You know, the kids are a responsibility issue, and they mean there's a father out there to contend with, but...
none of that really matters if you are attracted to the woman, and she's a confident, flexible, respectful giver who has her act together that you can respect.
The problem is usually that the woman in question has low self esteem and is erratic because of it, or she has way too much emotional baggage to stop thinking about herself all the time, or she's learned to act disrespectful toward men.
It's not the kids that are likely to be the biggest problem: it's the woman.
2007-04-18 09:37:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I am sure there are lots of men and women that would date a woman in her 40s with small children, especially if she looked like Halle Berry, the flip side of that would be like who would date someone in their 20s with no kids that was ugly, mean and hideous? being in your 40s and having small children does not make you undesirable, having a crappy personality is what makes you undesirable.
2007-04-18 16:33:06
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answered by Maria A. 3
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There are plenty of men out there who do not desire that extra baggage; however, there are probably just as many who would.
This is what makes the world go round...there is someone for everyone.
2007-04-18 16:31:17
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answered by sunbun 6
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You would be surprised....there is someone for everyone, even a 44-yr-old with two small kids!
2007-04-18 16:27:45
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answered by Tangled Web 5
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A true gentleman will. If he's mature, understanding, confident etc..then it's not going to be an issue =)
2007-04-18 16:52:41
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answered by suzlaa1971 5
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well ... first their more to a women, than look, , but if i was not marrieed, i think i take you out, but, dont think wife, go for it,lol,,,,,but to be honest, their a lot of men , would date a women,, with a child,
2007-04-18 16:35:02
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answered by ghostwalker077 6
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Kids and age is not the problem, its how you ended the first relationship that is!
2007-04-18 16:29:04
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answered by fstmx 3
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I would date her. Marrying her would be another thing
2007-04-18 16:25:50
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answered by Anonymous
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As long as you're willing to be sexually active, I don't see a problem.
2007-04-18 16:32:12
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answered by terry m 3
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You just need one right? He is out there! Good Luck!
2007-04-18 16:32:17
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answered by me4tennessee 6
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