What do you think of women who talk crap about their husbands?

Question

I see this a lot on Y! Answers. Don't they know it makes them look ten times worse?!

Answer 1

i think such women are senseless and doesn't know the world. According to me such women divorced immediately and should be avoided always.

Answer 2

It makes me really appreciate what I have at home. I won't lie, we have had our struggles, but then we have had good times as well. When a person has nothing but negative things to say about their marriage, then it comes to show that either there is no pleasing them or that they should open up the communication airways with their spouse. Me and mine, we talk. Doesn't matter what it is, we talk. We work things out, analyze movies, work out family problems. We don't alienate one another, make them feel inadequate. I think majority of these women didn't take time to get to know their man before marrying them. Yea, he might have been sexy or had money, but none of that mean crap you can't communicate with one another. It does make them look worse, makes you wonder WTF they did to make them act that way. As we all know, you won't get both sides of the story!

Answer 3

I think it shows disloyalty and disrespect toward the husband and marital relationship. It also puts the relationship at risk. Privacy is very important to me and I would not want to be in a marriage where I had to doubt whether my partner was loyal, discrete or could keep my confidences. Once the trust is broken it's hard to ever regain. Sometimes it's a lack of maturity that causes spouses to talk to every one but their partners about problems in the marriage. Recipe for disaster is what I'd term it.

Answer 4

No people do not realize that it makes them look bad as well as continuing to sabotage the relationship that they are complaining about in the first place.

I do believe women do this more than men as we tend to share things with people when men can let a lot just roll off their back and not talk about it again. It doesn't mean that it hurts them any less they just tend not to talk about it to others.

Answer 5

I think they have fallen in to the trap set by feminist. Feminists have made some women believe that anything male is wrong and bad. They hate masculinity.
It's pretty sad because feminity and masculinity should be embraced and appreciated for their unique differences. Women need to understand that men do have feelings even if they don't want to talk about them 24/7 like women do.
Most men are good people, there are jerks out there, but there are some women who are jerks also.

Answer 6

yeah its makes them ten times worse but they dont just talk crap about them, its becos they are hurt thats why at that instance they pour out their hearts and talk crap, but i think they should be patient and think wiell first before they act.

Answer 7

Spouses need to vent from time to time. Men are just as guilty as women. Everybody complains about their marriage at some point.

Answer 8

It is understandable if they are talking about actions of their husbands. It is something worse if they are talking about their respect, or lack thereof, towards their husbands.

Answer 9

Yes, I agree. In my opinion when a women demeans her husband whether while in front of him or not, it makes her look horrible.

Answer 10

See and come live with me are two different things. You will never know how a man can get until you get married and live with them. By then it is too late and all you can do is complain or seek a marriage counsellor