I feel so bad to say it but I really dont like my in-laws and at times I find myself wanting a divorce. I have beautiful son and I would hate to have him go threw such a thing.
2007-04-17 15:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then suck it up. You knew what your in-laws were like when you got married and now you are condsidering tearing your son's family apart because you didn't heed the warnings beforehand??
For your son's sake you are going to need to suck it up, smile, and try to make the best of it. Don't destroy your child's family because you ignored their behavior before you married their son. He needs his mom and dad there for him. It's more important than most of the world realizes anymore.
2007-04-17 15:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Do not divorce because of the in-laws. Love your husband and work on your marriage and just stay away from the inlaws as much as possible. Good luck to you and your marriage.
2007-04-17 22:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying together for the sake of a child is a bad idea. My parents did that and I was miserable... Divorcing because you don't like your in-laws is also a bad idea. It's your marriage that you need to look at. Do you want this marriage and are you willing to work at it?
2007-04-17 22:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I know how you feel. I'm there right now. Getting a divorce, because I can't stand the in-laws getting involved in our marriage. In-laws are known to tear a marriage apart if you let it. I've been dealing with mine for 18 years though and just got tired of the crap.
2007-04-17 22:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think there are many of us out there who feel the same way. I too can not stand my intrusive MIL. I stay away from her as much to solve that problem.
We can not help our who are family are. Sometimes we just have a few not so great people in our family. Just try to keep your distance and breath.....lol
2007-04-20 11:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by shealia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married your wife, not her parents.
If they make you that uncomfortable then tell your wife. But don't get a divorce because of them.
If they want to see their grandchild, then they can at their house.
It's your house and your rules. If you don't want them over when you are home, then make your case. Your wife should be able to compromise with you on that one.
2007-04-17 22:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes putting some distance between you and your in-laws is helpful. Have you ever considered moving to another town or state?
2007-04-17 22:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by LaMariposa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep so busy the in laws won't be able to come around. you didn't say anything about the hubby? is he not sticking up for you? cuz it's not really the in laws that make me mad. it's the partner that lets them treat you like crap that pisses me off.
2007-04-17 22:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get a divorce,. you did not marry your in-law....
You know it works both ways,,,,,all have to give and take a
little......
talk to your husband/wife to speak to the parents and let them
know that they are interfering in your marriage and possibly
harming your relationship to your spouse.
communication is key to a good marriage....//good luck
You know when I first married, my mother-in-law tried so
hard to break us up,,,,,believe that is hard work,,,,,,,but
I made it my business to turn her around, a lot of work,
years in fact, but I won......with my attention and love that I
offered to her she finally had to give up. That was 35 years
ago.....My father in law always liked me and respected me....
2007-04-17 22:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by isageegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i truly hate my mother-in-law,but i love her son.she has taken us to hell and back lots of times.i finally took a good look at the things she does,and found it to be really hilarious at all the trouble she has to go to,to make us miserable.try and laugh her off. it's so much fun!!! it helps if your husband understands. otherwise just laugh to your self. try it please. don't let a big bad ***** get the best of you.and please don't give her what she wants,which is you leaving.
2007-04-17 22:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋