My soon to be (10 days) ex-wife is coming to take the kids (9,11 & 13) for the day to visit. She said it would be nice if I came along. The kids want me to come with them also. I seem to be the only one who is struggling being with HER. She already has a live-in boyfriend, Yet we are not divorced. The QUESTION is, how do I let go of this emotion of hurt and just go with the flow? I know if I dont go, it wont change my relationship with her and if i go maybe she may see the changes in me and look at what she left behind. me and six children. We were married for 24 years. I still have feelings for her even though she commited adultry. I guess I hope she will become aware of the hurt it has caused and want to make things right. I just dont know what to do. I want to go but part of me says you are not a part of her life, so let it go. HELP!
2006-09-22
22:56:37
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james.ampmerch
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