2006-09-19 13:05:56 · 21 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give it time. Leave him alone. If your marriage was meant to be, he'll come back.
Forgive yourself. Forgive him. Give him time to forgive too.
It will all work out.
2006-09-19 13:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated because he is hurt and therefor wanted to "hurt you back" Have you tried actually sitting him down and telling him that you are truly sorry, that you LOVE him, and you WANT to make the marriage work? By ANY means necessary? Maybe divorce is his way of hurting you as much as you hurt him, trust is the biggest part of a marriage sometimes when that is destroyed, there is nothing left? Sorry.....
2006-09-19 13:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not even try to get revenge - what is dead just needs to be buried. Remember the good times, you must have had them or why did you get married in the first place?, Go on with a clear start in your life. Bad feelings about a person only cause you pain so let it go and look after yourself.
2006-09-19 13:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie, but that is not the reason why he is divorcing you. He has a girlfriend. He is not into you. I would seek out an attorney and not make a fool out of yourself.
2006-09-19 13:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want him back and why would he want you back.
You both cheated, what kind of a relationship is that to get back into.
2006-09-19 15:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother with it.....ive been cheated on myself and it dosent stop... once a person cheats they tend to keep doing it......its like its a game they gotta see how long they can get away with it..they get caught they move on to another victim
2006-09-19 13:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things just can't be fixed. If he wants to go, let him go, if he loves you he will come back.
2006-09-19 13:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by delta s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two wrongs don't make a right.....the trust is gone...no foundation to work with...divorce is the only answer
2006-09-19 13:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated first. I would never trust you again.
2006-09-19 13:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why does either one of you want the other one? and you should of thought of your husband when YOU cheated. payback is a ***** aint it.
2006-09-19 13:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋