How many wives had affairs and did not get caught?

Question

I had two and did not get caught. It was easy if you do not get careless. I never got careless. I did not change my routine at all. He never knew.

Answer 1

Don't worry...the cosmos knows. What goes around, comes around. It'll catch up with you eventually. ☺

Answer 2

Ugh - I had a similar experience with my now ex... I found her pursuing a former bf, who was in prison at the time... and I know for a fact she cheated very early on in our relationship. I also suspect she was cheating near the end, as she got engaged within months of us parting company, then pregnant and married... Anyway - your wife has broken trust in her. And she's the one who needs to address this. She needs to be completely honest with you about what she has been doing, and why. Then you need to decide if you can forgive her, and if you want to. Many couples stay together for the sake of the children. You may want to do that, its certainly healthier for the children, unless the two of you hate each other and fight a lot. As far as what she was doing - there was an interesting study done some years ago about women and infidelity. It found that women want to things - a good reliable, financially secure male to help in raising children, and a passionate, wild romance with a lover... often these two do not match up... the result being that in the US at least, some 10% of men are raising children who are not their own... they are the product of an affair. You two could certainly go for the old standby - stay together for the kids, whilst pursuing romantic relations with others. However, I wouldn't do this out of revenge on your part. It sounds like she might not care, and if a divorce becomes the only solution - proof of her infidelity, and proof or your loyalty to the marriage will serve you well in court. I wish you all the best. -dh

Answer 3

I actually love my husband, so I've never even thought about having and affair.

So when you got married was it in front of God in a church? Did you vow to be faithful? If so, you're probably going to hell. Sucks to be you. Good thing your husband never found out though.....whew. Even if you don't believe in God, that still makes you a horrible person (horrible like your a waste of good oxygen). I would feel shame.

Answer 4

in todays world every 7 in 10 have more than one bf so i thin it is not a big deal yes but just remember that the day u r caught , it is the end of the world.

Answer 5

I have never been unfaithful to my hubby. Such acts are shameful. I am a person of my word. My wedding vows said ..."forsaking all others..." and that is what I intend to do. How does it feel to break a promise? What example are you teaching your children? Do you really feel good about what you have done?

Answer 6

i had an emotional affair...All that happened was converstions and a date. I didnt get caught, but I felt as if I should tell my husband. I wanted to work out my marriage. We were on the brink of divorce. My husband deserved the respect to know.

Answer 7

I'd be willing to bet he knows but the piece he's getting is younger and better, so he lets you keep thinking you're ever so smooth.

Answer 8

I dont think you are for real....but im sure that many do and dont get caught...much more than we know about....but dealing with the guilt could be tough

Answer 9

You must feel like a barbie, you know with being passed around so everyone can take their turn and play with you.

How would you feel if he cheated on you???

You have way too much time on your hands.

Answer 10

Momma, want to try for a third? I hear it's a charm. Email me for the details!