and i also have 2 kids,which they are mine now.ive heard that being through a divorce its not easy,but i cant be sad.i feel like a relief.........
2006-11-16 06:02:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why be sad??? You're doing what you wanted to do because he has not treated you right and made you feel like the Diamond of a Woman that you are.
There is a male out there that will ravish your love and keep you happy and that is what you want...so if you have divorced the loser...then let him dine with the Dogs of what he is for losing a a good looking wife.
2006-11-16 06:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You arent wrong for feeling the way you feel. Obviously, you getting a divorce meant that you were sad being in the marriage. You are happy now, so go out and do something you werent able to do when you were married. Explore the world with your children, this is a stepping stone for you.
never feel bad for having a certain feeling about something. Feelings is what makes us....us
2006-11-16 06:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u didn't love him then it's fine. And if u feel relief then that's totally understandable. If that's the way u feel then it's not wrong because that's how u gonna feel. And it's not wrong because that's how u feel. No need to be ashamed or anything. If you're relief it means ur happy and that's all it matters. Been happy is an important part of ur life. Ur sad days are GONE. Be happy. love ur children. And if ur not sad about the divorve don't be. Be Happy.
2006-11-16 06:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of times a divorce can be a relief, youdont say how long ago you got divorced, I am sure that there will be times that you do feel sad, but no it is not wrong ,especialy if you were unhappy in the marriage. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-16 06:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We've often been through so much emotionally and physically by the time we reach the divorce stage that it is a relief to just not have to deal with all that pressure any more. Bad marriage vibes are bad for kids to deal with, I bet your kids will see the relief in you and respond positively. Don't be so hard on yourself :)
2006-11-16 06:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by thebattwoman 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong in the way you are feeling. Some people just want out of a marriage and that can be a relief to them.
2006-11-16 06:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should it be wrong to feel good? I divorced before all got bad and now we are friends, also we have kids. If you can get your ex to have a good relationship with the kids then your all over doing good. Dont forget if your happy your children will also be happy.
Keep going girl it can only get better.
2006-11-16 06:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by eidunotno 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't supposed to be sad when you get divorced. Your supposed to be happy to have that drama behind you. After all if you were sad that would mean you'd still want the guy. Being happy means you can move on with your life and find someone better
2006-11-16 06:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by bunny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For whatever reason the divorce happened I'm sure it can'y have been easy. As for not feeling sad. Then it must truly have been over and you will be fine. I never felt any sadness over my divorce and i am now happier than ever. Good luck .Dont cry because its over smile because it happened I always say.
2006-11-16 06:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by kiti4u 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The main reason people divorce is because they do not feel that are being loved. So your feeling of the relief is quite common.
2006-11-16 06:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋