i am 33 year old male and i have a 31 year old feonsay and my parents don;t want us to get married because they think we will make the same mistakes my parent did they are verry protective i am getting married this july her birthday and i don;t want my parent to get in the way after we get married is there any thing they can do? like putting a consevitership on me? so they canot do anything once i get married?
2007-04-17 05:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by stephen w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you aren't 33.. you can't be.
your paragraph and question would be spelled correctly, and sound more educated.
not only that, if you are 33 and getting married and letting your parents still rule your life, then you are a momma's boy, and your fiancee needs to run for the hills.
2007-04-17 05:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kaja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you are the age you say you are, and assuming you are legally capable of making your own decisions (in other words don't have diminished mental capacity), then you can marry whoever you want to, whenever you want to, your parents have no say here.
However, your appalling spelling leads me to believe you're no where NEAR 33, and your FIANCE is no where near 31, you guys aren't even 1/2 those ages. In which case, your parents can completely prevent you from marrying, and they should, you're too young. Grow up, finish school (go to English class especially), and get a job. Then worry about getting married.
2007-04-17 05:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feonsay and conservitership are new words to me.
This must be a product of huuked on phoonix, can't operate the spell check.
Do yourself and your feonsay a favor and go back for some english classes.
2007-04-17 07:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 33 and 31 you do what you want. It's your life. Your parents are always have their opinion. You have to do what you feel is right in your heart. If you want to marry this person than do it. Your not a child anymore; you make your own decisions. If you parents don't like it than they'll just have to learn how to deal with it. Your life is your life. Not theirs.
2007-04-17 05:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personality think that you shouldn't care what your parents or her parents say or think about you getting married. It's up to you and your finance. If you guys want to be together don't let anything stop you from it okay. Love only comes once in your life so hold on to it don't ever let it go. Your parents and her parents will be upset but they will get over it eventually. I hope I answered your question.
Take Kare and God Bless!!
2007-04-17 05:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by You Reap What You Sow! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can choose to marry if you want to. I understand why your parents are concerned BUT you are an individual and this is your relationship and not your parents and this is YOUR marriage and NOT theirs. Do not let your parents get in the way and marry for the right reasons and love and be with each other til death do you part. Good luck to you and I wish you the best. This is your life and you need to make this decision for yourself and for your life and your parents will just have to learn to accept you and your decision and let you make your own choices in life.
2007-04-17 05:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both adults and have the right to live any way you choose. Unless you stand up to your parents, you're going to be a very lonely 50 year old.
Unless there are issues you're not telling us about, they cannot prevent you from getting married and getting your own life.
Good luck. Stand up to your parents if this is what you want. It's your right.
2007-04-17 05:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult and conservatorship is only for those that are minors or incapable of taking care of themselves.
If you are 33, have your own place, have a job that pays your own bills and are actually living your own life then there should not be a problem.
Ask for their support but accept that they do not have to give it to you. They may just sit back and think that you will fail. Prove them wrong by being sublimely happy!
2007-04-17 05:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, a conservatorship may be applied if one is either a minor or an adult who is developmentally disabled. Perhaps it would help ease your thinking if you were to consult with an attny for advice.... if you feel so strongly that your parents would do such at your age. It would be wise to completely understand your situation before taking on a life's decision.
2007-04-17 05:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 33, they can't do anything anyway. However, if you are really worried about it, I would suggest moving as far away from them as you feel comfortable with!
2007-04-17 05:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋