because I am raising the child. I don't know what the future holds and I am willing to take a big risk but how much risk is too much?? Also, I have to make a decision within the next 2 weeks because I have to go back to my home country to work again. Any suggestions would be really helpful. I love the girl and get a long with her son. She loves me too and we have had a good share of fights.

2007-04-18 03:18:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.....my husband and I have been having problems...I think he's cheating or at least coming very close to it (see my other questions).....he knows how I feel...I have become more vocal ..and I am concerned about something.....My husband and I have shared our passwords with each other for our emails, myspace, etc.....and every once in a while we check each others accounts....well last night I was checking one of his accounts and found that he had changed his password....Am I wrong to be upset that he changed it????? I feel very confused about this....I understand that everyone has a need for privacy, but I just assumed that when your married you shouldn't have anything to hide....especially with emails and stuff....He has all my passwords and can access my accounts at anytime....he has that right as my husband...but now I feel even more that something is going on....I know this may seem a bit trite but I am at the end of a very frayed rope.....HELP!!!!!!

2007-04-18 03:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by Sinking Slowly 1

2007-04-18 03:11:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

It doesn't matter if they're men or women but it just seems that the securely married are more emotionally sound and cause less problems.

2007-04-18 03:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4

My sister-in-law wants a divorce with my bro, giving the reason that she dun like me and my parents, wanting my parents to move out from the house. The house belongs to my bro and do not have her name in the ownership. They have a barely 2 yrs old baby boy. She's studying and working at the same time and my bro is working full time as a technician. If she really wants a divorce, are her reasons valid? Who will have the custordy of the son? She came from a rich family. We are not as rich as them but we lived happily. She was once chased out from her family. We are suspecting something is wrong with her... Like having an affair... what can we do??

2007-04-18 03:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 03:05:59 · 30 answers · asked by grcoleman84 1

My fiancee and I are having a rough time right now. We are bth young, and we live together. We have had alot of issues such as the fact that i have spoiled her for too long and now that we are living together she needs to get a job and pull her own weight... and thats causing strife. Also, i recently had someone approach me and tell me that back in november, she cheated on me. I dont know what to do anymore... she is emotionally unstable... when we fight, she threatens to leave me... and when she tries to leave i physically stop her because i dont want to lose her. I am not abusive, i would never hurt her but she says im controlling her... I just dont know whether or not its worth trying to fix anymore... i love her so much and i dont want to lsoe her, but our love seems to be coming at a higher and higher cost...

2007-04-18 02:59:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is very abcent minded so he claims,he always leaves things a total disaster.He has an office that literally looks like a horcane hit.I get physically sick from such a mess. I will no longer clean his office,but he leaves a trail of disaster all around me.I find it hard to look at him sometimes because he is just a slob.He keeps buying more and more and more too.I really dont know how to control this anymore.I need order,and cleanliness.If I say something to him he argues with me.I have young children that I clean for.I find this so upsetting.Does anyone have construtive ways to help this disasterous situation?Thank you in advance.

2007-04-18 02:56:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 02:53:12 · 11 answers · asked by a 2

I am also looking for swaziland wife.Please is there any to help me.

2007-04-18 02:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by FrancM 2

My husband cheated on me 3 times ( he admitted to). If that wasnt bad. With 3 diff people. Wow, that sounds horrible. My thing is that he has been faithful now for over 1 yr and is trying the best he can to make our marriage work. The cheated happened about 2 yrs ago or more. I have just recently come to find out. We are still young. In our early 20s. We have 2 children. A 3 and a 4 year old. I would like to forgive him, like everyone always does, but I kno im not that dumb. I know what i should do. It just helps when other people let me kno what they think. Another big part is that HE IS a sex addict. Which that can be part of the problem. We are still young and I believe in giving another chance. Am I just making excuses??? I am soo confused right now that I dont even kno what i feel towards him anymore. BTW, we have been 2gether 6 yrs and I will be finishing up Nursing School in 3 months.

2007-04-18 01:53:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 01:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by kzoloty 1

Like why do partners who seem to not show any signs of abuse start abusing their partners? Like after say 4 years of marriage? Would you say that the answer could really be "that she drove me to it?" or is that unacceptable?

2007-04-18 01:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jo 2

2007-04-18 01:28:09 · 21 answers · asked by mdpake 2

My boyfriend and I agreed that due to his work stress, we will take a break, spend time away from each other. I wanted to save the relationship this way because I became too needy of him as he was trying to focus on himself, trying to find a new job. I suggested to him to spend a couple of months apart, where during this period I will not contact him so he can focus on what he needs to do. I must say that it has helped me to become more independant myself, to think about us, and to miss him a lot. However, I am missing him so much, I really want to contact him. All my friends who know about this, keep telling me not to contact and to stick to our agreeement as time away will help us both. But I am afraid that he will forget about me? I love him very much and I am not interested in anyone else. We have been togehter for 3 years. Should I contact him or should I stick to our agreement? It's only been 2 and a half weeks since we made this agreeement.

2007-04-18 01:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

When you are the first in your generation for marriage

2007-04-18 01:02:08 · 10 answers · asked by vishal 1

My 3 years partner feels that I cant be what she needs, we have had an up and down relationship with things that have hurt us both in the past, i have gone to the ends of the earth for her and we have been together for three years now, I love her deeply and this split we have had has shown me that although I have made many changes to be what she needs I still needed to change more, she is my life, my heart is completely hers, I know under the upset she miss's me, she has told me so, she seems so scared that being with me would make her unhappy again, but I know how she needs to be treated and what she needs, how can I show the woman who I desperately love how life could be with me from here ?, she has become very enclosed in herself and I find it difficult to speak her, i know she is protecting herself from upset but all I want to do is make her so very happy ?, how can I get her to see I really mean what i say and feel and how different it would be now, I love her so much, please help

2007-04-18 00:33:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is having affair wid a south indian girl and neither i nor my husband wants to leave each other but he still wants tat girl to live wid us. an application for divorce had also been filed but he says tat it is just to get married wid her. UI won't let u go. I just want to contact tat girl to teach a good chapter.

2007-04-18 00:31:23 · 36 answers · asked by shaily 1

2007-04-18 00:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by kort 1