My hus doesn't know. Should I tell him? We don't even live in the same state now.
2007-04-17 05:41:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are no pics.
2007-04-17 05:47:51 · update #1
I wasn't drunk. I did them for the money. I already had two jobs, but I had LOTS of bills from my first marriage.
2007-04-17 05:50:44 · update #2
I didn't have daddy's money to send me to college.
2007-04-17 05:52:00 · update #3
Let the past remain the past. There is absolutely nothing to be gained by sharing this information with him. He knows and loves you for who you are now, not who you were in college.
And there's really no shame or scandal in being a part of those activities...many of us have done so, and many more will do so for years to come. No big deal.
2007-04-17 08:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say yes. Speaking from my own perspective, if my wife were to tell me that she did something like that back in college.. my first question would only be, "why didn't you tell me sooner?"
I wouldn't divorce her or anything, but I think I would be a little hurt that she kept it from me. So I would advise that you share it with him now so that even more time doesn't pass. In addition to that, it's apparently bothering you.. so you don't want something like that eating at you for years.
Once he gets over the fact that you didn't tell him, who knows.. he may even be interested in having you recreate some of your finer moments for him in the privacy of your own home :)
Now that would definitely be my next comment to my wife. I would be like, "show me baby!" LOL
It's all good.. don't worry. Your husband loves you and that isn't going to change with this revelation.
2007-04-17 05:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by michaeljazz 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him. In is in your past and a lot of people do it. It is great that you could earn money that way. Just think of it this way you sowed your wild oats now you are done.
If they are going to mad about your past that is very unfair.
Good Luck.
2007-04-17 07:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont really need to mention it..this was before him..and its not like you were sleeping around. you have a nice body..more power to you ..
if you do decide to tell him, it shouldnt make a difference since this was before him and you were young. we have all done things like that .. whether it be for fun or for money ..
you didnt do anytthing you need to be ashamed of ..
2007-04-17 06:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by sylonthego 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...why would you wanna tell him all of a sudden? are you ashamed of what you did? we were once young and did something but they seem harmless to me esp. no pix. it really depends on how you look at it and what you know about your hubby may think. i wouldn't worry too much about it. if i was a guy, it's not a big deal to me. it just shows you had a lot of fun at college!
2007-04-17 06:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the husband. Can he handle the knowledge? If not, better leave it unsaid. You should only tell him if there's something to be gained by it. And I fail to see what this "something" could possibly be.
2007-04-17 05:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Really do you want your husband to know that you were a crazy drunken bimbo well in college. I do not see why this information would be important to disclose but if it is eating you up inside best to get it over with and tell him.
God Bless and Good Luck!
2007-04-17 05:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would leave the past in the past ,he does not have to know everything,as long as your honest with him know that your married .What you did is not a crime so it's nothing to worry about!
2007-04-17 06:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by selma b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have said something b4 you got married. it seems it is really eating you up inside so just tell him how it is. if he loves you he will get over it. it may take him some time though i dont know him. if he were my husband he wouldnt care.
2007-04-17 05:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by becca_2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Don't feel bad, I used to be a "dancer"......now I am a personal trainer! A lot more respectable for sure!!!!
2007-04-17 07:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋