My hubby of late he has changed before we used to go for outings togather but he goes alone and not want me to call him. when i call him he gives the phone to his friends to answer to tell me that they're with him.
yesterday i to find out what he does late in the night i moved out unexpectedly and found him in a bar with a gal seated btn his legs i never said anything moved to the counter bought for myself a beer and went out he came with his friend to convice me that there was nothing btn them and that the gal was for his friend i played it cool and demanded to go to club unfortunately in this bar there was my Ex who offered me a beer brought it to my table when he saw him he came straight to me & asked if i still loved him and why he offered me a beer i no i don't love him but he is a friend. he accused me of having planned with him to meet in this bar ro club the gal called him i picked it but she refused to talk to me.i called her told her that this man has a wife & a kid.
2006-09-22 22:13:52 · 10 answers · asked by halicate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honestly i think that if he is trying to avoid u and would rather pay more attention to his stupid friends than he isnt even worth it. i think u need to find someone who will be true to u and himself. someone who would rather hang out with and love u and put everything else (including his friends ) in the back seat. never take that from someone life is too short and u sound sweet. you need to find someone who actually cares about u and it seems to me this guy doesnt. good luck and i hope this answer helped u out
2006-09-22 22:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that your husband is playing around. I know that a lot of guys like to leave their date between a friend's legs when they use the restroom, or need to make a phone call. So, finding women between hubby's legs isn't a reason to be upset. Even if you often find different women between his legs, because your husband may have lots of friends- all stashing girls between his legs. It may also be that your husband is kind enough to allow his friends to leave women with him for safekeeping, in which case you may come upon your husband in some cheap motel, with one of these women, but, of course it would be totally innocent, just a friendly gesture to help out a buddy. Even if they were naked, it would certainly just be a case of where the lady was worried she'd get her clothing wrinkled, so she wants to remove it. Of course, a considerate guy like your husband, would also undress, to keep the girl from being self conscious. So, you have nothing to worry about.
2006-09-23 06:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should be home with your child instead of at the bar. Tell your husband to come home...hand him a beer and get between his legs. lol
2006-09-23 05:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have issues either time for serious counseling or time for u both to realize u have a very disfunctional marriage and either agree to keep the disfunctional marriage going and stop actting stupid on both of ur parts and just chalk it up to thats how its always going to be.. or get a divorce..
2006-09-23 05:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him for a day or two tell him to think deeply of what he wants because you will not be able to stand a guy who lie and cheat and do not trust you too
2006-09-23 05:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by tam d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rid yourself of this man, he's not even worth all the drama and problems.
2006-09-23 07:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not faithful. Leave him or accept his behavior for the rest of your life.
2006-09-23 12:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are dogs!! Leave him hun cause it won't get any better.
2006-09-23 05:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by franxie03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away.. it's no use beating a dead horse... If he had really loved you he would not have done that..
2006-09-23 05:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To have you for fun .
2006-09-23 05:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋