What happens if ur the loser in a relationship?

Question

Where you screwed up, you know you screwed up and there isn't anything you can do to change it?

Answer 1

Contrary to what some of us believe, love is not a competetitive sport. You don't loose, you learn, Besides if you are meant to be with that person, and they with you, it will come back to you.

Answer 2

To be forgiven you need to say sorry really say it then you need to make amends ,cope the yelling and take the hurt feelings and never blame anyone else ,own it and you need to earn trust back ,and that takes a long time ,if your partner needs space ,give it ,if she needs to know were you are every five minuets ,let her .and rebuild the relationship ,talk about how to make it better for both and do the work.after that its up to her to be grown up about it.

Answer 3

Yes lots here is what you can do:

The simpler role of husbands in decades past has now been replaced by a much more complex and confusing role, especially in their relationship with their wives. Some conclude that women are born to complain and men must ignore it to survive. Others feel that women have come to expect so much of men that they are impossible to please, so there's no point in even trying. Very few men, these days, feel that they have learned to become the husbands that their wives have wanted, and the job seems to be getting more and more difficult.

I use a house as an illustration to help you understand how wives feel. Each room in the house represents one of the husband's roles in life. There is a room for his job as a production manager, there is another for golf, another for his new sports car, one for his garden, one for his children, one for church, and, yes, one for his wife.

As he makes his way through an average day, he visits various rooms when he is faced with the role the room defines. And when he's in a certain room, the others are blocked out of his mind so that he can focus his undivided attention on the role he plays at the time. He does his best when he's not faced with distractions, and prefers to deal with each problem with all his energy and creativity so that he does the best he can in each role he plays.

The wives of most men are only one of many rooms in this imaginary house. It represents the "husband" role. When they are in that room, they usually try to give their wives undivided attention and make a special effort to meet their needs. They also go to that room to have their own needs met, particularly the need for sex.

What frustrates wives most is that they are relegated to only one room in their husbands' imaginary house instead of every room. In other words, they want to be integrated into a man's entire life, not relegated to one corner. Without such integration, there can be no emotional bonding, no uniting of the spirit, no feeling of intimacy and, in many cases, no sex.

Learn to integrate your wife into every aspect of your life, regardless of your role or responsibility, the wife should be considered in each decision made. Once the invitation is made, the results are startling!

When a husband invites his wife into each room of his house, she helps change his priorities. She reminds him that her feelings are very different from his. As a result, he begins to live his life in a way that is compatible to her needs and values.

He learns how to avoid habits that cause his wife to be unhappy, and he learns how to meet her most important emotional needs. He also learn how to give his undivided attention to her and schedule time to be alone with her.
Hope this helps - Good Luck

Answer 4

It's all your fault.Go cry in your beer for awhile.And in your next relationship try not to make the same mistakes.

Answer 5

yes its happen sometime,now its time to turn the next page and move on.

Answer 6

then u acknowledge your mistake and move on. just make sure u learn from that mistake and avoid making it again.

Answer 7

if you have the courage, then just move on, because if you get back in te relationship, she'll never let you forget it,and if you think that you can make her forget it.... welll... forget.... women are like elephants.... THEY NEVER FORGET>>>

Answer 8

Move on.

Answer 9

no winner no loser in LOVE

Answer 10

make good everything without any trick or false.