When my man and I are having sex.. he wants me to tell him how good it is, say his name, moan and stuff like that.. but I think screaming and moaning sounds so stupid... Its kind of funny because its so simple and I cant do it because moaning to me sounds whack!! Any advice as to what I should do?? For mature adults only!!!!!
2006-09-19 07:13:58 · 24 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maby you don't enjoy it as much as you should or he isn't that good?
2006-09-19 07:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone "moans" during sex, it not only lets the other person know that you are enjoying what they are doing, but for some it heightens the pleasure to hear you. Nobody says you have to scream and carry on..but a little bit of moaning never hurt anyone.. Besides, if it feels that good, how could you not make some kind of sound?? Let him know you enjoy it..
2006-09-19 14:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband likes the same thing. And yes it does sound weird... I moan all the time and for real... But talking and stuff like that, it's weird and hard, but I just do it the best thing is, just try really hard to get into it. Concentrate on how he feels inside of you and try to go off of that, Get really into it and do that. It's fun after a while. Also if you want to try to experience new feelings during sex, well you don't have to change anything. It's pretty cool. Just cover your eyes with a blindfold... and it changes everything. Put it on during 4play, because then by the time you are having sex, all of your other senses have kicked in.. It's amazing.
2006-09-19 14:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some woman are just quiet and others just can't help them self. If it something that you have never tried then try it if it is not what you want to do again then let him know. Also tell him that just because you are quiet that, that doesn't mean you are not enjoying it. Some men need the moan to know they are pleasings a woman and other need it to get off. Find out witch it is for your man and then take it from there.
2006-09-19 14:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man likes to talk dirty to me and wants for me to do the same. i've never in my life ever talked dirty during sex and i had to "learn". i felt uncomfortable about it at first, but now that i've participated in this "game" i really love it! go ahead and try it for a little while and see if you grow in to it. a few drinks before hand helps to relax you, too. and tell him how you feel about the moaning. surely you aren't totally silent during sex. maybe just rev up the sounds you make now. have fun!that's a lot of what it's all about.
2006-09-19 14:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_shy_blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he had something to make you scream and moan it would be no problem. Have him to perform orel sex on you. If you dont moan then, somethings wrong with you.
2006-09-19 14:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men feel convinced (when woman moan, etc..) that the woman folks are also enjoying and they want more as men do..
2006-09-19 14:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by bobzx2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to hear that we are doing good (even if we really are); if you feel uncomfortable saying his name and being vocal, show that you are enjoying it by being more physical. For instance, lightly dig your nails across his back, bite his shoulder, pull him in tighter/deeper, etc. Because you don't want to "say" anything, doesn't mean you can't at least show him that you are enjoying it.
2006-09-19 14:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said, tell him to work his little one eyed trouser snake a little better so that you will REALLY start moaning...
2006-09-19 14:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time moan out someone elses name he'll stop asking :)
2006-09-19 14:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by Wondering If ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a reasonable request, simple to make him happy. Now tell him what YOUR requests are! I'm sure you have some! I'll do yours if you do mine!! Hope it works!
2006-09-19 14:23:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋