What if I get divorce and don't find another man out there?

Question

I don't love him! I feel so guilty.

Answer 1

If you are at the point of divorce then the last thing that should be on your mind right now is another man. And because you feel guilty means that there is still something left to your relationship. Sometimes when you are with someone for a while or spend to much time together you may not notice the feelings you have any more. Try separating temporarily to see if you feel anything then. A marriage is a commitment and deserves to be worked to on. You need to get in touch with your inner self right now. Only then can you make any rational decisions.

Answer 2

I think so many women feel this way when it comes to divorce, but there are SO many men out there and most likely one that will suit you better (if you really think you don't have the right one). Think back to dating, did you have more than one date? Then if yes, there's hope! There's really hope for anyone. Don't let being single disempower you. If you feel you should, need or can be happier, go for it. Just know that this "perfect man" may not be there next year or next month or 3 yrs from now. Some people, divorced or not don't find their perfect partner until they're 40 sometimes. I guess this sounds corny, but it's really true- love yourself. :-)

Answer 3

The right one will come along eventually. In the meantime if you don't love your husband then get a divorce if that is what you want. Then get out there and find a good job, and make friends, and do things with them. Enjoy your freedom. When you least expect it you might just find that man.

Answer 4

So what! Just think of all the fun youll have trying to find one. Besides think youll never have to answer for your actions to no man if you dont and youll be free to do whatever. Chances are love will reappear again when you least expect it and probably in the most unexpected place. You jsut have to be ready and able to recognize it when you fnd it and then know what to do with it once you found it again. Good luck

Answer 5

feel guilty about what? wasting your life? that's all you should feel guilty about, unless of course you married him when you didn't love him; nonetheless, divorce him and so what if you don't "find" another man.....what's worse, living a happy life single or being married and miserable? This isn't a dress rehearsal....you only have one life

Answer 6

If you don't find a man , can't you live alone? I was single for six years and I did find someone I wanted to share my life with , but I would have been just fine if I hadn't.

Answer 7

If you don't love him, you need to leave him so you both can try to find happiness. You both will in time. Your staying will only make your lives miserable. Go now, while you have time to find another.

Answer 8

you shouldnt be thinking about what if you dont find someone right away , get your life together and feel what is is like to be alone for a while so when the time comes , you are ready , dont stress over it , i am sure you will find someone

Answer 9

What do you need a man for? I think it's about time that women started defining themselves outside of men especially you (based on what I have just read).

Answer 10

It's always scary to think about that - but as time goes on and you get older, you're only wasting your own time. If you don't love him and he doesn't light your passion, then you need to move on. I know it's hard, but it's not fair to either of you. There are plenty of people out there looking, you just have to be willing to put yourself out there.