My ex started dating this guy who has been busted for drugs! He has no job, no vehicle and lives with his mom. He is divorced and is not allowed to see his son.. O.k, when i found out about him, the first thing i told her was don't bring him around my kids. She hates me because she says she can't have a normal relationship with him, because i want let her bring him around the kids. Six months ago his ex keyed her car and she blamed it on me and i was at my moms with the kids. She realized it was not me. 2 months ago she found some drugs in her vehicle and she blamed it on me, never did drugs in my life! Nothing ever happened and she is still with this guy. Last weekend i was at the casino with some friends and her front and back window got broken with 2 other vehicles at a bar she was at with this drug head and she is pointing the finger at me! A friend i met there e-mail me this week while i was at work and told me she asked who was i with and what time i left the casino. Why me????
2006-09-22 21:25:57 · 10 answers · asked by take-it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's targeting you because she cannot admit to herself that this guy and the friends he keeps are bad news. Tell her if these false accusations continue you're going to file harrassment charges against her. Take a stand on this issue because at some point she may accuse you and you won't have an alibi (like if you're home alone,etc). You don't have to tolerate this, nor expose your kids to her irrational, irresponsible lifestyle. Good luck
2006-09-22 21:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why u?????? um havent u realized after all these years of knowing ur x wife that she has no clue how to take responsibility for her own actions and always needs an escape horse to pin it on.. and congrats.. ur it..
Get the proof that u need, and get ur kids out of that situation before they get hurt.. Get a social worker involved, so they can document the unstable environment ur children are living in and fight with every penny u have to get custody of ur children..
2006-09-23 05:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer lizzomail is right. Can't you put LOTS of distance and much less contact between you and this woman, you're keeping up with her biz waaaay too much to have any peace. I understand she is the mother of your children, but life causes us to have to cut our losses and turn away from some things in order to regain or maintain SANITY.
2006-09-23 05:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your ex is still angry with you possibly jealous as well. She could also be on drugs or beiing treated badly by new bf and is taking anger out on you. She wants you to hurt like she is hurting, talk to her without bf around if you can make it civil she may tell you why she is acting this way.
2006-09-23 04:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great episode for Jerry Springer!!
2006-09-23 04:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for you to try and get sole custody of your children and put your ex and her sordid life choices firmly in the past where they belong.
2006-09-23 04:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? To much of a Wussy to Stand Up for Yourself?
2006-09-23 04:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I thought I had problems. Move to another city. So that her healing can begin and yours too.
2006-09-23 04:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get the f u c k outa there while you some sanity left
2006-09-23 05:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by robcostabrava@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn, that's a lot to go through
2006-09-23 04:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋