When my man and I are having sex.. he wants me to tell him how good it is, say his name, moan and stuff like that.. but I think screaming and moaning sounds so stupid... Its kind of funny because its so simple and I cant do it because moaning to me sounds whack!! Any advice as to what I should do?? For mature adults only!!!!!
2006-09-19 07:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats funny because I have a friend that said groaning and moaning and all that stuff was over rated. But I told her that she never got her back blown out and had a man who could really put it down.
There have been times when I did have to fake because the man just wasn't puttin it down! You might be feeling uncomfortable moaning because its forced (faked). But when you have a man that takes you to that level of ectasy to where you just can't put into words of how good it feels, moaning and groaning will come out without you putting any thought into it. Then trust me it won't feel awkward and you won't care about how it sounds, and that is definitley a turn on for the man because they know they are making you feel good. Because silent sex will get boring and you definitely don't want to leave the impression of a dead lay!
2006-09-19 10:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband likes the same thing. And yes it does sound weird... I moan all the time and for real... But talking and stuff like that, it's weird and hard, but I just do it the best thing is, just try really hard to get into it. Concentrate on how he feels inside of you and try to go off of that, Get really into it and do that. It's fun after a while. Also if you want to try to experience new feelings during sex, well you don't have to change anything. It's pretty cool. Just cover your eyes with a blindfold... and it changes everything. Put it on during 4play, because then by the time you are having sex, all of your other senses have kicked in.. It's amazing.
2006-09-19 14:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let yourself go. OMG...I cant keep my mouth shut. They use to dedicate the song by AC/DC "Screamer" to me. LMAO The way one moans or breathes can let you know alot about how they are feeling or if they are liking what you are doing so by you not moaning, your bf is wondering if he is doing a good job or not. Body language is another indicator. Let him know by moving the hips more, vigorous kisses, arching your back and letting your hands wonder animously. Love making is learning each others way of body language. Our bodies are a map for the other. Explore it and enjoy it.
2006-09-19 14:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ALWAYS TALK to my hubby when we have sex I can tell it gets him more excited. I have no problems moaning talking or whatever. I LOVE when he moans or i can tell he's into what I'm doing it is a turn on to know your doing it RIGHT. If he or i laid there like a dead fish i can't see our sex life being as enjoyable. You don't have to yell OH GOD YES YES you can whisper oh that feels so good , I'm going to cu* , harder, rub his neck breath harder exc. IT SOUNDS SILLY it dose work. I can't ever type the things i tell my hubby during sex online.
2006-09-19 14:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some of what he asks. So guys need to be reassured that they are doing everything to make you feel good. Moaning and screaming makes him feel like he is satisfying you.
2006-09-19 14:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by wldctpete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the man likes to know he's doing a good job - a little sound of approval from you will help him along - is he quiet the whole time you're having sex? how would you feel if you were getting no reaction from him? start slow - just say his name and tell him it feels good - it will get easier the more you do it.
2006-09-19 14:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only asking you to do that so he can tell if you are having a good time. He will enjoy that alot. There is nothing wrong with it at all. I think it would be weird to say nothing during sex...... I think you should try it and see how he responds you might likethe resonse you get from doing it.
2006-09-19 14:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by rhodes727 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest other ways of letting him know he is pleasing you. You can grab his hair at the nape of the neck, run your nails down his back, gently bite his lower lip, make good eye contact, arch your back....
Vocal expressions don't have to be so exaggerated either, you can whisper things to him.....tell him how much you love him and want him, give him suggestions on how to make sex more pleasurable (ex. deeper, harder, faster)....things you don't have to feel like you are faking.....
Hope that helped....Good luck!
2006-09-19 14:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend is having the same problem with her boyfriend she said that he moans and she doesn't and the reason is because he is enjoying it more than her, so my response to you is that maybe your not reallyreallyreally enjoying it. i mean it might feel good but it doesn't feel really good.
2006-09-19 14:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by dnelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey let it all hang out,I'm sure you feel the need to express your pleasure in some moments in a certain way that is unique yo you, keep doing that and as to all the other stuff do it for him, it won't kill you
2006-09-19 14:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by pay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋