I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks. We went out & he was the perfect gentleman. I had to initiate going out because he wanted to make sure I was comfortable with us going out. We talk for hours & we have kept in touch since the date. Recently he went a few days without talking to me & I assumed he was no longer interested. We all have someone on the side when u are not in anything serious & I just figured since I hung out with my "someone" this weekend, maybe he did the same thing so I was not worried if he was not interested, but then he called me on Sunday & we picked up where we left off & I'm thinking maybe he is interested. Last night I had a family issue & needed someone to talk to so I called him. He was very supportive, he talked me through it & he made me laugh, he even seemed happy that I called. He is a country boy & I am a city girl & our approach is different, but I am wondering is he interested, but just waiting for me to bring it up or is he not interested.
2007-04-17 02:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, he's VERY interested, he's just a "country boy", and we country boys do things a little different. We take it slow and easy. Keep up what you're doing though...he enjoys it. He will get up the courage to ask you out, before long. Good Luck!!
2007-04-17 02:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's a possibility that he's a little shy and doesn't know quite how to approach a city girl. Or maybe he's just looking for a friend. The only person who can really answer that is him. If you can find a nonchalant way to bring up the question, maybe you can get him to give you closure on that.
2007-04-17 02:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Raingirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, we don't all have "some on the side":. Some of us have expectations for our own behavior that includes no sex with people we don't really respect enough to have a relationship with.
Grow up, and then maybe a real gentleman will find you appealing. Right now you are seriously lacking in the character department, and a real gentleman is going to smell it on you rather quickly, and then he won't take you seriously.
2007-04-17 02:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he or you are married then you both should not be seeking a relationship with anyone else but your partners! You would seriously hurt the other people involved and take it from someone who has had that happen it freaking feels like someone is ripping your heart out and stomping on it. You should try to work it out with your partners and if that doesn't happen and a divorce should take place then pursue each other!
2007-04-17 02:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my "boyfriend" have not talked to each other in two days even though sunday, i called back the phone was busy then i called again and he wasn't there and he didn't call me none the rest of the day and none yesterday and my phone is at home right now so i'll see if he calls, i'm the type of person that doesn't call anybody i feel that if they really want me or if they really want to be with me they'll call me, and i am not bout to call him back, maybe i'll just move on while he's doing his own thing.
2007-04-17 02:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he's waiting,, taking things slow and steady,, as to not scare you away?!!?
If you and he both have someone on the side,, or what ever maybe you should talk openly about what you each are expecting?
Guys aren't really that hard to understand you just have to speak slowly and clearly for them to understand LOL ( kidding)
2007-04-17 02:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting for you to do what? You have only been spending time with this guy for a few weeks. You both are dating other people as well. What else do you need.....a lifetime commitment? What you have is a new friend. Be grateful.
2007-04-17 02:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well going on what you've said, you have someone who you "hang" out with occasionally but you've also "dated" this country boy which is probably sending mixed signals to him. Perhaps he is thinking "maybe she just wants a friend". Why not just ask him.
2007-04-17 02:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Hopeful Hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your family issues are scary the boy off. He's into you but you got baggage. It's too early to get into that stuff. You are supposed to develop him and you before you bring others into it. Concentrate on him when you are out with him and not go on about your probs.
2007-04-17 02:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by ANGIE A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not interested
2007-04-17 02:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋