We agreed that she could and now I want to back out of the deal! can I?
2006-09-19 13:08:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Too late...
All you can really do now is emphasize to her how much you value her as a wife and that you want her to understand that it's a one time thing and that you expect her to come back to you...
2006-09-19 13:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you may have some self-esteem issues to even AGREE to let your wife have a boyfriend, THAT or maybe some male problem where you may feel inadequate so you agreed to let her take on a "lover" Let me tell you NOTHING good can come of your wife having a "boyfrind" If the latter is the case, You need to sit your wife down and let her know that SEX is much more than penetration, especially between two people that "LOVE" each other. You can please her many ways, she doesn't need a boyfriend, IF that is not the case, then I'm sorry pal, Your marriage is headed for the gutter....sorry
2006-09-19 13:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would your wife think it is o.k. for you to take a trip with a girlfriend? Are you both on the same page what you want from a marriage? Time for you to have a talk with your wife on how you really feel, and yes you have the right to change your mind about her going on a trip with her boyfriend.
2006-09-19 13:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your wife have a boyfriend? I think you and your wife are needing to re-think your marriage? There is nothing healthy or normal about a wife having a boyfriend. That is called an affair/adultery. Get a divorce and you two figure out who you want to be with.
2006-09-19 13:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by fin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can't be for real, why does she have a boyfriend? You need to tell her to take a trip, and keep going, because you are not putting up with this mess any more. You do have feelings also, she is taking advantage of you. This has to upset you, Why would you put up with this, her having a boyfriend? come on now, I do not know any man who will put up with this. If she won't leave, then you leave, find you someone who, will be true to you.
2006-09-19 13:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? That's your WIFE!!!!! Of course you can back out but you might want to consider backing out of the whole marriage. How is that even remotely a marriage? You might want to sit down and take a hard look at what you guys supposedly have and maybe reconsider.
2006-09-19 13:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Emilee D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you agree for your wife to go on a trip with her b/f in the first place?
Why does your wife have a b/f?
2006-09-19 13:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should go away and never come back. A husband like you who allows his wife something like that is not worth coming back to.
2006-09-19 13:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSS! What the hell is she doing that for? As her husband you have every right to back out of the deal. That is just wrong. I don't mean to be mean, but dude, if she is doing that kind of stuff then you should divorce her.
2006-09-19 13:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Your wife and her boyfriend??? What is wrong with you?
Why does your wife have a boyfriend or do you mean boy friend?
Either way, what is wrong with you?
2006-09-19 15:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋