My mom was alway's strict since we were little and i have no friend's i got used to staying home and i saved alot of my allowance and now that i got married with the girl of my life and i'm 18 living still with my mom what should i do? i'm married and should she hit me?
2006-11-16 15:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by pldjrftb@verizon.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. but if you are old enough and man enough to marry, then you should be man enough to have your own place. stop living on your mom. she is probably tired of you and your wife anyway. why didn't you think about taking care of a wife and yourself before you got married. you wanna be grown--get out of your moms house. why do kids think that their parents want to take care of them and someone Else's child too.
2006-11-16 15:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by shaglemongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok enough of the "Why are you still living with your mom?" I have my married daughter living with me. Sometimes the situation calls for a child and their spouse to live with a parent.
My advice to you though is to pool yours and your spouses money and move out. It will not be easy and ya'll might have to resort to a counselor for help. If you do not stop the abuse now.....it may end up causing problems later in your marriage and/or future kids
2006-11-17 00:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by L. R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still living at home? If you're old enough to be married then for your wife's sake, if not your own., MOVE OUT! It's n ot child abuse when your old enough top be married....have you thought that maybe she's wishing you'd move out and the hitting is a way of trying to get it thru your head that she WANTS her SPACE.....
2006-11-16 23:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by chikensnsausages 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18 AND married, why are you still living with your mother. Move out already!
2006-11-16 23:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your mother absolutely should not be hitting you. Try to save to move out of that environment. It doesn't sound healthy for you. I hope all goes well for you.
2006-11-16 23:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately your going to have to get in her face. I don't mean hit her but get right up in her face and tell her that tell her your not going to let her hit you anymore. You have to say it so theres no mistaking what your telling her. If she tries to hit you try to grab her hand before it makes contact and quietly and seriously tell her again, "I told you, You will not be hitting me anymore".Tell her your not a child anymore. Now if she continues to do it, you might tell her that if she hits you agaon you will be calling the police and having her arrested for assault. But if it gets that far you might want to have a place lined up to move to
2006-11-17 00:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by onejinjer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to an apartment
2006-11-16 23:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by TakeDaChillPill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. she shouldnt. get an apartment and move out . my opion?
2006-11-17 00:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋