Marriage & Divorce - 19 September 2006

Dont you think that people should work on a "problem" in their marriage instead of adding to it? You take an oath before GOD to love and honor till death, not till it gets tough. If couples would take what they have and cherish it instead of thinking that they "need" more to make them happy, we would put the divorce lawyers out of business. Take a moment to really look at your life and your spouse. If you could eliminate some of the stress in your life, dont you think your relationship would be breathtaking?

2006-09-19 05:41:10 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly V 2

He's gone. After 15 years of marriage. He went to councellor this morning and called me from his office to say that he has to be alone to work out his issues. He came home an hour later and I sat back and watched him pack his clothes.....how do you stay strong?

2006-09-19 05:34:40 · 20 answers · asked by Canada 1

10 points for good and long paragraph

2006-09-19 05:32:21 · 6 answers · asked by ted 1

2006-09-19 05:25:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting a divorce from my husband of 5 years. We have 4 kids. 8 7 6 5 years old. I want to take 2 and him have two but i dont want them mad at me. What should I do?

2006-09-19 05:22:58 · 30 answers · asked by peachtree_21915 1

i'm asking because the whole time my wife and i were toghther she hated me and now that were seperated she's really nice to me and invites to go out with her to clubs and says everyone thinks were together but i have my own friends to out with girls that i meet plus thats my wifes sister should i tell my wife or is she just trying to be friendly

2006-09-19 05:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by dan m 1

i'm asking because the whole time my wife and i were toghther she hated me and now that were seperated she's really nice to me and invites to go out with her to clubs and says everone thinks were together but i have my own friends to out with girls that i meet plus thats my wifes sister should i tell my wife or is she just trying to be friendly

2006-09-19 05:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by dan m 1

I need to increase my wifes drive badly. My wife makes me feel like I am an overly horney person for wanting it a few times a week. It is making me feel very unneeded. I have talked to her about it, cleaned the house often, brought home flowers, and given her good massages. I am freash out of ideas. HELP!

2006-09-19 05:10:07 · 22 answers · asked by Paka 2

I'm in my freshman year of college with two kids. Tremaine and Tyrian. Tremaine is 4 and Tyrain is 9 months. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years and he is the father of both my kids. He wants to get married. Should I get married or wait until I graduate from college? He is in his freshman year of college also. We both can support ourselves and he is a great father. But I am questionable about marriage. Any suggestions?

2006-09-19 05:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by babyjay_babyjae 2

2006-09-19 05:08:15 · 9 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3

Half of my coworkers are divorced. All of them say that they wished that they had tried harder or didn't divorce, even the guys, all of whom have married hot young things since the divorce.

2006-09-19 05:07:04 · 16 answers · asked by jenna b 1

everything from sex, how I raise kids, how I clean house, buy groceries, all most everything. but mostly sex

2006-09-19 05:06:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got a short list started, and I'd love it to stay short. Please add to and comment on this list.
When I say basically all, I mean 80 to 99%, depending on the thing.
And don't worry, I'm aware that there are just as many things on the male side, and that the bad behavior of men trigger some of these things in their women. Also note that I am not implying that 80 to 99% of women have these traits to a large degree, but at least enough to be annoying to a thinking man.
Here's my list:
-Expecting their man to know what their woman wants and what they've done to make their woman angry without her communicating that in any direct way.

-Keeping score differently, often illogically, but certainly keeping score. Knowing they're not being logical in arguments with their man.

-Presuming that their man is the less "civilized" between the two of them.

-Resenting their man if THEY ARE ABLE TO go out with their friends more than the woman does/can.

2006-09-19 05:05:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where would you be if your parents were Gay?

2006-09-19 05:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She couldn't consider that cheating on my diet as long as I don't actually eat the ice cream bar, do you agree?

2006-09-19 04:58:10 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-09-19 04:58:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 04:55:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jenifer S 2

My hubby and I have been doing this for years, but I have recently found out that not many other people do this. They say there is no mystery left between us, but if we are married, should there be any mystery between us? I just thought I would throw this question to the masses and see what comes out!!!!

2006-09-19 04:55:02 · 40 answers · asked by Emma W 4

Ok, I have a friend who has been common law married for about 15 years. He and his wife are splitting up. Should either of them decide to get married (common law or otherwise) in the future could they be accused of polygamy? Is there such a thing as a formal common law divorce?

They live in Texas. Is this a state law type of thing?

2006-09-19 04:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is not giving me anyhting as far as any emotions are concerned. I try to keep everything fresh and do all that I can, but without the effort coming from both of us it wears me out. It's almost she is depressed or just completely unhappy with the life that we have and I am stuck having to deal with it and trying t ofigure out to help her, when it really needs to come from within. I do not want to quit, but I can't be the only one trying. I want and deserve more.

2006-09-19 04:51:43 · 16 answers · asked by ????????????????? 1

Do you think u were ready (mature enough)??? If yes why, If no why not??

2006-09-19 04:49:52 · 25 answers · asked by **What??** 4

It is a joke that pepole use to justify calling it quits when the going got tough. In my neighborhood, three couples, the husband and the new wife live down the street from the ex wife and kids. I believe that is a bit sick. But hey, this is do what you want America.
I am not saying that you should enemies. Why not like cordial people on a bus?

2006-09-19 04:48:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 04:44:33 · 29 answers · asked by big_strong_one 2

2006-09-19 04:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5

2006-09-19 04:43:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband injured his knee and he is in a lot of pain. I’ve been there for him as much as possible. But I have to work and he is really needy these days and he is getting depressed about having to miss work. And is pretty irritable and wants me to take care of him 24/7. Anyway, he is scheduled for surgery next week. I’m trying to be patient as possible but it’s hard. We usually have a really close marriage. Any good advice?

2006-09-19 04:39:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

why, whit who,howlong

2006-09-19 04:31:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

when did you know that your marriage was over? and did u have kids? and how did it all go at the end are you guys friends?

2006-09-19 04:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by lisaslife02 2

My wife and I have always disagreed about the need for separate vacations. Now, she and her friend booked themselves on a cruise and kept the arrangements from me until 2 weeks before. They had booked it 6 moths earlier. Now, I wonder what else she has been keeping from me. She claims it was to avoid a confrontation, but the lying and deception has only added fuel to the fire. I don't know where to turn. I have read that separate vacations only work where their has been discussion and some level of mutual understanding. There has been no such thing working here. All I see is me being left out yet again. I feel that I cannot trust her anymore.

2006-09-19 04:27:55 · 19 answers · asked by grendelhawke 1

2006-09-19 04:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous