He has all his x-girlfriend over all the time.. Their Just Friends..????
2006-09-22 19:53:04 · 19 answers · asked by SweetDedie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, everyone sides with you, even if they're total strangers.
The general opinion is that you should leave him. If they are just friends, then you shouldn't impede. Let him know how you feel. If they're more than friends, tell him you're uncomfortable and make him choose.
Why are you still with a guy that never shows he loves you? If you love him, then you're clinging to hope that isn't there. Make a change, protect yourself from being hurt. Talk to him about your problems, and if you'd rather not, talk to someone else about it. Sit down and have a long, hard talk with a friend about why you think he doesn't make you feel loved. Things will go from there, but there's little more I can say from the three sentences you posted.
2006-09-22 19:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Link 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DId he have a friendship with his ex before your relationship, if so you knew this prior to your partnership and isn't a battle I would play in. If he did this after and he knows you are uncomfortable with it and won't do anything about it then do you really want to be with someone who disrespects you and is that inconsiderate? Why love someone who would make you feel that way? YOu are worth more than that. Every person derserves a happy, equal relationship. Love is never suppose to put you down, or make you feel like a fool. True Love isn't suppose to be unkind, have you in doubt and question your worth. You deserve more and don't forget it.
2006-09-23 03:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by wtrmlnqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it he just isn't that into you. If he truly loved or cared about you he wouldn't disrespect you in the manner that you're describing. MOVE ON. You deserve better and you're only wasting your precious time on someone who doesn't appreciate it. The sooner you let go the better. It will hurt at first (especially if he acts like he doesn't care that you've left) but you will feel better in time and you'll find someone better! Promise!
2006-09-23 02:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pack up and go. Don't even tell him. Leave when he is not around. Block him from your phone and e-mail. Any conversation with him will be pointless, he will either say anything to keep you or say he doesn't care if you go. Either way, he'll be screwing with your head. If you don't love and treat yourself with respect no one else will.
2006-09-23 04:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is a big place and full of men who will treat you like a lady. There is more than friendship between your man and his x. Leave him and find happiness. You deserve it.
2006-09-23 09:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being someones doormat. Just friends ? yeah right!! Not .He is messing with her right under your nose. Dump him he is a loser and he is pond life in other words scum. Move on to someone who will love you and respect you. Good Luck.
2006-09-23 08:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He can be nice and friendly with other women he has slept with, but not you, and he doesn't make you feel loved...he doesn't love you or respect you and will only replace you as soon as he feels the need...after tearing down your self worth--- Send him packing and keep your dignity.
2006-09-23 02:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear innocent girl , please just go away from him , you are strong enough and have confidence to live your own term . You will get some nice soul very soon , the minute you decide to say bye to him .
2006-09-23 03:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not trust that at all. you should leave him. but if you have children, i know that is easier said than done. if he treats you like nothing and doesn't even listen to your thoughts and feelings about sensitive subjects such as this, than he is not worth your love.
2006-09-23 02:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a new rule. No ex gf over anymore. No more communicating with exs anymore.
2006-09-23 04:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋