I am a married guy who has always been and will always be true to my wife. My wife tells me I am good looking and she says her friends think so but I have never had women treat me like I was, so I always imagined that my wife was just being nice to me because she loves me.
Yesterday at lunch a woman at another table made it clear she was interested in me (making excuses to walk past the table and smile, getting up from her table and paying for her meal even though she hasn't finished eating yet so she could stand next to me, read my name and stuff off my work ID badge, kept getting in front of me trying to get me to look at her). My coworkers laughed about it and I admit is was a HUGE ego boost.
Last night I went to the grocery store with my now puffed up ego. I must have had six girls in there giving me the eye. That NEVER happens to me. Is it possible that confidence was all I ever needed? I am not going to misbehave now, but really - does it mean that much to you ladies?????
2006-11-16 06:37:56 · 9 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a side note, my wife and other women tell me that apparently I was a very late bloomer. I got together with my wife when I was 21 and a scrawny geek but now I am 33 and do bodybuilding and have a great career, nice car etc. Apparently I am just missing cool clothes, so says my wife? I guess I am so accustomed to being a scrawny geek I never really noticed it change and always felt like a dork.
I am not going to run with this. Like anyone else, I just like to feel good.
2006-11-16 06:45:12 · update #1
absolutely. when you exude confidence, you exude sexual prowess. it happens. there's nothing better than a man who knows who he is. meow!
2006-11-16 06:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An air of confidence definitely attracts women. I think it is the same for men. Whatever you think about yourself is how others will perceive you!
Be careful with this new found confidence......remember that your wife thought you were attractive even without it!
2006-11-16 14:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that has confidence in himself is a turn-on.....but be careful not to turn the confidence into being struck on yourself, which is a turn-off
2006-11-16 14:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by christy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence, is a key thing, but you have to have something physical also to attract women.
2006-11-16 14:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definatly... I like the confident, strong silent type.
2006-11-16 14:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing sexier than a confident man.
2006-11-16 14:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidance alone doesn't do it for me......a big chest with big arms and a hard azz do it for me. sorry, but you asked.
2006-11-16 14:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great to finally see the light huh?....Welcome
2006-11-16 14:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That and looks to back it up.
2006-11-16 14:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋