her to go "dutch"?
2007-04-17 13:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't expect, and don't assume. Just talk about it. The best surprise is no surprise. You'll have a much nicer evening.
2007-04-17 13:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by bullwinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if I was the only Man in her life .
I never worry about what a woman earns the way they do a man .
Men fall for the person not the prospect of a secure lifestyle .
At least that is the way i am .Money doesn`t make a woman attractive ,the person she is - Does.
Yes if I loved her I would buy her gifts and dine her .
2007-04-17 20:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do some of the paying yourself. As for DUTCH that will come when she feels that you appreciate her for her and not her money. I'm not saying do it all the time, but maybe it might be the little things that count with this one....holding hands, opening the car door, calling because you want to...etc...
2007-04-17 20:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by caffeinecowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money should never be the first thing you think about when you think about your woman. You should just love her and when you can treat do so. If you can't afford to take her out then stay in. If she wants to go out anyway then be honest and say you can't afford it this time. She should be happy to treat you if she wants to go out that bad. If she won't treat when you can't then she is just a leach...but be careful that you do not become the leach yourself!
2007-04-17 20:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you bought gifts because you cared about someone.... Because it pleased you to make somene happy.....to see a person that you care about smile.
I would'nt expect her or ask her to go dutch, but if she cares and knows your financial situation, she should offer at times to pay.
2007-04-17 20:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by hi_stk_n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about taking turns paying when you go out and i realy don't see how her having more money than me would have anything to do with the price of the gifts i bought her.
2007-04-18 02:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a touchy subject for me.. see my bf dont have as much as i do cause of child support.. when he lived with his cousins he got both him and his wife something for birthdays and xmas.. now he live with me ..nothinig.. i get nothing on those holidays..never have in the 3 yrs we have been together .. i keep telling myself i wont get him anything .. last xmas i finally did it and gave him nothing... this bd i will do it to.. i will get his daughter something though..alot of times we go dutch or i will pay or he will.. most of the time i get him something when we go shopping..me i see a pack of cigs once in a while.. or a drink
2007-04-17 21:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still buy her gifts/ flowers and meals which i can afford. if she want an expensive dinner, it time for her to buy me..
2007-04-18 00:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am i broke or am i doing okay money wise?if okay id still buy gifts and ask her to dinner.
DONT FORGET TO ASK THE GUY OUT SOMETIMES were humans still arent we?
2007-04-17 20:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by bloodbane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man and do the right thing, her money is her business.
2007-04-17 20:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋