We have been fighting lately. She finds everything to nag about. When I make an effort she has to find something wrong with it. I am fed up with it and about to walk out the door. I do not think there is a man out there that can please her.
2006-11-16 06:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by kobisky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes ! change your style
2006-11-16 07:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would say that hearing we are "hot" does not generally put pressure on women to look good...because we know you already think that we do, or you wouldn't have said that...
Sit down and talk to her about what's going on in her life...nagging about everything is a symptom of something bigger...especially if this is a new issue...
Perhaps you can find out what the REAL problem is and help her tackle it...unless you've never really been keen on the relationship and don't really want to be with her anyway, why not see if y'all can work things out?
Good luck!
2006-11-16 14:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there. Let her know you are tired of this. She has no problem letting you in on her disapproval return the favor.
This might start with, "honey I'm fed up with your bad attitude.
Keep it up and I'm out of here. " If that's what you want then keep it up. If not change your attitude toward me or you WILL be alone soon.Staying with a nagging spiteful person who criticizes my every move is not my idea of love and affection. Stop it now."
Don't allow any back talk or buts. Make your statement and walk away.
She'll be stunned and it might even sink in.
2006-11-16 15:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then give it up! And move on! I personaly could never put up with my spouse constantly nagging eighter. If you have tried all you can to get along with her an nothing seems to work , time to move on!
2006-11-16 14:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it must be her hormones....she probably thinks she doesn't look hot...so. maybe you should have some patience and if you're fed up then talk to her and tell her that you aren't happy and want out...maybe she'll change her ways,,,good luck
2006-11-16 14:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing games. she wants you to get mad and leave so she will not feel guily for doing what she is doing...You know what she is doing, right? Deep down you know...good luck
2006-11-16 14:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by photoguy1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just venting, or is that a legitamate question? Anytime my husband tells me that I just say thanks and move on. You are not putting any pressure on her, she's putting it on herself.
2006-11-16 14:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I take it as a compliment when my bf tells me that.
2006-11-16 15:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a copy of the book "The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands"-- if she throws it at your head, you might want to reconsider the marriage.
2006-11-16 14:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
go to couseling. or maybe she is depressed. you need to sit down with her and let her know that if she doesnt work things out with you then you are leaving so she can go to counseling with you to find out what is really going on or she can refuse and possibly lose you.
2006-11-16 14:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋