Being separated for about 3 months and he has a girlfriend so y do he worry who I see and who i talk to. I still love him but I see he moved on but he can't stop asking on what I do.
2006-09-22 20:29:33 · 19 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him its none of his business...
2006-09-22 20:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several reason for this behaviour.
1. Even though he has a girlfriend he probably is still holding on to you in his head, and he might be wondering if you have a new boyfriend and he may be wondering if the new guy is better than him or if you are happier now.
2. I do not know if your seperation was bitter or amiable- however if it was bitter he might like to think that you can not get another person - or if it was amiable he might seriously be hoping that you are happy and that you are moving on with life with out him.
3. I would recommend that you do not disclose to him what you do or where you go. Be polite to him but do not reveal your private life. You could tell him that you have moved on and would rather not go into your private details with him. Or you could just smile sweetly and say very softly that you have been very busy doing new things that it is really bit complicated and you have no need to discuss it.
2006-09-22 20:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by newrabbit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men have a could regulate women individuals. He desires to be attentive to all your employer with the aid of fact deep interior he nonetheless desires to regulate you and his information of your very own life is a factor of that administration. He may additionally want to intrude with any new relationships you may could come again at you with the aid of fact he's likewise very immature. He could be desirous to punish you in some way for the divorce and or use something you do in the process the divorce in court docket against you. you're nonetheless legally married till the divorce. in case you have a dating with a guy on an identical time as nonetheless legally married you have committed adultry and this might and could be used against you in a court docket of regulation. you're a woman remember that and you're actually not taken care of the comparable in court docket. in case you have infants and your are napping around with men on an identical time as nonetheless married you may loose custody or rights on your infants. Your quickly to be ex might set you up. He might have a male individual pose as an fascinated individual in direction of you in easy terms to testify in court docket on his behalf approximately you. An ex husband is an extremely risky guy somewhat if he is going to loose any of his possessions or could pay you any quantity of money alongside with alimony and baby help.
2016-10-17 12:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats simple he still loves you u say he has a girl but in his eyes its like having someone to soften the blow, it may be wrong but the pain of lossing the one you love the one you really love drives a person to do things that no one understands but in the end its due to the fact that he still loves you and even thoug he accepted that he failed and wishes you happyness it doesnt means he stopped loving you at all it just means he will see you and wish he had not messed up but the love will always be there
2006-09-22 20:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by maike j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be his ego or that he still loves you. Or it could be a territorial thing... As for him having a girlfriend, that could be a macho move, he might be afraid to be alone...or maybe he no longer loves you.
Next time you see him, watch his eyes. Does he look at you cruelly? Or do his eyes say "give me another chance?"
Good luck to you,
2006-09-22 20:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever enter your mind that he may still love you and has not gotten over the breakup. If you still love him, there is a possibility that you two belong together and should try to work out your differences.
2006-09-22 20:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still possessive with you. He shouldn't be and has no right to be since he already has a girlfriend. He doesn't want to see you being with anyone and being happy.
2006-09-22 21:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you love this selfish guy... Forget him and find a new man who respects you and move forward with the crowed.
2006-09-22 20:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just maybe he loves you still time for the 2 of you to talk to each other over dinner
2006-09-22 20:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by aldo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to cut him off slowly if you are serious about divorcing.. It can be uncomfortable discussing some things.. Let some time past before you become close friends sharing such things..
2006-09-22 20:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a myriad of reasons from denying you financial assets, custody, or insecurity in his own relationship and latent love for you ... depends on the reason for the seperation and who initiated it ... affairs aren't about love, just sex and ego. he is jealous and if you find someone better then he perceives himself to be, that is a blow to his ego
2006-09-22 20:39:11 · answer #11 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋