my married life suxs, big time.no sex for over 7 years-help!
2006-09-19 12:39:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try marriage counseling first to see what the root of the problem is if I may ask why have you and your spouse let it go this long 7yrs is a long time to not share intimacy with your spouse.Also try individual counseling I am really shocked that youre still in the marriage,Ive seen spouses on here ask if they should cheat or divorce for the lack of sexual intimacy so I commend you.
2006-09-19 12:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went to the doctor and she prescribed medication for me, and it really helps. I take the tablet everyday, and if I fail to do it then my wife and kids know it. I recommend you see a doctor or a professional counselor that deals with this type of behavior.
I should have done this years ago, and not waited until I was 58.
I wish you the best of luck, but do not put it off any longer.
I can understand what you mean by no s_x, because I have not had it with my spouse for 4+ years. I have taken some of the recommendations that people emailed you as for as s_x goes.
Good Luck, Texas
2006-09-19 20:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about going for counseling? or just sitting down and having a heart to heart talk? I think it is needed, You know the key to a good marriage is communications, Have you ever thought to ask your partner, how he or she feels, may be it is a medical problem, sometimes you would be surprise, And you can work on yourself, with your stress, and anger, sometimes being nice goes a long way. Try saying to your better half, did you have a good day today? Do something special around the house, small things mean so much. I can"t say it enough, Work on you, please try some of these things, they so work. this way at least you can say I tried.
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2006-09-20 06:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex, 7 years WOW! And Married. I feel for you and I don't thing I could go seven. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 23:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by tm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation for six years. The only way to relieve all the stress was a divorce. It made a huge difference in my outlook on life. Now I am happy.
2006-09-19 19:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check out ( http://www.reducingstress.net )
It is a really good stress site.
There are lots of articles on all stress related topics.
I think you will find help for this situation there.
2006-09-21 23:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take all of your build up stress, anger etc. and channel it into finding out who your husband is having sex with.
2006-09-19 19:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you serious? 7 years, maybe join a swingers club, if you partner wont sleep with you maybe they will sleep with someone else, thus freeing you up to sleep with other people. Or just leave them, 7 years OMG!
2006-09-19 19:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Smoke weed everyday.
2006-09-19 20:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by blaze 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋