Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2006

My husband and I have been married for 4 months, We have been together for almost 5 years. I had two kids before and now we have 2 kids together total 4. Anyways right after we had our first child together I found out that he had put himself on some internet dating sites claiming he was single. This of course angered me and it took along time for me to forget. Well now he refuses to show me his work email. Last time I found through his email, they send your auto matches to your email. So am I over reacting wanting to know his work email and password. He refuses to show me.

2006-11-16 16:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by asianside 1

I thought of going back for my daugther and my husband after so much I spoke he just said wait for the time.He doesn't even know that I staying with my lover, when he comes to fetch my daugther I will be in my sister's house. I am really in the mess but dont know how to solve this problem as feel that I hurting my husband and daughter for what I have done. When the divorce was final last two years I stopped because of my daugther future. But I am very worried of how I am ging to be if I am back with my husband. But at the same time I feel very very hurt for what I have done now. My daughter loves the two man. She even know that she cant talk about my lover to my husband. My daugther is 3 years old.Anybody please halp me I know you all would say whar ***** I am but I need a solution for all this mess.I dont know whether I will be find wothout my lover.He is wiling to marry me.

2006-11-16 16:52:48 · 12 answers · asked by Larisha 1

I have the means and resources to bury my ex-stripper girlfriend, money, power. It has not even been a month and I am going through hell with this woman just to visit my baby, I wanted to be friends with her (ex) so that we would have no problems like this, I cannot understand it, she has all this anger inside of her aimed at me and only me! She is from Colombia and she wanted to take the baby back to her home in South America and I refused to grant her permission, I believe this is my right as a father and I will not go back on my decision. I left her alone like she wanted, shouldnt she be happy, especially to go back to work!!!! At first this break up was hard for me, but now I accept it and just want to move on with my daughter, of course. Should I give her more time to simmer down, which means not spending the holidays with my baby or should I bury her by getting court procedings started in time for the holidays, I dont want to do this. In all, I have 5 kids, I love them all!!!!

2006-11-16 16:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Mo 1

I SPLIT WITH MY KIDS MOTHER AND WE ARE NOT DIVORCED YET, AND I AM LIVING WITH MY GIRLFRIEND AND MY EX WONT LET ME SEE MY KIDS OR HAVE THEM OVER. WE FILED FOR DIVORCE BUT HAVENT EVEN TALKED TO A COURT YET. I HAVENT SEEN THEM IN 2 WEEKS AND SHE WONT ANSWER MY CALLS. I HAVE BEEN IN MY CHILDRENS LIVES SINCE DAY 1 AND NOW THAT I HAVE A NEW GIRLFRIEND SHE IS PISSED AND WONT LET ME SEE THEM.

2006-11-16 16:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by skylar b 1

or a order to surport kids, mentally abusive!

2006-11-16 16:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by mendozablue 1

I've been married for a little over a year now..and for the entire time I've been married my husband forever falls asleep. When we are with friends, when we watch a movie, when we make love. For Valentines he planned a special evening and it was ruined because he fell asleep while making love to me. Same for our 1 year anniversary party, we had loud music, drinking socializing and he was falling asleep. When we got to the motel room we rented we didn't even make love because he fell asleep I spent the whole night crying. I dont know what to do anymore Yes my husband is on the heavy side but he works out. I dont want to say this but I'm afraid his falling asleep is ruining the relationship and could possibly be making me loose interrest! ..I need some help before it's to late..

2006-11-16 16:47:25 · 28 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3

or will death find you ?

2006-11-16 16:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by mcruckle 1

Would you say that there is love? What about small town vs city girls?

2006-11-16 16:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by fromrussia2006 1

And my fiace is an Athiest and I don't have a religious preference, but I still believe in something. He says that if I wanted to get married in a church, he would do that for me, but I just cant push that on to him if he doesnt believe. What are some good ways to get married legally without going through a church? I really want this to be as special to him as it will be for me. He means the world to me.

2006-11-16 16:29:51 · 11 answers · asked by Brittney 5

We have been divorced a long time. He was really mean to me when we were married. He is remarried to a woman that verbally abuses me in front of my children. My son has Tourettes and I have been accussed of lying about it to get money from state. The last time my ex saw the kids was 4 months ago when my son ran away from his house and was picked up by police along side of highway, mind you my son has Tourettes. He called today and demanded that I drop the kids off in Springfield 3 hours away from me. I said no, no chance, its unsafe and if you want them so bad come up to Ottawa to get them .He screamed at me calling me names in front of my kids. Do you think I am in the wrong for saying no, the kids cant come down there. Its not like I am completely denying visitation, but I cant take a risk on my kids getting hurt. I have sole custody he has visitation rights, what should I do? Help!!!

2006-11-16 16:28:36 · 17 answers · asked by melissa S 1

tonight it came to a head; we were divorced feb this year, he led me on to get back together again, then the very next weekend after we were "together", he has another woman hidden in his apt., then he married her a month and a half later because he lost his 2nd job in 6 months and needed to get back with me or....someone else. he even gave me a deadline to get back together! I was suspicious then and said, why? do you have someone else in line? and sure enough...oh yeah, he is not a citizen, he's from Sweden and wants to be one now. He forced our daughter to go out with him and this woman, never slowly introducing her, and then forced her to stay at her home--where he lives now of course--making her nervous and scared of them. My attny said i need more to go on. Well i have documented a lot of stuff thru legal avenues like her school, etc. and tonight i refused to force her to go with him and he called the cops on me (i called them first). i will do what it takes to protect her.

2006-11-16 16:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by nowisthetime 2

He is late paying rent and the bills every month but can go to the bar everyday!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 16:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by Boondocksaint 4

At first I said get off but she was so good so I gave in, we are both 18 and I'm thinking this may be love, can I marry her? She is a fourth cousin.

2006-11-16 16:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by Hello 1

you can not say i love you.

2006-11-16 16:03:37 · 5 answers · asked by lanna clause 1

I really had to ask this question because, I think that you can only be a victim of abuse once and anything after that you have volunteered for. I strongly feel that after being slapped, hit , kicked or whatever for first time why would you choose to say & not leave? With all the help (shelters,state aid,housing,etc...)there is avaliable to women (& men) in these types of relationships there really isn't any excuse for staying. Or maybe I'm just confused!!

And before anyone thinks or says "easy for me to think & feel this way because I don't know what it's like" ~ Yeah I do, I was with an abusive man for 6 years & YES I know that I was NOT a victim but a volunteer, I made the choice to stay with him everyday, I just looked at the relationship I was in like it was a job where I really hated my boss but I needed a pay check, so I stayed. I haven't ever boo-hoo-ed or wallowed in self pitty as a "survivor of abuse" because I think that is a bunch of crap.

What's your opinion???

2006-11-16 16:01:40 · 31 answers · asked by justaskme 3

and you thought the person you were with worried a little too much about loosing you, would you tell them that you thought they worried too much in fear that they might start getting worried again?

2006-11-16 15:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by Brittney 5

I have been engaged to my fiance for about 4 months and we've been together seriously for 3 years. We have a 1 year old together and we just bought our first home together and so many other things we've achieved! In short this relationship couldn't get any better! Well, with that said I cheated on him a week ago with a guy I met a club. This guy knows that I have a fiance and our agreement was to just be friends because we talked all night about people and a bunch of random things, for a while I thought he was gay because we had so much in common. Anyway we kept in touch for a week and then we had lunch one afternoon and one thing led to another and we slept together. I really regret it and I need to tell him, but I don't know how. How would you want to be told or would you want to know??? He has no idea from what I can see and I feel bad because I've been staying at my office really late just so I can have a excuse to not sleep with him. I feel so guilty! Only serious answers please!

2006-11-16 15:51:31 · 33 answers · asked by EriksSweetheart 3

2006-11-16 15:47:54 · 19 answers · asked by Julia 2

It seems like every time i begin to be happy it all falls apart she told me that i did nothing wrong but she never flat out told me why she did it and she also says that she cant be mad at him and i should not be mad at him either but be mad at her i'm mad at both of them for one he was my good friend i would always help him with anything he need i thought that ,thats what friends do i just dont know why i just need to know how to get on with my life and save my marrage thanks.

2006-11-16 15:42:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom was alway's strict since we were little and i have no friend's i got used to staying home and i saved alot of my allowance and now that i got married with the girl of my life and i'm 18 living still with my mom what should i do? i'm married and should she hit me?

2006-11-16 15:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by pldjrftb@verizon.net 3

My parents are getting a divorce.
They are splitting their money and selling the house. What do I do?!?!?!

2006-11-16 15:33:13 · 7 answers · asked by :] 3

2006-11-16 15:32:07 · 9 answers · asked by hot peppers 1

i feel like i love him so much......and the thought of letting him go hurts...............even though i know he isnt any good for me......does that sound stupid?

2006-11-16 15:31:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 15:29:45 · 41 answers · asked by josie 2

He loves to golf, but hates golf gadgets. He is a very picky eater, so a passion for food isn't there. He doesn't collect anything and doesn't really have a 'favorite' anything. Help!! I want to give him something that will knock his socks off.

2006-11-16 15:23:08 · 14 answers · asked by Janice J 2

Finding emails were my wife talks about a guy that she is head over heels for. she invites him to do things, and tells him personal things. I have also found emails were she talks to her friends about him and me. She says she loves me, but things he is her solemate. Does this mean the end for me, or she just confusesd. should I say something, or wait it out and see what she does. I want her to pick me for the right reasons, not becuase I tolde her I found her emails.

2006-11-16 15:19:16 · 17 answers · asked by cooltallguy2003 1

I was a little concerned that my girlfriend was drinking too much, but it just turned out to be a phase. But I was prepared to change my life style and be an alcoholic right there with her, what's so bad about that?

2006-11-16 15:18:33 · 6 answers · asked by Agent69 2

Please no rude answers. I have been very hurt b/c my fiance left our family of 2 kids for a younger ***** he works with. I had suspected it and he moved out saying we were taking a break. He called me that night and cried he wanted to come back. Then a few days later he moved in with this ***** and I went to their work and confronted the home wrecking whore in front of everyone. He says he still loves me, I am his best friend, we can still hang out. He does call. But he doesn't spend much time with the kids. His parents are absolutely pissed at him. I am devastated. Everyone belives he will come back. his dad said he was completely torn. Hs anyone had this experience and what did you do? I love him, but can't trust him, but I want a complete family again. What do you think the odds are that he will come back?

2006-11-16 15:13:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got an ex-husband who is my girls' father who is an alcoholic from hell.... We do get along pretty well but he wants to come back into my life after 2.5 years of divorce and be here with us.

I love him dearly but he's pretty much the same jerk he always was. He's been working on his attitude which has improved greatly but he's still pulling stunts like drinking and driving.

I have a super sweet and loving guy who I am great friends with who's in love with me and treats me like a queen. I feel so torn because I know that me being with the kids' dad would make them a lot happier!

What am I to do?

2006-11-16 15:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 15:06:17 · 15 answers · asked by Julia 2