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i notice that on my last question why do men hit girls in the face it mostly girls answering why arent u
2006-09-19 12:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous
what should i do about our relationship it feels like we have just hit this plateau and are stuck in this dead spot....is this normal?HELP
2006-09-19 12:42:13 · 22 answers · asked by gabriellagrace67 1
2006-09-19 12:41:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous
my married life suxs, big time.no sex for over 7 years-help!
2006-09-19 12:39:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous
Some will flame me. But though I love & respect my wife, the fire has gone out of our marriage and sex is non-existent. Even when it does happen on that one-in-a-blue-moon occasion, it feels soulless & devoid of any passion. It has been going on for more than 3yrs in a 7yr marriage. We have and love our kids. They take up her time, but mine as well. We have talked but it seems she has no time, energy or desire for me, & she often admits as much. It does not help that I try to eat right & stay fit while my wife does not.
She is in many ways a great wife, but w/o passion our relationship seems more like friends than husband &wife, and certainly not lovers.
On the one hand, I don't want to cheat. I do think it is disrespectful, of course. And I don't want to do anything to disrupt my marriage or hurt my kids.
On the other hand, I think lack of sex is a problem, and I cannot see myself going through the rest of my life like this.
Suggestions? Does anyone feel the same way?
2006-09-19 12:38:34 · 52 answers · asked by Mister? 2
This is to all the fathers who ex's have physical custody of there children (primary guardian)
Since the mother has physical custody how does you're visitation work, how many days out of the week or month do u have youre kids?
I have mediation tomorrow with my ex, and I was going to go for Joint Legal Custody (so we both have a say in the childs well being) and was going to give my ex physical custody. But after doing some reading, when it comes to visitation with a mother who has physical custody, I may not get to see my kids much. So I was thinking maybe I should go with Joint Legal and Joint Physcial....even though I know we wont see them 50/50 but I know I would most likely see them more then 2 days every 2 weeks...Anyway, to any divorced or single fathers, tell me your custody arrangments and visitation, I'd like to get some insight before tomorrow, thanks!
2006-09-19 12:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous
why is it almost always in the face
2006-09-19 12:30:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous
read this poem i wrote and tell me what you think please.. thanks!!
Show me who you are,
Stop me, before I go too far.
Are you leading me on,
Please don't just end up being gone.
Please lower that bar,
Don't be afraid to show me who you are.
You're scared to get hurt,
You're scared to get treated like dirt.
Yet I'm not going to hurt you,
If only you really knew.
I understand you're scared,
But only if you would've dared.
You could have had me,
But friends we will be..
2006-09-19 12:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Andi 2
you sound like you might know something she might have said ,but honestly nothing was wrong with our relationship prior to me getting locked up and why get rid of my stuff and come to see me every sunday and continue to say she loved me in front of everyone if you have any idea please let me know
2006-09-19 12:24:48 · 2 answers · asked by ransom4660 1
if there is a God, then why doesn't he answer my prayers regarding my marriage? i pray for my marriage to be normal, loving, and strong. i never have felt secure with this marriage. i deserve a good marriage like everyone else. i don't feel loved in this marriage, and yet i love with everything i got. i asked God, to please help me stop loving him so i can walk away, because i am so weak when it comes to him. he would leave me at the drop of a hat if i made him mad. 9 years i have been married and i can never leave. i seem to love him more than ever and i hate that i can't do the same thing he can do. i don't have any closeness with family of my own, and there is no way that will ever change. i have no friends because i am always working. he has family and friends. i am a great person and i am not ugly, and yet i never feel good enough for him. ill do anything to please him. what can i do ?
2006-09-19 12:23:45 · 22 answers · asked by mercedes1 3
I have been married for 6 years and I haven't kissed my husband in I would say 4 years. We used to be all over each other now not at all. He never tells me he loves me so I don't say it either. 3 1/2 years ago we had some "problems" where I had found attention elsewhere so we split. Then he promised me the world and we got back together and we seem to be in the same slump again. I want to make it work and I want the passion back but don't know where to start.. can someone help....
2006-09-19 12:15:31 · 7 answers · asked by bababoey24 2
We've only been married a little over a year, but my husband very rarely ever says anything nice to me and he barely ever even smiles at me. I told him how much this was bothering me and he thinks i'm just over reacting and to get over it. I still love him and i know deep down he loves me too. I don't know if his behavior is normal or if it is something i should worry about. Advice?
2006-09-19 12:06:34 · 37 answers · asked by frvriprms 1
We've been married for quite a while and have endured everything life dished out. Three kids, a mortgage, the American dream. But we didn't put each other first and drifted irreparibly apart. Counseling, talking, nothing worked. People change, we did too. Now my oldest daughter had a baby and guess who they're living with. The other two are little hellions that get away with murder. When I try to intervene, I'm "an a**hole". It's totally out of control. What little affection I used to get has now gone into negeatve numbers. I'm a passionate, imaginative romantic and I'm literally dyin here. I'm just a gardener, yard man and a paycheck to all of them, and I don't think my wife loves me anymore. She might even be having an affair because she sure doesn't need anything from me. I'm CRAZY lonely. What should I do?
2006-09-19 12:04:50 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 4
2006-09-19 11:55:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous
Married almost 6 years, 13 years together. Totally in love with my wife and I believe if your honest you can work anything out. My wife and I have had problems for years, mostly me complaining that she never has time for me but does for other. I just found out she has been cheating( I think) with her ex boss/friend. She says she found him cute but thats it. I checked her cell phone text one night and saw a message from him about her having soft angel lips. I didn't say anything at first until after she deleted it. Once I confronted her she stated it just happened over the weekend, she hasn't had sex with him yet. After further searching I found out that she went to lunch with him and that these texts have been going on for months I counted over 800 in two months. After confronting again, she stated that it just got out of hand and she has not been in love with me for years. She doesn't want a divorce but not sure if she wants to work it out, what do I do, I have two small kids.
2006-09-19 11:53:57 · 32 answers · asked by cowboytodd2002 1
I want to know what would make a happily married man do this:
When he goes out with his wife, he will snap pix of people and send them out via e-mail to the respective people. His wife noticed a couple of the pix were of pretty single ladies. He took pix of them too and sent them out via e-mail.
His wife asked him not to take pix of single women... But he still does, and sends them out via e-mail. They, of course reply with a "you're so sweet" kind of e-mail.
What makes him do this? Is he being malicious? Does he need validation from other women? Is he just sweet?
2006-09-19 11:52:39 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Saffire♥ 4
My divorce was final last june.We do have a child together I am from another country and during the mediation he agreed to let me bring my child to see my family for a month,once a year,well today he told me the if the child can not see his mother he will stop me to do so.Should go to a lawyer?
2006-09-19 11:52:13 · 20 answers · asked by S. 2
She hates sex . some how i have to talk her, pamper her or almost force her to have sex (Very rare). She doesnt like to discuss it, she tries to avoid foreplay....what do i do ... how to convince her.
2006-09-19 11:50:59 · 34 answers · asked by biker 2
After 7 years and 2 engagements, my boyfriend still wants to wait and work on some issues before getting married. I think that we will always have issues and by now he should know if he will commit to marriage. I do not mean run off today to Vegas. I do not want to give an ultimatu. I just do not want to stay in this with out that tangible commitment. He always says "I DO want to get married just not now." We are pushing 40 with no prior marriages. He does not see my side or acts like I do not make sense .....IO say after 7 years you should be able tell and not have to "work through more issies. I think we should commit and work on the issues within the context of a commitment. I think the more problems we solve as a couple and not as man and wife. The more apt we are to get divorced because I feel his mind is still looking for a way out. He says I am unreasonable, I think he is unreasonable. WHAT ARE THE WORDS TO USE?
2006-09-19 11:47:49 · 4 answers · asked by sweet pea 3
2006-09-19 11:46:40 · 14 answers · asked by piersybaby 1
I had a t shirt that mimicked the nba (national basketball association). instead of nba it said T&A (**** &***) with a outline of a female in stead of a basketball player. My wife threw the t shirt away sayin it was offensive.
next thing i know she has a pair of painties that she got on sale for $7 thats says "whore" written across the butt.
she says she doesnt consider it to be offensive because no one else sees it but me, and im being petty for trying to compare it with a shirt for the world to see.
AM I PETTY FOR TRYING TO COMPARE THE TWO?
2006-09-19 11:42:13 · 13 answers · asked by ike 1
We are recently seperated. But she makes me so misrable she all ways wants it her way and if I choose otherwise she tends to threatin me.We have a 7 year old son and its hard for me to have a relationship with him becuase of her.I can't stand her attitude its allway in a negative mood{like allways sceaming or naging}.well just last night she was trying to hert my feelings threatning that she is going to f*** some other guy.Becuase I would'nt stay with her. So what do you think how do I get this psycopath off my back? She calls me regarless even if I tell her to stop calling me.
2006-09-19 11:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous
Hi all, I need help because I am at a crossroad here. I have a boyfriend that I have been in an intimate relationship over 2 years.
I think I found my husband, no I know I found him. But we are having problems in the friend department. I have some friends that I have been cool with for a yearor so....my co-workers.
I am glad were are friends because I really didnt have too many.
We hang alot and have fun. But my boyfriend is from my hometown but he works out of state but not too far because we can drive back and forth to see each other, which we have. But he doesnt like the fact that my friends are single and they go out alot he thinks they dont respect our relationship, he doesnt mind us goin out but he doesnt like that we go bar-hopping, he says we should do something else. Because of his work I see him 2 or 3 times a month. I dont like how he wants all of my attention when he comes home even if I want to do something with my friends.
2006-09-19 11:36:02 · 4 answers · asked by Dawn K 1
Just wondering
2006-09-19 11:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by sunnydays 1
my husband and i are looking for a girl to have a threesome with, how do i look for girls in my area.. im in pa but i live in a small town.. and too scared to ask my friends...
2006-09-19 11:27:55 · 5 answers · asked by Lux C 1
2006-09-19 11:26:33 · 25 answers · asked by Boo 2
Thank you for your recent advice EVERBODY!My husband & I made an agreemeent last night that we would lay everything on the table about my stepson living in our house with no chores no paing rent and he has a full time job.(It was football "monday night")LOL I luv it to~All 3 of us were 2 sit down discuss $50.00 a week & chores.My husband told me in the shower that nothings going to change & no discussion about anything.I told my hsband i what is your son excusive to the world?HE said it benifits us & him.WRONG IT does't benifit us money wise are bills are higher .His son learns no responsibilityWhat is he exclusive to the world? please tell me if i'm wrong?I'm going to leave !
2006-09-19 11:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by funnynotlost 2
looks like shes getting on with her life and looking for someone else
2006-09-19 11:25:01 · 26 answers · asked by lordfatrat 2
wosrst thing i done was to sell my house, no escape hole to run to!
2006-09-19 11:24:11 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4
My friend, 23, inherited a lot of money from his grandfather. He have considered marrying/engagin his girlfriend, no job but a part time model, who is damm beautiful. (both of them want to get married and their parents agreed) He wants to make a prenup for the money. Should he ask for the prenup? what is the best way that he can ask for without hurting her feelings?
2006-09-19 11:23:10 · 10 answers · asked by smilecow28 1
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