Marriage & Divorce - 19 September 2006

If she loved me, she'd stop being such a baby, don't you think?

2006-09-19 07:35:14 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 07:31:36 · 13 answers · asked by ks9455 1

an adult? Why do they let kids ask questions about sex on here? They kick off adults that even think about it, then they let these "whack" teenie boppers on her asking questions for "mature adults only". Give me a break...could we get introuble for answering kids questions honestly?

2006-09-19 07:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by sasha 4

I moved to the United States 6 years ago from England to live with my current husband. But he has anger issues. He has never been physically abusive to me, he just yells and screams a lot, especially when things don’t go his way. When anything bad ever happens, he takes it out on me or my 2 boys (aged 16 and 18). The last 2 times he has gotten mad, the neighbours have called the police. He always tells me he wants divorce when I stick up for my kids when he is yelling at them for something they didn’t do. But then he tells me that he is sorry and he was only joking about the divorce. But the last time he went ballistic, I was in the shower getting ready for work at 5:30am and he started yelling at me through the shower curtain, and I don’t even know what was going on. He through in the divorce word again, so I told him I would give him one. He left for work and the police showed up. I asked them to call him and tell him to please stay at his mother’s house for awhile till I figured things out. I filled a suitcase for him and left it on the back steps. He came and picked it up and left. But then he called me saying he didn’t want to impose on anybody, so he was going to sleep in his car (and that made me feel bad about the whole situation). He also told me that he was sorry and he didn’t really want a divorce. He even told me he knows he needs to get some help for his anger, but I don’t know whether he means it or not. I mean, he can’t even commit to quitting smoking. Now I don’t know what to do. This is my third marriage. My fist husband was an abusive drunk. My second husband was just like the one I got now. And my 16 y/o son is terrified of him because he told us he was gay about a year ago, and my husband is homophobic, so he takes out a lot of anger on him sometimes. When he gets angry, his eyes get glossy and he screams so loud they can hear him down the street. He gets a look on his face like he just wants to kill you. He is a really good guy, but his anger overwhelms everything else about him. I really can’t even tell you whether or not I even love him anymore. Do you think I should just divorce him and move on? And maybe after the divorce, take my kids back to England where we have family, because we have nobody here? Or should I give him another chance, and try to make him get help for his anger, and stick to it? I feel so alone and have no clue what to do!

2006-09-19 07:24:58 · 25 answers · asked by British_gal 1

2006-09-19 07:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by Missouri Chick 1

Specifically, one's wife with another man.

2006-09-19 07:18:07 · 24 answers · asked by solar_notebook 3

When my man and I are having sex.. he wants me to tell him how good it is, say his name, moan and stuff like that.. but I think screaming and moaning sounds so stupid... Its kind of funny because its so simple and I cant do it because moaning to me sounds whack!! Any advice as to what I should do?? For mature adults only!!!!!

2006-09-19 07:13:58 · 24 answers · asked by Whitney 2

When my man and I are having sex.. he wants me to tell him how good it is, say his name, moan and stuff like that.. but I think screaming and moaning sounds so stupid... Its kind of funny because its so simple and I cant do it because moaning to me sounds whack!! Any advice as to what I should do?? For mature adults only!!!!!

2006-09-19 07:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by Whitney 2

PS. Thats why so many guys only want BJ's from girls. They figure BJ's are extremely low risk or no risk of catching a STD. Yes some guys are just lazy, but for the most part, most guys want BJ's only because they wanna fell secure on not catching a STD. I strongly agree. Do you agree?

2006-09-19 07:08:53 · 4 answers · asked by 56 1

I am married for over 3 years and we have a baby boy who just turned one. I have an older son that I raised & supported by myself as I divorced his father when he was a year old after he left with a stripper. My bills were always paid on time and I was very responsible. Now I have a partner who keeps lying about everything and is completely financially irresponsible. I am not working right now because I have seizures (epilepsy) and they have been very bad the past year. I just found out my husband has $10,000.00 tax debt from before he met me. Rent is overdue and utilities paid late. He won't let me handle the money. He has 13 years sobriety in AA and goes to many speaking engagements telling people to be responsible and talking about himself. He needs to take his own advice. We will have to move soon as the house we rent has been sold & all I do is worry. He says there is nothing to worry about. I feel like an idiot for getting myself into this mess.

2006-09-19 07:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by Misty Evenings 1

I feel terrible. What should I do? The affair he had last year was a horrible experience for me. There was a time when I was told it was over and it wasn't. The woman just kept re-appearing. Then I caught him two more times e-mailing random women on-line, flirting. It's all over now, and I thought I was over it, but then I e-mailed this guy. We haven't met or anything and I'm not interested in meeting him, we've just flirted a little. Now my husband has found out and I know he's hurt, however he won't admit it. The strange thing is, I don't feel bad that I did it. I feel bad about how it made him feel. Now I'm afraid our marriage will be over for something so stupid. What should I do?

2006-09-19 07:04:27 · 15 answers · asked by Alwayz Learning 1

Before I got married I was into Judo. I just earned my black belt and was went to tournaments and had lots of fun. Around the time I met my wife I started to fizzle out due to a combination of a bad injury and real life sort of circling in on me- job, marriage, etc. Once that was settled, my wife got pregnant and it was put on the back burner again. Well me daughter is almost two now and life is now fairly smooth and settled. I thought now might be a good time to get started again- maybe one or two nights a week. I haven't practiced Judo since 2002. This morning I mentioned to my wife that I might want to start Judo again soon. She got mad and said she could not imagine someone not wanting to spend time with their family, and that I ruined her morning. That sucks. She always told me I could eventually start again. Whats up with that?!?!? I am only ever at work, or home.

2006-09-19 07:00:35 · 19 answers · asked by Alex C 1

Couple of months ago caught wife cheating. She has cheated bunch of times since. I have disabled child and she is only one to watch him. I work, she is housewife. I cannot afford to pay anyone to watch son since severely disabled and I don't make much money. Checked with my relatives they won't help put me and my son up so we are stuck...
Decided to let her be open about it so I can deal with it maybe a little better. She has regular boyfriend who daily comes by while son at school.

2006-09-19 06:59:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever I watch my kids while my wife is away (sometimes for a whole week) all the women I run into all react like I, now, know how hard it is with kids. Actually, I find it a lot of fun and get annoyed that everyone thinks I can't handle it as well as my wife can.
Even today, I went to help with my son's kindergarten class and when it was time to leave the teacher asked if I was whipped. She didn't ask the other helper who was a mother if she was whipped.
Why does everyone seem to think taking care of kids is so hard?

2006-09-19 06:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

2006-09-19 06:43:42 · 18 answers · asked by terri l 2

my doctor put me on prozac, and i am scared to death, i have heard soooo many bad things about it. But my doctor told me to trust her,I know that everone is different, but i am still scared. i was on lexapro it was working really good for me, except for the fact that i was always depressed in the mornings up till 3pm or so. yesterday was my last day of lexapro and last night i took my first prozac, my doctor also has me on a small amout of seroquil for sleep and alprazolam for anxiety sice day one. i do feel differernt today, my question is what is prozac suppose to make you feel? please i want to know if i am feeling is right.
i feel like i just want to craw in bed and sleep all day, but at the same time i feel like. I have a whatever feeling inside of me. it's like I want to say whatever about everything, i don't feel like taking care of my responabilities but i know that i have too. have u ever been on prozac and what does it make u feel like? thank u , i'm just scared

2006-09-19 06:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE just answer yes if you worked through it
or answer no if it failed i just need to see the odds before i decide what to do next

2006-09-19 06:37:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are your feelings on Marriage, Love, Happiness. I couldn't ask for more in my life. There are some things that need improvement but that's with anyone's life. I just want to hear your thoughts on your relaionships. For me. I am so excited to grow old with this man I married.

2006-09-19 06:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 10 years to a good man. We have two children and there is no abuse at all. My hubby loves me and I Iove him but I find myself thinking about leaving our marriage daily. I am discontent, I feel trapped, like I can't do anything because of responsibilty and respect to my family. I am not a child and take my vows seriously however I can't stop thinking about starting my life over....without the restraints of my marriage. I find it most difficult to communicate these feelings to my husband because he has done no wrong and I do not wish to hurt him but in not doing so, I feel I am harming my own soul forever. I did leave him a month ago and he convinced me to come back the next day, that we would work on my happiness issues together. Things haven't really changed(not that there is anything bad happening), my life and my heart just feel stagnant and I feel so selfish to have these daily thoughts of running away. Any input is appreciated.

2006-09-19 06:36:13 · 18 answers · asked by StifldLifr 1

First off i will start off by saying yes i pay child support and still buy my daughter clothes,toys, food etc. the thing that bothers me though is that her mom doesn't buy her anything she expects me to get her everything which of course doesn't bother me cause it's my daughter the thing thats does bother me is that her mom always says she doesn't have money which is a lie because she makes good money working at the hospital she says she doesn't have money but still can go out wensday through saturday buy both her sisters outfits and pay for them them to go out. should i say anything to her?

2006-09-19 06:35:15 · 23 answers · asked by dan m 1

Ok let me start off by saying that my husband is 20 yrs older than me. I am 23 and he is 42. We had a baby 6 months ago and my best friend keeps her for me during the day. My husband is a nurse and works at night. That makes him home everyday when my friend is their with the baby. Lastnight he called to amke sure that she remembered that she had to be their at 7. Then when she got their, they sat on the couch together and talked while I fed the baby. It made me feel VERY weird that he sat beside her and not me and also that he called her. HELP!!! Am i just being jealous or should I worry?

2006-09-19 06:14:26 · 42 answers · asked by pookiebree1616 1

2006-09-19 06:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by Michaelangleo 1

First penis transplant reversed after two weeks Tue Sep 19, 8:41 AM ET



Surgeons in China who said they performed the first successful penis transplant had to remove the donated organ because of the severe psychological problems it caused to the recipient and his wife.

Dr Weilie Hu and surgeons at Guangzhou General Hospital in China performed the complex 15-hour surgery on a 44-year old man whose penis had been damaged in a traumatic accident.

The microsurgery to attach the penis, which had been donated by the parents of a 22-year-old brain-dead man, was successful but Hu and his team removed it two weeks later.

"Because of a severe psychological problem of the recipient and his wife, the transplanted penis regretfully had to be cut off," Hu said in a report published online by the peer reviewed journal European Urology, without elaborating.

"This is the first reported case of penile transplantation in a human," Hu added.

Both the man and his wife had requested the surgery. He had been unable to have intercourse or urinate properly since the accident that occurred 8 months before the surgery was performed.

Ten days after the operation, which had been approved by the hospital's medical ethical committee, the recipient had been able to urinate.

There had been no signs of the 10-centimetre (4-inch) organ being rejected by the recipient's body. But Hu said more cases and longer observation are needed to determine whether sexual sensation and function can be restored.

"The patient finally decided to give up the treatment because of the wife's psychological rejection, as well as the swollen shape of the transplanted penis" Hu added.

In a commentary in the journal, Yoram Vardi, of the Rambam Medical Center in Haifa, Israel, said the successful surgery represents an additional step in contemporary medicine.

But he added that careful patient selection is required as well as thorough informed consent of the patient and his family.

"Satisfactory consideration of these issues must be taken into account so that this approach can be considered a serious therapeutic option in the future," Vardi added.

2006-09-19 06:10:04 · 45 answers · asked by july p 2

im gettime married and i have no idea how to have sex??????!!!! my parents never taught me and my fiance expects me 2 know how. help please

2006-09-19 06:08:28 · 23 answers · asked by x_brunett4life_x 1

I am not sure if he is the guy for me but only because he is a little wishy washy, its a month to month basis with him, hes good and then hes bad. But we have been together since i was 15. 5 years total and we also have a 2 year old son. and we live a pretty good life he has a good job i have a steady income we just bought a very nice house in Feb and everything could be good but of course hes still young and just turned 21. he has said something about marriage to me and i to him. I am just scared because we are so young and we have had some very difficult time together. more then a few. but we all in all are very good together. Do you think it is to soon for us? I hear once you get married everything slowly starts to fall apart i dont want that to happen?.Help

2006-09-19 06:06:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 05:59:20 · 18 answers · asked by vedita s 1

spent at least 200 (it was on ATM) bank statements. He also took out an additional 100 somewhere else. 300 total. AND we are broke. Plus, I think strip clubs are only for single guys. I told him b4 we got married it was a dealbreaker. He also had some icky (blood? chocolate?0 substance on his shirt and it smelled like skank whore. How do I make him pay? And or beg for my forgiveness. Thanks! :)

2006-09-19 05:58:23 · 26 answers · asked by jenlovely01 3

Ok I wasn't clear before so I hope this helps.

A close friend of mine told me that he's in love with me weeks before he moved to the same city I am at. (Job reasons not to stalk me!) My reaction was, OMG, why is he telling me this and I said. "Sorry but nothing can ever come of this and I don't think we should bring this up again." (He and my husband get along)

So anyway I was wondering why would he tell me!? He has a girlfriend, which I met yesterday, very awkward to say the least.

And if YOU were him would you have told me and if YOU were me how would have responded/reacted???

I am trying really hard to understand why he would do this??

Thanks

2006-09-19 05:54:10 · 45 answers · asked by Me 2

I AM MARRIED WITH A 7 YEAR OLD LITTLE BOY AND I AM TRYING TO GET CUSTODY OF MY NEPHEW HE IS IN CPS CUSTODY AND MY HUSBAND WANTS TO LEAVE ME BECAUSE OF THIS. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE IN THIS SITUATION AND WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS?

2006-09-19 05:49:26 · 29 answers · asked by poohbear 2

What dreams do u have in getting married?

2006-09-19 05:45:48 · 3 answers · asked by Roni R 1