Marriage & Divorce - 19 September 2006

How do I break through the brick wall she has put up. She hates life and has no hope. I don't know the best way to help her get through this because she considers me as part of the problem. I really worry about her.

2006-09-19 14:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by RedC. 2

Ive been married 3 years I love my husband so much are life is great . The only thing we fight about is his daughter 9 and his mother who has pretty much raised her since 6 months of age. I have two daughters from my first marrage 8 & 5. We have a baby together age2. From the start the 9 year old and I did not bond. I tired very hard but gave up a few months ago. Also the 9 & 8 year olds hate each other.The 9 year old has gone to stay with her grandmother am not sure if she will stay for good or not. My in-law from day one will not talk things out with me about this little girl. My husband treats me like this is all my fault and am a horrable person. I do feel awful but I just can't bond with her, I have been trying for 3 years. We did go see a counclor who said everyone would open up and enjoy our new family , that was two years ago. I have tried one on one with the 9 year old going places. doing things, talking. But she reverts back to her grandmother also her real mom is not around.

2006-09-19 14:37:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jess 2

Please help! I have been in a relationship for 5 years now and have been hurt numerous times by my girlfriend. She breaks promises left and right. She hasn't in the past 6 months. When she gets mad at me for instance she will say very hurtful things like she don't want to be here with me anymore or crazy stuff like that. I believe she really loves me and like I said she hasn't done anything in a while. I am 30 years old and can't play mind games, but I am very very in love with her and can't see myself without her EVER! She said that she sees how she has hurt me and swears to never do it again and hasn't since she promised that. She now does very sweet things for me all the time and tells me how she feels about me (good) all the time. I think she has realized it now and really doesn't want to do it anymore. But my problem is that I think did she really mean that stuff that she said or do people really say stuff they don't mean when they are mad? HELP!

2006-09-19 14:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by Please help 1

i have a briefcase, lock box and cell phone to myself and i have a myspace account and 2 email accounts. should my wife have access to all of this? more importantly, am i justified in being pissed that she looks through my personal things? yes, we're married, but i'm not rummaging through her belongings.

2006-09-19 14:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by xknyghtmayre 4

Well i've been married for 2 1/2yrs & my husband has a job that takes all his time. It was good for the first six months then it went downhill from there, i had a few one nite stands but nothing serious until six months ago. I left the country but i still keep in contact with him & i'm not sure if to make things better with my husband or forget the other guy? The other guy is coming in the coming in the country to be with me early next year.

2006-09-19 14:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by â??â?¢â?¬â??? 1

I caught her with her ear up against the toilet door listening to my sister doing a pooh. She was touching herself. SHe didnt see I saw her. I want to tell her i saw but in a civil way. Any ideas??
BTW This is not a joke!

2006-09-19 14:28:16 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there really a certain feeling you get or is it just when you get along well and treat each other nicely? Some people say, "You just know." Is that true or are they just fooling themselves to feel good about getting married so young?

2006-09-19 14:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 14:17:26 · 16 answers · asked by goodfreebeing 1

I ma married and have been for 3 years now an di don't love my husband anymore i knew this about 9 months ago but then i found out i was pregnant so i stayed with him well i ahd the baby and things are only getting worse between and on top of that i am in love iwth another man someone i have known for a long time we have no cheated on my husband but i know that i have very strong feelings for this other man what do i do about all this? he says that he doesn't mind i have a little boy that he can love my kid just as much as me....? help?

2006-09-19 14:17:09 · 26 answers · asked by toogie 1

We broke up 2 months ago. Iam still in love but he doesn't love me. ;(

2006-09-19 14:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by Ordinary man 2

2006-09-19 13:58:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to say thank you for giving me advice, courage, and strength to finally leave my emotional/mental abusive boyfriend for good. It has been a long journey and everyday the pain is still there but its getting easier. I am not answering his text's or emails, I had it and finally he has stopped. I think it's over for him too...I start counseling thur. and I am looking forward to it.. I am not going to put myself through this again and I realize that no matter what I could of done to fix things It would of never been good enough. Thank You for those who gave advice and took time out to here my sob and have a pitty party...God Bless!!

2006-09-19 13:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2

I get home from work and all he wants to do is go out with is parents when all I wanna do is spend some time with him. He was off work today he had all day! I just dont get it!

2006-09-19 13:51:54 · 18 answers · asked by tx80sgirl 2

We are going to eventually catch you in your lie.

2006-09-19 13:43:06 · 18 answers · asked by meegeesmommy 3

I am a 53 years old Asian woman with 3 kids. It is not that easy to find anyone. I am a fun loving person. I treat my kids like friends. I do not know if they like to share me with someone new.

2006-09-19 13:28:56 · 16 answers · asked by shiningstar2808 3

I feel that I need to know this, because I had met this guy who just recently stated that he has two wives in Jamaica. However, I find it very hard to believe him in spite of the rings on both of his hands that he was telling the truth, after doing some research about the Jamaican practices and culture. I know that it's supposed to be illegal in the U.S. to have two wives. Though not to say that some people don't break the law. Also it's hard for me to believe because he goes to church. I stay in Flint, MI. and I don't know of any churches that does that allows that type of thing. I' ve also looked for possible religions that may allow this, but I found nothing. So I need a very intelligent person who can help me out on this one, because I find it to be quite disturbing. Thank you all.

2006-09-19 13:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by Ms.Worry 1

My husband is constantly angry. I have made every excuse for him that I can....I would say that it is his job but he had yhe whole summer off and was still angry. I want to try counseling before I call it quits and I really wish things could change. What else can I do??

Also, should I yell back at him when he yells at me or just ignore him?

2006-09-19 13:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by zaeli22 3

or could it mean somthing else

2006-09-19 13:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

My husband has a job that takes him out of town sometimes 5 days at a time, leaving me to soley take care of our three young children,...maintaining the household etc. Oh by the way forgot to mention currently pregnant with our fourth child. We are in a new city where I have no family or friends or any sort of support system. Have asked him to look into other opportunities, he's closed minded to this.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-09-19 13:23:15 · 14 answers · asked by mtcmmommy 3

What does it mean when somebody, whom you suspect is attracted to you because of mutual flirtations in the past, now acts in a nervous manner when you're around? He can't look you in the eye, can't say many words, and is obviously shaky. Or could it mean that he is no longer attracted and that you're now bothering him? Sorry, but I'm not very good at reading people's actions and motives. Please help. FYI, we are both married professionals and have been flirting off and on with clearly no intention to escalate this to a higher level. Purely business, and it helps.

2006-09-19 13:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4

If you asked your husband why is it when you are trying to have a conversation with him he never responds or says anything? and He answers you with "because everything you talk about aint worth s***". Not just any talk I mean important things like family, finances,housing ,things of that nature? He also said it sounds like Im complaining he does not want to hear it. These are not complains they are just concerns that I want to talk about with him. Every now and then you need to go over things with your spouse to make sure you are both on the same page. Just need some advice from everyday people.

2006-09-19 13:11:14 · 12 answers · asked by country girl 2

I was married for 28 years. I met my husband when I was 13 years. We had 3 kids. During the marriage he had few relationship with married women. I have forgiven him because I valued my marriage also I loved him. Then he met one woman who used him for all her needs. They lived together and had child too. I tried to get him back. Waited for him to come home one day. But he never did. He never supported me with money or any other comfort after he met this woman. Then he was unwell and the woman found another man. Still my husband looked after her child than mine. There are time I didnot see my husband for 5 years and then once or twice in a year. some where in a restaurant with the kids. When he was very ill he wanted to come back. I did ask him to stay because of the kids. He knew the value of me the way I took care of him and the house. But god did not wish me to be happy. My husband passed away last year. I wanted to be a good wife and mother but just a good mother now.

2006-09-19 13:10:55 · 17 answers · asked by shiningstar2808 3

We agreed that she could and now I want to back out of the deal! can I?

2006-09-19 13:08:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 13:05:56 · 21 answers · asked by golden2 1

2006-09-19 13:05:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am getting married soon. my fiancé and i have never had sex before, but he doesn’t know that i am a virgin. i don't know how to tell him that. and also, can you tell my what to expect the first time i have sex! i would appreciate that sooo very much.

2006-09-19 13:04:21 · 19 answers · asked by naomi_campbell_123 2

I caught my husband writing an email to a woman! I have excellent vision and was able to read enough to know they were making arrangements. Is there anyway to get into his email without a passcode? I have had more than this as a suspicion! But evidence would be so useful when I divorce his sorry ***!

2006-09-19 13:00:04 · 18 answers · asked by sicilyuk 3

she is so involved with groups on msn she has no time for me....when i say baby lets do something she says later i got to get these groups done but when later gets here its later again and again and again

2006-09-19 12:57:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 12:53:54 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 12:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by Bonny G 1