Marriage & Divorce - 18 April 2007

2007-04-18 14:08:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Earlier my hubby & I got into a confrontation. I am pregnant and am really uncomfortable right now becuase my uterus and ligaments are stretching. I expressed my hurting and he didn't say anything. I didn't think it would take so long to respond, I thought it would be immediate bcuz what is there really to say? I looked over at him and asked if he was going to say n e thing & he said I wasn't even done talking but I had been for a minute or so. It escalated, so I decided 2 just leave the convo and get in the bath to relax me & he continued to yell through the door. I said I didn't want to hear anymore and said "can't hear you" (waters running) so he decided to just open up the door and walk in. Boundaries is a big issue becuase he has kept me captive in my own house before as well as in rooms in the house. (not for hours or days). And has also physically held me in place and when I fought to get away he wrestled me to the couch. He said he'd never be "that kind of person" but he has.

2007-04-18 14:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by justcuriouslyasking 1

how do you deal with something like? my husband is going to start a job at the oil fields and i don't know how i going to deal with him gone for that long......i love him so much and i am going to miss him so much

2007-04-18 14:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-04-18 14:01:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

here's the story. my wife is turning thirty in a few months. we got married a year ago and it hasn't been easy blending my two kids and her daughter. Plus I was married before. my wife gained about 20 pounds since we've been married. my ex wife is tall, thin and blonde. my wife seems really concerned that now that she's thirty and getting older I will leave her because i am almost forty and that's what older guys do when their wives get old and unattractive. possibly she thinks i will go back to my ex wife because of the kids. now she's pushing for a baby with me even though it's been really tough keeping up with all three for her and me. she knows this but i told her no more kids for now. she said she always wanted another one and how could i deny her that! something other than a baby is going on here and i cant figure it out. it's like her world ended when i said no baby right now even though when we first got married she was unsure. how can i help her and what does she really want?

2007-04-18 13:58:08 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

After about 6 or 7 years of asking him to do it - my boyfriend of 10 years (so it's not really MARRIAGE counseling) has finally agreed to therapy - so he and I are going to a licensed MFT next week. We are having problems that revolve around money (I don't think he pays his fair share - he thinks I should be compassionate while he figures out how to make money at something he loves) his daughter (I don't think he is involved enough in her life - and I pick up the slack - but he thinks everything is fine and that I'm too involved in her school work) and his daughter's Mom (I believe that he tends to walk on eggshells around her - and he doesn't defend me when she puts me down - and he says he's trying to keep the peace for his daughter's sake). I'm wondering how much of this I should lay out on the table in the first session. He wouldn't be surprised by any of it - as I've complained about all of it to him. Is there a standard procedure for the first session with a therapist?

2007-04-18 13:56:57 · 2 answers · asked by liddabet 6

I have no trust issues with my hubby and don't question his motives at all. Our marriage is great! It's just this girl he works with that has a marriage that's on the rocks and is constantly flirting with my hubby. Should I talk to her? I barely know her, she seems nice. An example of what she has done is rub lotion on his neck, he hated it and doesn't want her to do it again. To me that's just not right. What are your thoughts?

2007-04-18 13:42:42 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marriage is destroyed, and i want to fix it, but my husband has fallen out of love with me.he said the passion had gone out of our marriage, and suggested spicing it up.
We had a threesome with a close friend, and it has destroyed our marriage, i cheated on him with this guy,and lied about contacting him when i promised that i wouldnt,and my husband has moved out.I have always let my husband follow his dreams,he joined the military when i was pregnant with our 2nd child,then quit,is in a deadend job with his family, and i always stayed because i love him,and now feel like he has deserted me and our 3 children. I am very sorry for what i did,and want to fix our marriage, but my husband doesnt want to.He has put me through a lot, and wont even give me a chance,I am destroyed,i have lost the love of my life, and dont know what to do.We are still friends, and i suggested counselling but he is not interested.He hates me as a wife,but loves me as a friend,and i want him back,what do ido

2007-04-18 13:29:26 · 16 answers · asked by lolly 1

i am cheating on my bfriend which has given me a phone a car and i'm cheating on him him 4 an even richer guy that has a wife and is pregnant but is super cute,we have gone on so many date i've even gone to his house four lovemaking but i'm not so sure to dump my bfriend or 2 date the married man or his wife cuz i'm bi and so is she wut 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-18 13:24:09 · 22 answers · asked by elena_fitz 1

2007-04-18 13:20:53 · 28 answers · asked by daniele m 1

My daughter (26 yrs. old) says I'm pretty and I should wear them everywhere. I've just lost 26lbs, doing a make over.
It seems I'm being sabbataged on wearing my hair down and taking my glasses off. Also I'm told, "You are getting thin!"
I'm in my range of healthy weight. What should I do with a husband who feels threathen by all of this?

2007-04-18 13:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what we want them to be?

2007-04-18 13:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2

I've worked so hard to get my credit score up to the 700's, he wants to get married but i keep telling him i cant until he gets his credit up, he gets mad, then lets it go. he's horrible with money. he gets those payday loans every month cause he's short on the rent. He pays all the rent and i pay all the utilities cause he cant remember to pay more then 1 item. creditors call everyday cause he doesnt pay his stuff. i havnt gotten a creditors call in yrs. I've told him he needs to do somthing about it, ive even made out a budget where he can pay his stuff on time every month and still have about 200 left over to do whatever he wants. the next month he wants to buy something thats more then 200 he gets mad at me and says if i would have never made out the budget he wouldnt have to worry about spending more then $200, i was floored. i was like "what?" he buys these $1000 on credit then dosnt pay it off. I'm sick of having 2 put everything in my name!

2007-04-18 13:06:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband drinks a lot and i dont like the person he is when he drinks so i asked him not to drink in our house or around me. he can go to his freinds house to drink. he can stay there and chill with them and get all his problem off his chest.
we were both in the military he just got out i rejoined now he rubs it in my face every day that im still in the military while hes out getting drunk in the middle of the day. the reason i rejoined is so he could finish off his school. but that hasnt happend yet.
he says all i do is nag him and i do because i want him to start doing something
my question is am i wrong?

2007-04-18 12:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by kas 2

2007-04-18 12:59:00 · 7 answers · asked by moondog 1

Is marriage REALLY jus like havin cable tv with only 1 channel sayin 2 urself, man I need another movie channel or somthin.?

2007-04-18 12:49:35 · 32 answers · asked by HJ 2

Why men and women are coming to be so selfish . it's all about sex , money etc . no one care anymore about keeping the family together . children are not growing up with a father or a mother figure . cause , if is not the man , is the woman who walks out on their family . cause , they are messing around with somone else . and live their own children , bihind , to raise someone else kids . than to regret it later on ,
when is to late .

2007-04-18 12:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have the same quarrel all the time and I want to know if I am in the wrong. (1)He wants to gamble on the online casinos even if we are broke>(then lies about the $$, even though he knows I will catch him) I say it is a recreation and only extra $$ can be spent. (2) He says he should be able to come and go as he pleases any time he wants.> I say, lets compromise and you pick 1 night a week that belongs to you and I will do the same. He says that I am trying to control him and tell him what to do. When I try to tell him how I feel about these things he brushes me off and tries to make me the bad guy, always reminding me that because he works that he is "taking care of me and the kids". He runs his own biz and I do all of the clerical, web, advertising, etc...
Now can anyone help me out? I am about to give up and file for divorce

2007-04-18 12:01:53 · 34 answers · asked by tonyer71 2

I know a guy who is 5 inches when erect, but he tinks that girls will laugh at him..

2007-04-18 11:54:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

do all men try and take over on the computer as soon as they walk in through the door?

2007-04-18 11:27:33 · 32 answers · asked by Lisa T 6

I mean if you aren't comfortable enough in front of your fiance to fart and have it be funny, then you shouldn't marry them. And if you are friends with a girl you can fart in front of you should seriously consider marrying them. Yes no?

2007-04-18 11:05:48 · 15 answers · asked by mrmanseven 3

Pls check this first
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqXUelaTz6aEwnIdesmIBnjsy6IX?qid=20070326090329AAcWDhH

When I confront him,he said she is his friend's girlfriend and and he ask him to send her this email cause he doubt that she is fliriting n he wanna know what she will act,he said he know it was a bad thing to do but he swears its anything but betrayal,So how much true do you think thins story is
Thanks a lot

2007-04-18 11:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by shocking 1

I don't love him! I feel so guilty.

2007-04-18 11:01:36 · 15 answers · asked by broken heart 2

Im taking my exwife to court because she hasn't let me see my kids in 3 years. I know why wait so long, well after I pay my child support and rent, food, gas,taxes and so on I haven't had enough money to file to get into court. needless to say I cant hire a lawyer either, she has taken me to court multiple times for various things up to and including molesting my daughter's, but I have always proven her to be lying and tell the court each time she is not following the court ordered visitation schedule. So do I have a chance of getting my rights upheld?

2007-04-18 10:59:06 · 9 answers · asked by Clinton H 1

2007-04-18 10:54:51 · 22 answers · asked by joshuamichel07 1

We do not have a court ordered visitation agreement. We have agreed upon this informal arrangement. I have sole custody of the children.

2007-04-18 10:53:15 · 15 answers · asked by fro 1

Today I viewed my leave and earning statement and noticed that I have a garnishment of $323.46. I contacted payroll and they informed me that a garnishment of $646.00/month has been ordered against me. I contacted the Child
Support Agency and I was informed that I had a hearing on March 8, 2007. Enforcement was effective April 10, 2007. I was not aware of this because I transferred from the state of California December 28, 2007. My ex told the court that I make $5600/month this is untrue as I only make $2700.00 and I have my wife and two children living with me. I have sent the documentation along with my last two check stubs. I was told this can take a week to get a hearing - what are my chances this being lowered. The proposed judgement was for $250/month this is what I can afford.

2007-04-18 10:42:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am over 35 and he calls my mother and tells her every littile thing and my my mom comes after me.I am so sick of this

2007-04-18 10:36:00 · 20 answers · asked by broken heart 2

he is in prison and refuses . How could i go about getting a cheap divorce

2007-04-18 10:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by soldier2b1 1

His wife stood there and let him punch me and didnt do nothing. I'm pretty sure he beats her cause thats all he used to do to me. He don't pay child support and he stands the kids up so thats why I don't let him get the kids often. What should I do?

2007-04-18 10:32:50 · 21 answers · asked by tjohnson1 1