my husband is having affair wid a south indian girl and neither i nor my husband wants to leave each other but he still wants tat girl to live wid us. an application for divorce had also been filed but he says tat it is just to get married wid her. UI won't let u go. I just want to contact tat girl to teach a good chapter.
2007-04-18 00:31:23 · 36 answers · asked by shaily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband is the one who is cheating wants to divorce you so he can marry her but keep you around? Its him that needs a good lesson. Tell him if he divorces you its over you won't share your life, home or your man with another woman. Maybe that is the pratice in India but here you have many choices and dont have to tolerate him cheating. He is getting what he wants at your expense. Leave the loser and find a man who will be happy with one wife.
2007-04-18 00:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-01 12:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby you may love this man but his heart seems to be with someone else and you deserve better than that, women deserve to be loved and respected and that is just a disrespect to your vows and to you. I wouldn't worry about contacting the girl I would worry about getting your husband out of your life, let the girl have him it probably wont be long before he disrespects her, As a women I know you are stronger than that! Concentrate on putting the pieces of lifes puzzle together on your own and do things to make you happy and leave one piece out of the puzzle being your husband, you do not need to have a man in your life who would do this too you! Believe in yourself divorce papers are the best thing for you to see right now although it may be hard I believe you can live a happy life without him and his soon to be wife! Good Luck Darling
2007-04-18 00:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by cbella06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
first of all why are you being a doormat by accepting your husband's affair and then filing a divorce, he does not love you.
he loves his lover that you want them to break. I feel this man has told you in brief he doesn't love you, wants a divorce and tells you where you can go?
if he loved you tell me why one earth he is telling you his glory plans to marry this gal and that he wants her to move.
If i was you i would consider cancelling the divorce petition and moving somewhere where that female cannot contact you immediately, i think you love this guy a lot and you wantto save your marriage, so now take the lead don't waste anytime and go somewhere far for a bit even if it is at your dada and dadi's house to get that old spark in your relationship and then start reworking on your realtionship.
if i was u i would take everything in my will to save my hubby from having a affair also if you think he truly loves' her then you step aside and see what happens
2007-04-18 00:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Perfectionist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that NO he does not love you.. Do you think he would if he was wanting to divorce you and be with this other woman..?
I am not sure what you mean about teaching this girl a good chapter. Do you mean teach her a good lesson..? You also need to remember that this girl may not even know about you. She may have been told a lot of lies by your soon to be ex...She may have even been told that he is not married.
You need to find that out from her first.
I'd say the only way to find her is to follow him and see where he goes..
Good luck.
2007-04-18 00:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have found some shortage & lack of some good quality in your love towards him but instead of telling u , he started blackmailing u by doing so. Do not try his negative trick. Improve your quality of love greatly. Do not be belligerent, adamant, harsh & anger shower against him. Try to do better make up to look better, younger, much more attractive, sweeter & more sexy before him at home. Do not fight. Speak in extremely lovely language slowly(not fast like Rakhee Sawant)with full delicacy. Make newer & newer good delicious dishes in small amounts daily only for him so that he asks to prepare more & appreciates. Try your level best to make him slowly God fearing, more responsible & principles follower so much that he realises his mistake , listens to u & leaves that girl forever. I can realise your pain , a good lady suffers if the husband behaves like this. When he is in good mood ask him having large amount of tears in your eyes what will be his reaction if supposing his sister faces such situation & fall down on earth after that. Pray God too much, stop watching TV, music or similar things & read religious books too much purposely when he is at home. Do not neglect the duty of a housewife in his presence b coz of his affair with that selfish & characterless girl.
Your husband must have the address & phone no. of that girl. Try to get from the belongings of your husband & contact her on phone if you wish.
2007-04-18 00:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not d girl u need to teach a good chapter to ur own husband. If he loves u then y d hell he is doing this????
I ur case I would have divorced him long time back.U deserve better. What if 2row he says that he dont love u any more?? charity begins at home. Its t girl's faul I do agree wid u but dear ur husband is more guilty.
2007-04-18 01:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u call him a husband since he lied to you and have an affair , sorry to tell you but don't show u deserve to be like what his doing to you . Be strong and leave him , it's not the end of your life . Just let him remeber that he insulted you like you don't do anything at all to make happy or satisfied , this kind of man has to be hang.
2007-04-18 00:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by amwid-u:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the divorce has been filed, better get it and a good sum as alimony and monthly maintenance you would need that.
Your thoughts of teaching that girl a good lesson (or chapter watever) does not sound proper. If you could make her understand about her fallacy then good, else let them get married and you find another partner.
2007-04-18 00:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God knows who will teach whom a good chapter, but I can fore see in your case your matrimonial home is in trouble. You believe your husband who has already filed a divorce case against you, one day he'll get a decree of divorce & next day you'll find yourself standing outside his home, with tears in eye cursing the newly wed your ex-husband & this girl. Then again you'll ask a question here in yahoo "Did actually my husband loved me or it was my wrong impression about him?" So dear don't remain in this wrong impression he loves you, he is just passing time so that he gets a ex-prate decree of divorce against you, throw you out & bring this new wife in his home, he just don't want you either to attend the divorce proceedings nor he wants you to take any legal remedies against him so the whole issue settles down coolly with out your intervention. Stop thinking of this girl at the moment take necessary steps saving your marriage first, either let him go ahead & take divorce from you or don’t allow him to take divorce from you. In both the cases start participating in courts proceedings now.
2007-04-18 02:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋