Do you feel more secure with a dominate person than with submissive person? Why or why not?

Answer 1

I'm guessing your asking about security within the relationship itself. And since your question is about feeling secure and not which I like better, I'm going to say no I don't feel more secure with a dominate person. Because a more dominate person would be more outgoing and would be more likely to get out there and meet people and would be more aggressive, so they would be more likely to cheat or at least I would be afraid that they would. My husband is very submissive, so I know he would be too scared to talk to other women and start a cheating relationship with them. But as far as what I like better, I would say I would prefer a more dominate husband, so that I wouldn't have to be in charge all of the time against my will.

Answer 2

I have had both types of relationships and marriages, I got so tired of always being in charge, what to do, where to go...........it was too hard to always be the one to pick what to do etc etc......my husband now is more dominate than any other man I have been with, and most of the time its good, he is also learning that I have strong opinions on certain things and that's when I get my way...it works out good for the most part

Answer 3

I like being with a slightly dominate person - someone who knows what to do in any given situation.

Answer 4

Dominate but now I have to learn to be more dominate myself. I like to have the decisions made for me.

Answer 5

Dominate, just because I do

Answer 6

i really prefer it 50/50, but if i had to choose, i would choose a dominate person only because i think it shows more confidence.

Answer 7

I'm a better follower than a leader.