Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2006

I am a married guy who has always been and will always be true to my wife. My wife tells me I am good looking and she says her friends think so but I have never had women treat me like I was, so I always imagined that my wife was just being nice to me because she loves me.
Yesterday at lunch a woman at another table made it clear she was interested in me (making excuses to walk past the table and smile, getting up from her table and paying for her meal even though she hasn't finished eating yet so she could stand next to me, read my name and stuff off my work ID badge, kept getting in front of me trying to get me to look at her). My coworkers laughed about it and I admit is was a HUGE ego boost.
Last night I went to the grocery store with my now puffed up ego. I must have had six girls in there giving me the eye. That NEVER happens to me. Is it possible that confidence was all I ever needed? I am not going to misbehave now, but really - does it mean that much to you ladies?????

2006-11-16 06:37:56 · 9 answers · asked by fucose_man 5

I recently took a trip to russia. those russian men got it made. in russia, there are about 4 times as many women as there are men. Women will do anything and put up with anything because the competition to get a man is so fierce. I got proposed to by 4 women because those russian women are obbsessed with us american men. I was thinking about moving to russia and just playing the field for the rest of my life. what do you think???

2006-11-16 06:37:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 06:36:07 · 16 answers · asked by Maria C 2

My own story: had a 6 year relationship & he felt the need to play the field and fool around even though we were together and I had his baby. It killed any trust I had for him and ultimately ended our relationship. As a result, I now have an "honesty" policy in my relationships, and have been richly rewarded!

Tell me about your bad experience & how you learned honesty is the best policy!

2006-11-16 06:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by spottedtan5 3

We have been fighting lately. She finds everything to nag about. When I make an effort she has to find something wrong with it. I am fed up with it and about to walk out the door. I do not think there is a man out there that can please her.

2006-11-16 06:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by kobisky 2

Me and my husband have a seven month old baby and he decided to move in to a friends house temp, he said he needed his space well then he kept inviting me over and I was really starting to think things where getting better but then he out of the blue decided that he needed space again. I told him he was confusing me and he said he cant make up his mind when im there i anoy him because I want his attention and I tell him to look at the baby everytime he does something and I do every thing for him that he ask me to do. He said that he really messes me when I am gone he messes cuddling and being around me. I think a husband and dad should be at home with their family

2006-11-16 06:30:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

puts enough pressure on women to look beautiful. I say no because when I look around I still see so many fatty boom booms walking around.

2006-11-16 06:25:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it’s great for my wife to go out with the girls. My only exception is when she goes to dance halls and freely dances with any man that asks her. I feel all these women are putting themselves out there, acting single, and asking for trouble. Under those circumstances, anything can happen. Why would any wife put her husband’s trust in her on-the-line like that?
Girls-Night-Out can include concerts, out-to-dinner, happy hour, bowling, card games, etc, as long as the planned activity does not involve direct contact with other men. My wife & I are both avid dancers, and I certainly don’t mind a friend dancing with her when I ‘m there.
When I go out with my married buddies, we play poker, attend ball games, frequent sports bars, camping, and even fly to ski resorts. However, we never go to strip clubs. My friends and I agree that the opposite sex should not be included in any of our activities. We wouldn’t want to lose our wives’ trust.
Shouldn’t both spouses agree to this simple basic principle?

2006-11-16 06:24:18 · 20 answers · asked by goforgold98721 1

I have been having intimate dreams about my first crush when I was 15 years old. The dreams that I have been having are things that never actually happened during our relationship.
Here's the problem...I am happily married to a man that I love more than anything and we have a 15 month old daughter. We get along very well and I can't picture my life without him; however, I also think about my former boyfriend all the time and we have been chatting on myspace quite a bit lately and reminiscing about old times. My husband knows and is OK with this as it's strictly platonic.
Here's the problem....I got in the car on Tuesday, with my daughter, and drove 120 miles to see this former boyfriend whom I haven't seen since high school. We was more than shocked even though we had a good visit. I know, from his lifestyle, that things wouldn't work out between us. I still don't know as to why I decided to impulsively visit as I am not an impulsive person. Can someone please help????

2006-11-16 06:20:56 · 12 answers · asked by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6

I am surveying to find out how people feel in general for a presentation. Your responses and honesty are appreciated!

A) Honesty & Trust
B) Sexual Desire
C) Financial Security
D) Other

2006-11-16 06:20:11 · 39 answers · asked by spottedtan5 3

Okay seriously wtf is up with the whole "one minute man"? It's called pre-mature ejaculation, so when the hell do "these" types of men finally mature? I'm sure this will draw attention from....oh gee I don't know.....the one minute men......which secretly also means anything under 15 minutes....because that's pathetic. I know this isn't the majority from research studies, but for the minority that go in the blink of an eye.....take some damn pills, wear a **** ring, or get some damn extended pleasure condoms.

2006-11-16 06:16:09 · 16 answers · asked by kurious kat 1

He's been cheating on me for years. Finally, last year he promised he would straighten up. He joined AA, moved out of the house for a year. His job moved him to another state and he said he was over "her" and wanted me and the kids to go with him. We sold our house, moved out of state, bought a new house 3 months ago. Now he says he wants a divorce. We're in texas now which provides minimal support payments and limits child support. He makes a great deal of money and since we've been married Ihe hasn't wanted me to work, just take care of the house and kids. Since he lied to me to get me to move it there any way to get my prior state residency back so I can file for divorce without having to wait 90 days? Do I have any recouse since he lied to me?

2006-11-16 06:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by M S 1

I have a baby with a friend in Puerto Rico, I move to NY and fall in love with a great charming, perfect guy. We are going to marry in december. My child recive child support. I want to cut the child support and change the last name. She call daddy to my fiance and he never call or care. What I have to do? Does anybody knows the procedure to do this?

2006-11-16 06:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by Vainilla V 1

and i also have 2 kids,which they are mine now.ive heard that being through a divorce its not easy,but i cant be sad.i feel like a relief.........

2006-11-16 06:02:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

(with children)

2006-11-16 05:54:53 · 32 answers · asked by jsjmlj 5

My dear friend, who is such a lovely person is having awful trouble with her husband, he has a huge drink problem and when he's been drinking is very verbally nasty to her, she's broken hearted as he told her he wouldn't care if he went home and caught her in bed with another man. She keeps asking me whether I think he meant it. Help please....

2006-11-16 05:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

9 years so far...

2006-11-16 05:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by PEBBLES 1

He says he is but i always have the feeling that he isn't. He has a crazy work schedule and works a lot of nights. We have a 9 month old son that also takes a lot of time. He rarely comes on to me and i am the one that has to initiate any romance. Sometimes i feel like he would be happy if we never did it again. We had problems in the past about porn so i thought that when he stopped that he would pay more attention to me in the bedroom. He has stopped looking at porn (that i know of) but his attention level has not seemed to rise. Should i just accept that he might have a low sex drive and initiate it all the time so i can get some, or should i be worried that he is not that into me anymore. Like i said, he says he loves me and that he is attracted to me, but i guess he does not show it as much as i would like. I have tried talking to him about it and he just denies it and tells me it is all in my head or he is tired from working nights and when he goes back on days it will be different, but it never is.

2006-11-16 05:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by micah z 4

How many of you feel that the court system is fair when it comes to child support? I am a firm believer that a man should take care of his child/children but I am curious to find out what many of you think. I will use my example based my kids (I have 3 in my current marriage and a older son in Texas). State of Missouri uses the a formula that takes into consideration the difference in incomes between the divorcing parties, overnight visits, and insurance and tuitions paid. So I have to pay 825 for the three in my marriage according to the formula. However the one child I have in Texas is more 335. I have been blessed to be able to take care of my kids but it is a burden at times. So what do you think?? Do you feel the courts over charge when it comes to support?? Do you feel that it is not enough??? Give examples if you can??

2006-11-16 05:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband came in for 15 days and he is leaving saturday morning to go back to guam and he will not be back till after our 1 year anniversary.... (he is in the Navy) So it is 3 months we have been married tomorrow and i want to know if yall have any ideas on what i can do to make it really romantic and exciting??????

2006-11-16 05:44:36 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla P 2

well im getting married and its my first time moving out on my own i always lived with my elderly father and his second wife always had everything so it was never my option to buy anything execpt taking care of them. so now im a little lost on what my husband and I WILL NEED IN THE HOUSE. ITS JUST THE TWO OF US AND WHERE A YOUNG COUPLE IN OUR EARLY 20'S, I JUST NEED SOMETHING NEAT AND CHICK NOT TO EXPENSIVE, HELP PLEASE. MAKE SURE IT VERY DETAIL THANK YOU ALL. HAVE A BLESS DAY

2006-11-16 05:34:51 · 9 answers · asked by dont fuck with me 1

my ex has refused to pay child support. can i legally post a picture of him stating he refuses to pay child support around his neighborhood?

2006-11-16 05:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by susienunez1969 1

How would a spouse act if she were cheating on him, even though she insists the person in question is only a friend and they have never engaged in sexual intercourse?

2006-11-16 05:23:01 · 17 answers · asked by jeff2005_39 2

My husband is coming off of the night shift so we have not seen each other in a while. I am feeling a little frisky and would like to do something special for him. Any ideas?

2006-11-16 05:19:13 · 12 answers · asked by micah z 4

I have been with my husband 11 years. He is an attorney from England and a good one. Problem is - he argues about EVERYTHING. I realise it is in his nature to do so with all his training, and he doesnt even seem to notice he is doing it as is evident from his reaction when I have had enough and blow up.

But he doesnt realise that this constant disagreement creates so much distance between us and I no longer feel close to him at all. I tell him this and he agrees but nothing changes. I love him dearly - but I just dont want to get close cause he always has to start disagreeing with everything I say - even at the most sensitive moments.
I am a scientist and he will even disagree with fact when it is placed in front of him. To him he is never wrong. He has no friends or social life outside of work and me. It think that is not good as well.
Help!

2006-11-16 05:15:14 · 15 answers · asked by Blondana 3

My husband and i have been married almost a year and dated 6 months before marrying.We have a 3 month old daughter together. But our relationship is not going well and has not for a while he has a very bad temper and can be verbally abusive. I just found out also from his mother that he when he was younger he was put in( juvy) was a drug dealer , a stole car/parts and was a memeber of Crypts?some sort of gang i think.He has also gone for days without reason causing fights .Recently the police came to the house looking for him because they have reopened and investigation on a case (Homicide).I graduated from college last year with a Business major and Communication minor but have never worked because of the baby.?

2006-11-16 05:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Persephone H 1

Ok, Here's the deal.

I moved in to the house she rents in June. I had left my apt of 10 years to move in with the girl. Of course, I brought my 2 cats with me and she paid for installing a cat door and a gate to separate the 4 dogs from the cats. The whole thing cost her $500.
Now the landlord of the house she rents wants us out.
We've been scrambling to find another house and we found it. The weird thing is that she did not mentionned the cats on the application and while looking for a roomate she, also, did not mentioned the cats...(?).
I got up this morning and she 's asking me if I would be ok giving my cats away...!
Her thinking being that it was easier for us to find a house and a roomate in such short notice because she did not add the cats and the dogs on the application.
!?!?!
The woman had been planning this whole thing since the beginning of the house hunting.(that's my feeling...)

Also, she is willing to pay for the whole move in ( $6400)

What should I do?

2006-11-16 05:08:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife's ex has on one occasion tried to kiss her off her guard and has made numerous attempts to get back with her. She assures me that she wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship. However, I don't really talk to this guy much and I don't respect what he has done knowing that she has moved on. I told her I do not want him in our house when I am there or not there. I told her he came come to pick kids up and leave. He can take them to his own house and spend time with him. I told her that I am fine with all of us being together for special events such as birthdays, etc. She agreed not to let him come in anymore but she was very upset about it and told me that I am not being an adult. I feel that she still has one foot in her old relationship and one foot in ours because she says they still have a friendship which is fine with me but our family comes first now not him just hanging out because he has nothing better to do. I don't think I am being unfair.

2006-11-16 05:04:29 · 28 answers · asked by kws504 2

2006-11-16 05:01:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

wmy husband is good looking too. am very worried whether he will love me later or not.

2006-11-16 05:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by c s 1