Marriage & Divorce - 17 April 2007

my friend's daughter

2007-04-17 07:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by legal supdt 1

2007-04-17 06:42:12 · 28 answers · asked by Rainbow K 102383 1

for all u married people out there. okay heres the thing i am married but just recently the guy who fathered my first child which is not my hubby got in a bad wreck and almost died, and i love my hubby more than anything in the world, but ever since the daughters dad was in a bad wreck and almost died i cant help but think about him, i even dream about him. now he is going to live but i cant seem to think about how i almost never got the chance to see him alive once more. we were never actually dating we were just really good freinds with benefits. i havent seen him for over 5 years. i let that part of my life go, but ever since his accident i cant seem to get him off of my mind. why is this happening? why am i having all of these thoughts and feelings? i love my husband and will NEVER leave him, we just had are first child together. i need some advice.

2007-04-17 06:35:25 · 8 answers · asked by greengrass 3

I had two and did not get caught. It was easy if you do not get careless. I never got careless. I did not change my routine at all. He never knew.

2007-04-17 06:28:07 · 23 answers · asked by Momma K 1

I am 22 yrs old and hubby is 24 yrs old.We have been married a 1.5 yrs our relationship was always on again off again mixed in with love-hate.I just graduated from college and he is in the air force currently in England.To get to the point at one of his friends bachelor party's he got drunk and had sex with one of the strippers.Our relationship got really nasty after this he went to England saying he would do as he pleased.Out of revenge i went and had fling with an ex.bf got pregnant .I am 6.5 months pregnant not told anyone and hidding it .My hubby is being transfered and comes home in 2 months he says he wants to work things out but i dont think this applies.

2007-04-17 06:16:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am intending to go to india my and my fiance are british citizens. So under what act exactly do I marry?
Also under the astrology process I cannot see my hubby until1 days after marriage so is it possible if he signs the marriage certificate alone then me alone, so we cannot see each other.

will our details e.gdate of birth, full name, occupation be stated on the certificate before we sign it, and does anyone know any temples in the punjab district where the mandir gives a certificate of 'shaadi' and details of marriage court too

all replies will be appreciated
regards

2007-04-17 06:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6

My husband got a new job 6 months ago. It's a high profile once in a lifetime chance. I have been very supportive of him (he had to go to school for 3 months and we were without his income for this time) and I am also very excited and happy for him. Anyway, ever since he took this job, he has been terrible to live with. I was always able to talk to him before (married a long time) but now whenever I say something about work - he says "Don't question me" and I have to walk around on eggshells to keep him from blowing up at me. It has gotten to the point that I don't even want to be in the same house or room with him. We have two teenagers. They notice a change too. He can't have a normal conversation anymore, it has to be about work. I feel like a piece of furniture in my own home. This has been going on for three months. We still are not where we want to be financially, but he is good at what he does and I know things will work out in this regard. Any advice?

2007-04-17 06:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by casey308 2

I am in Oregon. I used to live in CA. My first husband passed away. A few years later I married again. He moved down from Oregon. He had no job, no money. Everything was in MY name. I sold that home and bought a home in Oregon. Stupidly, I put it in both of our names. He is still not working and has put me in debt. If I divorce him and can prove this in court, would I be able to keep my house and him not get any of it? What about debt incurred during the marriage? Would he be responsible for any of it? We have been married less than 2 years.

2007-04-17 05:43:50 · 19 answers · asked by Disco Diva 3

Well I am not trying to complain here...just trying to understand how to deal with a mom in law who always makes rules. I am forced to become 'the obidient' daughter in law everytime she makes the rules. I dont mind if she interferes in the big decisions...but not in every small detail of my life!! ...even about what i wear! for God's sake ..dont you feel its too much interference in ones life!!
I really dont want to say anything bad to her...cos i know thats the way she is bought up...how do i intelligently deal with this...how do i become a little more assertive and still not hurt her feelings!?!? Please help.
And my mil has come to visit me here for a couple of months and am having hell of a time dealing with her!

2007-04-17 05:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hus doesn't know. Should I tell him? We don't even live in the same state now.

2007-04-17 05:41:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband says things to me like: Your selfish and always want your own way, you don't beleive me, don't think i'm just going to beleive things you say 100%.These things really hurt me, and i cannot beleive he feels so strongly inside like this. I asked him, if you truly feel these things about me then why don't you leave me? He says because he loves me. I don't understand how a husband can think or even say such things to his wife, and still feel that he loves her. Even yet, when i am working out he makes comments at me and say "Ummm, you look so sexy, etc...and physically wants to touch me all over and kiss all over me. Can someone PLEASE explain this to me what is going on? I am so confused by my husband. I wonder is he trying to push me away, is he cheating, is he waiting for me to end our marriage etc,etc....????

2007-04-17 05:30:45 · 24 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

I've been married for 2 years, and cheated on my husband. I feel like my lover and I have more in common, and compliment eachother. He's married too. We've both never fooled around. I broke it off with my lover. I'm not sure if I made the right decision? I never thought I would have found myself in this situation. My lover has children with his wife. He was going to leave until I broke it off. I always felt like he would never stay with me anyway because he would feel guilt over leaving his children behind. He hasn't been in love with his wife over a year. I love my husband, but he has been verbally abusive to me, and won't get help. I think about this other man all the time. I'm confused, and I am trying to keep busy. It seems like when one person is ready to make sacrifices the other person get scared, and says they just can't change their situation for one reason or another. We both don't want to hurt our spouses. In the end, we will have heartache, what do I do????

2007-04-17 05:24:52 · 27 answers · asked by Confused Chick 1

I am in a 7 yr relationship with my boyfriend, we have lived together
> now for 7 yrs and at first he was loving and attentive. But at first
> he would say things like "our relationship is on a day to day basis
> today I am here but tomorrow I might not be" It tugged at my heart
> and made me want to prove to him that I do love him and that this
> relationship is the best thing that ever happened to him. 18 months
> into our living together (I have 2 kids then they were 7 and 8 yrs
> old) we went to his brothers for new years eve with the kids, he got
> mad and wanted to leave and me and the kids didn't want to so he
> started yelling at me and I was crying, so his brother came over gave
> me a hug and said "are you ok?, he shouldn't talk to you like that"
> that inraged Jim even more and told me to get my AS_ in the car and
> why do I have to be such as stupid CUN_! I was scared at this point,
> cause I never saw this side of him before, I left the kids there and
> took him home when we got home packed his things and said its been
> nice the last 18 months with you, have a good life. I was sobbing,
> beggin him to not leave, but he did anyway and I was devastated. the
> next day I called every motel in town til I found him, I went there
> we made up and he came home and over the next 6 1/2 yrs that has been
> the cycle he will get mad, call me names, pack his things and leave
> and would go after him. As the years went on he became more and more
> like Jekyl and Hyde. my kids are now 14 and 12 and they hate him,
> they hate how he makes me cry, they hate the names he calls, one time
> he got mad because he thought I slammed my dresser drawer shut and I
> tried to tell him I didn't and he spit in my face, he got so mad
> another time he threatened to bash my head into the wall. Now my son
> is wanting to go live with his dad because he can't stand the way
> things are at my house, and all I do now is cry. And NOW my
> boyfriend wants me to leave, I KNOW he is verbally and sometimes
> physically abusing me, and my children, SO WHY ISN'T THIS ENOUGH TO
> WANT IT TO BE OVER WITH? Why do I want nothing more than to be with
> him? HELP? How do I get through this?
>

2007-04-17 05:22:25 · 23 answers · asked by lynlee39 1

i am 33 year old male and i have a 31 year old feonsay and my parents don;t want us to get married because they think we will make the same mistakes my parent did they are verry protective i am getting married this july her birthday and i don;t want my parent to get in the way after we get married is there any thing they can do? like putting a consevitership on me? so they canot do anything once i get married?

2007-04-17 05:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by stephen w 1

2007-04-17 05:02:22 · 42 answers · asked by thing 2 2

I will do anything to have him look at me the way he use to! I cry everynite because I cant take the way we cant talk or even hug in bed!! I feel so depressed Its running through my mind 24/7, I wish there was someway to let him know I would never hurt him again!!

2007-04-17 05:01:42 · 51 answers · asked by Cyn. 1

He thinks I'm too strict. I think he's too lenient. We both feel like we can't get anywhere with the other. I email or call him to ask a question about something our daughter has been doing. I want to know if he's noticed it, and if so what he does about it. I also want him to know where I stand, and what I've done to try and correct the situation. He automatically thinks I'm accusing him of the actions. Even if I explain that I'm not accusing him of causing it. I just want to know if he approves of the action, or if he's trying to disciple her. Every time I try to talk to him we end up in a huge fight. He's incredibly sensitive, and according to him I'm incredibly insensitive. Of course neither one of us believes the other. I told him I wanted to find a way for us both to compromise and meet in the middle. He feels he's doing everything right. I feel the same way about myself, but I'm at least willing to meet him in the middle. He's not. I don't know what to do.

2007-04-17 05:00:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 04:54:51 · 3 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

Who do you think has more opportunities to cheat? (not necessarily follows through but has the chance)

2007-04-17 04:49:06 · 28 answers · asked by Mike N 1

My girl friend wanted me to know that after her parents pass away she wants to take care of her sister who has got down syndrome. I think this would cause a lot of problems in our future relationship after her parents pass away. Specially now that I would love to have kids myself. She got very upset when I told her that we would take care of her, but not by her moving in with us, because she needs to be suprvised 24/7and I am not sure if I we can provide that for her. She thought that I was very insensitive we had a major argument over this. Any suggestions?

2007-04-17 04:39:59 · 16 answers · asked by Dan 1

My husband and I both feel like we do the majority of the work taking care of the house. How do other couples divide up housework so that it's more even? We try things like whoever does not cook does dishes, but my husband will 'do the dishes' still leaving 1 or 2 things on the counter, not wipe down the stove or counter or sink and I end up cleaning up after his cleaning. I've never seen him clean a toilet in his life even when he claims to have 'cleaned the bathroom'. I suppose I should feel grateful for the bit he does, but I end up just feeling like I have to 'finish' everything. I even tried once for a week only picking up after myself to see how long it took him for his messes around the house to make him crazy, he didn't notice so after a week I ended up cleaning everything again. We've tried talking about this but like I said he claims he feels like he already does all the work. . what do we do?

2007-04-17 04:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by BluEyedGrl31 2

I am in love with a girl from the Philippines & we would like to get married in India. Could anyone please advice on the procedure to do that & on the relevent documents she has to bring from her country. I am Indian citizen. How can we register the marriage & is there any rule prevailing for a marriage of an indian with a foreigner in india. Please help...

2007-04-17 03:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Jammit 1

I mean, they got what they wanted (divorce) why aren't they happy? Were their husband's right, they will never be happy? Just wondering?

2007-04-17 03:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

So the classic married so long, she is completely uninterested in sex, even on birthday's. So will it be wrong to go to a house of disrepute / massageparlour and pay for the pleasure ?

2007-04-17 03:02:34 · 53 answers · asked by Harryboy 1

2007-04-17 02:45:40 · 20 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2

I see this a lot on Y! Answers. Don't they know it makes them look ten times worse?!

2007-04-17 02:39:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my husband and i first met he was sleeping with me and my sister. he had told us both not to tell any one we were sleeping with him. being close we told each other not knowing the other was sleeping with him. i ended up pregnant, he and i are now married. i have cheated 2 times he says he has never and never would. I have had a mutual friend tell me that he thought my husband was cheating. the friend had nothing to gain or loose. my husband told our friend to not come around us any more, saying he lied. now my husband and i have an almost non existant sex life and we have nothing in common. what do you think about this/

2007-04-17 02:34:31 · 26 answers · asked by nikkie_girl_77 1

I mean really, doesnt sex come with marriage? if one spouse is going to withhold it, I say you should be allowed to get it somewhere

2007-04-17 02:18:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks. We went out & he was the perfect gentleman. I had to initiate going out because he wanted to make sure I was comfortable with us going out. We talk for hours & we have kept in touch since the date. Recently he went a few days without talking to me & I assumed he was no longer interested. We all have someone on the side when u are not in anything serious & I just figured since I hung out with my "someone" this weekend, maybe he did the same thing so I was not worried if he was not interested, but then he called me on Sunday & we picked up where we left off & I'm thinking maybe he is interested. Last night I had a family issue & needed someone to talk to so I called him. He was very supportive, he talked me through it & he made me laugh, he even seemed happy that I called. He is a country boy & I am a city girl & our approach is different, but I am wondering is he interested, but just waiting for me to bring it up or is he not interested.

2007-04-17 02:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 01:52:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous