Marriage & Divorce - 17 April 2007

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2007-04-17 01:51:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like no matter what job he has he finds something wrong with not to the point of quitting but to the point of threatening that he will. He seems to find something wrong with all of his co-workers as well, even about the things he eats he finds something wrong with it or has some comment to make about it, like- it's too dry, what did you do different, this needs pepper, that needs salt. O.k. I understand the normal conversation at dinner and I vaule his opinion and I could care less what he things about my cooking but it's this work thing... It seems like he is not happy unless he is telling some one something to do, how to do it or bitching I am concerned there may be a health issue behind his behavior and there are some health issues going on with him but all tests are not done, he goes for more tomorrow - I feel like telling him to just quit his job sometimes b/c he gets so upset so easily!

2007-04-17 01:50:04 · 19 answers · asked by sophia_of_light 5

I got a message from one guy here, who tells me that I have no right to say that I feel abused unless I have brooses on my face or broken bones. He says that if someone punishes you with silence and walks away from conversation it's a sign of maturity. Personally, I think he has no clue. For several reasons: 1) you can not compare people and "who suffers more, and who less", "who has the right to feel down and who does not"; 2) some forms of abuse are subtle, but damage your self-esteem. There is a difference between being whiny or being manipulated in a relationship and sad. What do you think? I hate it when people are trying to define your reality for you.

2007-04-17 01:45:22 · 31 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

Details - we have been married almost 15 years, we have 3 children. My husband has decided he is unhappy and wants to end it. I believe the majority of why he is unhappy is my fault because I am unhappy with myself. After a couple weeks of discussing this I have come to the conclusion that I need to fix myself top priority, however I am still very much in love with my husband and I don't want to give up. Actually this is two questions I guess. First off I am fixing my "depression" for lack of a better word and that is my top priority for me and my children regardless. My dilemma is do I just let him go and fix myself or do I fight for us? I really think that if I can be happy with myself again that it will help us. Next part of the question is if I do decide to fight for us do I just do it and see what happens or do I tell him I am going to fight for us?

2007-04-17 01:41:33 · 28 answers · asked by tazzlair 2

2007-04-17 01:30:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love this boy, i can't get him out of my head.
This girl tried to break us up and it worked... dont know who she was and he didnt know either.... we kind of just stop contacting each other after that... this happened around october last yr!
He's a great guy, very good looking but i cant trust him... cuz i fear he will go off with other good girls! but i just cant get him out of my head, i have really fallin for him... i love his personality the most!! Already half a yr is nearly gone , what should i do? should i move on then come back to him later on in the future? or should i just tell him? or forget about him for good?

2007-04-17 01:26:33 · 15 answers · asked by amy r 1

that i feel every person in my life is expendable meaning if they dont wanna be here in my life for whatever reason i am not gonna cry about it i freely let them walk . i have told my wife that. as long as both of my kids get the child support they are entitled to and taken care of whats the big deal. kinda waste of time to have people around you who dot wanna be

2007-04-17 01:22:04 · 19 answers · asked by badboysmovensilence 1

Should I confront him on my suspicions? All my friends tell me to just leave him without even talking about it, (even though I dont have any real proof of anything) but my cousin said I should keep my suspicions to myself and try to seduce him with sexy clothing and romantic getaways. I'm very confused on what to do.

2007-04-17 01:02:25 · 15 answers · asked by Kim B. 1

he tolk everything and want let me see my kid the courts had said i can but i cant get anyone to help me it been 4 years everytime i get a lawyer hey do nothingto help me this is not right plesssssss help me my babe needs me and i need her

2007-04-17 00:26:50 · 5 answers · asked by candy babe 2

2007-04-17 00:16:59 · 4 answers · asked by Push I 2

After 11 years my ex-fiance decided she doesn't want to get married but wants to keep things the way they are. We've talked about marriage several times, picked out a ring for $14,000, and have a 7 year old daughter together. We purchased a beautiful home, a few nice cars, but still we're just boyfriend and girlfriend. Where do I go from here? I told her that marriage is the next step but she doesn't want to be married now. I love her but I'm thinking I wasted enough time if that is her final decision. She says if it's not broke don't fix it and that we don't need a piece of paper to show how much we love each other. Leaving her would be the hardest thing for me to do mainly because of our daughter.

I could really use some advice - although I know the decision if my own! Please help!

2007-04-17 00:11:59 · 13 answers · asked by flsuave 2