Marriage & Divorce - 17 April 2007

2007-04-17 15:39:20 · 19 answers · asked by califrniateach 4

For me, "Enduring Love" is NOT a perservering love between a couple in order to attempt to make their relationship work... NO...

It is what I call: Being used as a doormat by an abusive, and selfish partner.

2007-04-17 15:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He then change drastically in like a week. He decided he wanted to be a rock star and just started not coming home. About a week later he admitted to cheating on me one day that past week. He won't tell me who with, and he seems very regretfull. He is still avoiding me though, and says they are just freinds and she did not know about me. I asked him to decide if he wanted to make this work and end contact with her? He didn't say he would end contact with her but that they were not physical now. He said he loves me and it was more about his uncertainty in what he wants that drove him to it. We were best friends before this. I don't know what to do. I can't really make it on my own right now either because I am in college and we have a lot of pets. 7 years is a lot to throw away. He says he needs time, because he is not sure if he wants freedom or love. I just feel like a fool. Some advise would help.

2007-04-17 15:37:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby and i have been married 3 yrs currently we are recently seperated.I am giving it one last shot at trying to understand him.This question pertains to sex i have not had an orgasim in over a year.I am a female that loves visual stimulation but my hubby gets embarassed or uncomfortable if i mention it.He tries to romance me for sex but i told him that 4 times a year of romance is fine.Him beeing romantic for me is actually a turn off the slow music put me to sleep and i am just not into romance in general.Hubby is also conservative about trying anything new position wise?

2007-04-17 15:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica S 1

My husband and I have been married now for 10 Years. We have 5 beautiful boys. It just seems that lately he has been ignoring me. He dosent sit and have an adult conversation with me. But when his best friend comes over he will sit and discuss our personal issues with him. Yes i get upset because that should be me hes talking to. And anytime I do try to talk to him he dosen't understand me and thinks im complaining about something. But Im not. Am I wrong for feeling this way? And my husband and I own our own construction business. When he gets mad at me he will tell me His friend is going to work with him and he don't need me. That makes me feel like hes pushing me out of the way. We didn't get to where we are today with the help of his friend. They have only been friends for 4 years now. I dont understand he tells me he not going to help his friend and stuff but turns around and does. And anytime his friend is around Its like the kids and I arnt there. How do I get him to talk to me?

2007-04-17 15:27:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

can my my sons mother be brought up on charges somehow for knowing that I am the father of our son, that I wanted desperately to be a part of his life, and knowlingly leaving me off of the birth certificate?

2007-04-17 15:23:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel so bad to say it but I really dont like my in-laws and at times I find myself wanting a divorce. I have beautiful son and I would hate to have him go threw such a thing.

2007-04-17 15:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 10 years overreacts to pretty much everything. He puts 110% of himself into his work and career and going golfing with his buddies and when he is at home he is always barking orders at the kids and if they don't respond within a split second he goes off on them and acts like they just got brought home by the police for something awefull. One is 10 and the other is 8. He has no patience with them and no interest in trying to talk to them and teach them. He rarely spends any quality time with them and has the attitude of children should be seen not heard. He doesn't do anything with our son and when i finally get him to go outside and play catch or shoot hoops they are back in in about 5 minutes for one reason or another and its usually the "fault" of our son. I dont know what to do. I grew up with a father that was very similar but worse as he could be physically abusive. My husband in not.

2007-04-17 15:21:08 · 12 answers · asked by sg1fan76 1

2007-04-17 15:14:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 15:10:32 · 19 answers · asked by Caroline 1

Again, sorry ladies if I happen to offend you, but my burning question desires to be answered:

Does the trend of the "independent woman" contribute as one of amongst the reasons to the increasing divorce rates amongst married couples in today's likewise increasingly demanding world?

2007-04-17 15:05:54 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 15:04:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My divorce was finalized in Nov 2006. I had been married for 4 of the longest years of my life. Since the divorce I have been happy as He*l.
I go out of town for a wedding and when I get back there are flowers waiting for me from my ex at both my home and job.
He has started calling me & emailing me to go out to dinner with him. I am not going to go but I may have to get a court order or something. But I just wanna know how come some men can't accept when its over.
I haven't heard from him since Nov or Dec 2006. He says that he still loves me. All of this is just out of the blue.

2007-04-17 14:54:34 · 8 answers · asked by hotsista0201 2

2007-04-17 14:50:30 · 15 answers · asked by Julian M 1

My husband left us about a year ago....he lives close by with his girlfriend and has the kids Wed. nights & every other weekend - he pay child support but does nothing else. I kept the house (long story - he left 2 years ago also and I re-fied to 'buy him out' for $25 K) so I have the $1650 mtg with $2000 for support . I have 4 kids, a house in disrepair, a 6 year old that is so stubborn and willfull that I truly don't know what to do and no job. I have been selling on eBay & doing cake decorating to make ends meet but it isn't enough. I am having difficulty finding work that will pay more than a sitter since I quite working 10 years ago to become a stay-at-home-Mom.........

Holy crap......I try to keep up with them all, homework, laundry, housecleaning, meals,etc... I could go on & on. I am at my wits end and I just can't seem to get the 6 yr. old to mind me - my oldest (a 13 yr. old son) seems to think he needs to take over the "Dad's" role, there are not enough hours in the day

2007-04-17 14:48:10 · 15 answers · asked by Clarissa 4

great until the past 6 months, Hes become very possessive and jelous and its driving me nuts. We have always been complete opposites where he is very anti social and I am very social but I have never given him a reason to be jelous. I went for a girls night out with friends on the weekend and I spent more time answering my mobile phone to him. When I got home he was sitting in the dark waiting for me. It was really weird. What the hell is going on with him? What should I do because I have absolutely had it.

2007-04-17 14:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by khaismummabear 1

Someone suggested this in another posting, so I'll put it up as a question. If you decide to "let yourself go" in your marriage, does your spouse have a right to complain?

2007-04-17 14:01:25 · 10 answers · asked by Pythagoras 7

her to go "dutch"?

2007-04-17 13:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to join the army national guard to better my self for my family. unfotunatly my wife hates the idea. shes comming around to the idea, but she still doesnt like it. is there anyway i can help convince her that this is the right choice for our family? plz help!

2007-04-17 13:47:22 · 27 answers · asked by james g 1

2007-04-17 13:43:01 · 32 answers · asked by rampdogg2000 2

I feel like he pouts all the time. I'm stressed too. How do we keep from fighting? We keep wanting to be by ourselves. His just locked himself in the bedroom to be alone. Serious answers only, please.

2007-04-17 13:30:47 · 8 answers · asked by Topanga 1

My kids keep asking me why me and my ex wife broke up. Should i just tell them that their mother is a cheating sl*t? She cheated and left me for another man. I won't be telling them something they aren't going to find out on their own.

2007-04-17 12:48:40 · 35 answers · asked by Michael N 1

2007-04-17 12:48:34 · 21 answers · asked by sandra t 1

It is a health project..thanks!

2007-04-17 12:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had to marry again, would you wait longer? Would you live together first? Are you still married? Years married? Thanks for your help in advance!

2007-04-17 12:45:21 · 21 answers · asked by cee cee 3

Basically if they were to arrest you, would they at least let you go through the proceedings of divorce and then maybe take you in. Hope you can help with this.

2007-04-17 12:44:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been 2gether 7yrs and he's only got six months...But I want to marry him ASAP.Seriously DO NOT TELL ME NOT 2 MARRY HIM!I'm grown and I want serious answers only and NOT ADVICE ON WHY NOT.

2007-04-17 12:36:05 · 13 answers · asked by â? Bad Kittenâ?  1

Why is it that most wives/women, enjoy being spanked by their husbands, but only AFTER the fact? In the same way that boundries that a man places on his woman to protect the relationship provide security. A man who cares enough to provide boundry's provides security as well. Agree? disagree?

2007-04-17 12:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hard to explain, none the less,, still want one, a milf that is. Or any women that is not getting the attention she wants.

2007-04-17 12:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3

I know that it's by no means the only reason, but it just seems that for so many people, it's the solution to every problem. What are some other reasons?

2007-04-17 12:24:32 · 15 answers · asked by x_chynadoll814_x 4