I met my Husband 2 years ago while we were both in a bar cruising for men. I was attracted to him by his big cowbay hat and leather trousers. He looked so good drinking that pink cocktail. But recently I have started to suspect he might be gay. What should I do?
Brian x
2007-04-18 08:40:16 · 87 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give him a map to a glory hole in the men's room. If he shows up and slips his jimmy deany into the hole, he's gay,
Wait a second, you sound gay. My gaydar just activated and it's never wrong. Maybe you should be on the other side of the glory hole. Make sure you shave your mustache first, otherwise you'll give yourself away.
2007-04-20 08:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
On one hand you can't exactly come right out and ask him- he may take it the wrong way, especially if he's not gay. On the other hand, you have the right to know if your own husband is gay so both you and he can be happy with someone you really love. I'd say wait it out a little longer and maybe drop very subtle hints that you'd want him to tell you. After a few months, consider being straight up (no pun intended) and asking him.
2007-04-18 08:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You signed your question "Brian X" so if your name is Brian and you have a husband, then yes, I suspect your husband is gay and so are you!! Just make him another pink COCKTAIL and go cruise the bars for other men!! Make it a threesome! :)
2007-04-18 08:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Uh-May-Zing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband were both in a bar cruising for men then surely that points a bit of a sign? Think About It
2007-04-18 08:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of you a bar looking for men and now 2 years later you think he may be gay. I have heard dumb statements before but yours takes the cake. Are you trying to be funny or are you this stupid?
2007-04-18 08:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Really ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU LOSER!!
UM IF HE WAS DRINKING A PINk cocktail with LEATHER pants cruising for MEN./....yeah heads up it should have taken two seconds not too years angel!
2007-04-18 08:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? It was all fine as a joke until you got to the pink cocktail ... a bit too over the top at that point.
2007-04-18 08:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am totally confused here, you didn't say why you suspect him of being gay, and you also confused me saying you were "both looking for men" Plus you signed it Brian X so that leads me to think maybe your a man. In which case, do you suspect your guy likes women too. I don't know how to answer your question. Its just to confusing.
2007-04-18 08:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too bad, but this does not have a quick-fix solution. If he is gay, he will remain that way. Question is, whether you want to continue to live with him, or NOT. "Decide that." Work it out legally, patiently and with "proper legally admissible evidence." Take a few senior family members who support the truth, with you, after convincing them about the actual truth.
2007-04-18 08:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that since you were both in a bar cruising for men, that would be a dead giveaway. You must not be very smart. Nice question, kid.
2007-04-18 08:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋