Someone suggested this in another posting, so I'll put it up as a question. If you decide to "let yourself go" in your marriage, does your spouse have a right to complain?
2007-04-17 14:01:25 · 10 answers · asked by Pythagoras 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think so. Just because someone gets married does not mean that they do not haveto fix up from tim to time. I think that makes the person you are with still feel like you care enough to still try to impress them.
2007-04-17 14:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if your spouse let themselves go as well. I on the other hand want my wife to be in good shape so I work out. I also encourage her to the same. I help her by finding workouts and do "some" pushing. It has worked great for us so far. She lost like 15-20 pounds and I did the same. That loss of weight got her excited and motivated. So to end if you want you spouse to stay in shape you must do the same and do it with them.
2007-04-17 14:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by hey you 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe I allow myself to be excused for such relief when needed, other wise "letting myself be" wouldn't be a personal thing. Can you imagine someone sitting down trying to let go while squealing because they really need to go? =] Ha
2016-03-18 03:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely. I think that you should still want to be physically attractive for them, even though you're off the market...I would hate it if my husband let himself go, and I know he would say something to me. I usually pack on a couple lbs in the winter, and he says stuff, but that's great to me since I want to be attractive for him, and I do not want to be overweight. I want him to see me as the sexy gal he dated. I don't care if he let himself go a little bit, because he's too hot for me anyways! God I love that man! I feel like a giddy school girl! :)
2007-04-17 14:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by SillierKimmie! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if they have a right to complain, but they definitely have the right not to be attracted to you any more!!!
And there's always the risk of them cheating on you with someone to whom they are more attracted physically . . .
It doesn't make it right, but people still do it.
2007-04-17 14:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Allegra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so. You should never let yourself go... thats like you don't believe in yourself, like you don't believe you deserve to look good. I think spouses SHOULD complain!
2007-04-17 14:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ramon's Wifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think she does , she woulnt respect you as much because people that let themselves go dont care about themselves so why should your spouse , i would complain , but i woulnt go to far with it , i would try to help the situtation.
2007-04-17 15:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should not complain but instead help you to look good and get in shape for your health and self-image. They should want you to do well and look good.
2007-04-17 14:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep.... i let my self go and am trying to get it back... hell would some one tell me how far i got to stick my finger down my thoart to achieve the desire result of vomiting
2007-04-17 14:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO THEY DONT YOU TOOK VOWS OF FOR BETTER AND WORSE
2007-04-17 14:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋