Im taking my exwife to court because she hasn't let me see my kids in 3 years. I know why wait so long, well after I pay my child support and rent, food, gas,taxes and so on I haven't had enough money to file to get into court. needless to say I cant hire a lawyer either, she has taken me to court multiple times for various things up to and including molesting my daughter's, but I have always proven her to be lying and tell the court each time she is not following the court ordered visitation schedule. So do I have a chance of getting my rights upheld?
2007-04-18 10:59:06 · 9 answers · asked by Clinton H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with all that crap going on you should be trying to get custody of your children, not just trying to get the visitation you are legally allowed to have......of course your rights will be upheld!
2007-04-18 11:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure do. As long as support is current, then sheis in contempt of court for not following your divorce decree and its provisions for visits. You dont really need an attorney here but you can always check with your local legal aid association for free advice, or hire a Paralegal if you ned one. Paralegal are just as good as Attorneys and are a whole lot cheaper too. But you can file yourself for a small fee and then go into court and tell the Judge the same thing you told us above. Thats all a lawyer will do anyway. Hopefully you have kept a log of all the times you tried to see your kids and the result and also all the times she has taken you to court. The courts are on your side here so dont worry. Good luck
2007-04-18 11:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Your rights should be upheld and, with any luck you will be able to get custody of your children from her after these incidents. This would also lead her to have to pay YOU child support if successful so your state of living might increase as well, which from how you describe your situation and the vile acts that your wife has been following through on, would make your life and your kids' lives much more managable and comfortable.
2007-04-18 11:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Henry W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right here something you should know.
the court is going to see what is best interest for the children .as for the mother and father fighting the court doesn't care about that . you become a carer . ok you need prove that she is doing wrong . you need to make sure your house is like clean . you look after yourself. the biggest thing the court look at is child is safe they are not going to place a child in a un safe place.
Don't worry about what she done due to you want to see your children . so this is about your children . you could be looking at 50 / 50 getting what you want .
When she took you to court did she get any order on you ? Due to that counts big time. plus they will ask why so long have you diecide to do take her to court.?
2007-04-18 11:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by MOONBEAM7699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you've proven that she has lied in the past will probably help you. I don't know if you will win but I think that will help you. That and the fact that you PAY your child support and she has not been following court ordered visitation.
2007-04-18 11:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by lashlao1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 05:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are not getting your legal visitation
rights but you are paying child support, yes, you
should go to court.
You could try putting your child support into "escrow"
instead of giving it to her to get her to pay attention.
Putting it in escrow essentially means that you have
already removed it from your funds but she can't
have it until some condition is resolved (that is,
she lets you visit).
2007-04-18 11:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Elana 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say eventually if you tried hard enough anything could happen. However, in most cases it depends on who you know and how much money you have. My personal advice is - cut the baggage and let it go.
2007-04-18 11:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be your own lawyer, remember we are presumed innocent in the states, not guilty.
2007-04-18 11:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋