If she loved me, she'd stop being such a baby, don't you think?
2006-09-19 07:35:14 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try jamming something up your shoot and see how big of a baby you are.
2006-09-19 07:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by SAHM3 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
ok, now listen, if she cries that is the sign, probably the biggest sign that you needed to see that she is suffering. She probably loves you so much that she is willing to make you happy and all so she is trying everything since we know how some of you will use that as an excuse to sleep around.
now the fact that you have this "effort" and will from her, why don't you try to not only educate her, but also educate yourself. See it might feel good for you, because of the "forbidden" area but it can also feel good for her once both of you get some extra studying and knowledge about it. What i mean by that, maybe you might want to get a tape, or a book or let her come up how she wants to introduce it. hey you got her that far as to cry every time you try to enter, well maybe she knows of a way that might help her. talk to her as you do it and see at which point does she starts crying. do it with some of the books open or the cd running and please do not become a macho man now (i know everything kind of s---) let her feel it and become comfortable, maybe try another method.
ladies loves to please their man no matter what, specially the ones that are in love and the ones that love unconditionally but you know why, 1)it is because they trust you, 2) because they love you, and 3) because they also would like to experience and who do you think is the best person to experience with. So come on do nag as much and help her and you will see, she might end up liking it so much that she can't and would not do anything else but this first and you will probably not like it as much.
2006-09-19 09:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by mysterious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a baby that "back door loving" hurts but there are different ways about easing the pain. For example, I found more foreplay, relaxing my muscles back there and having my husband ease in when I least expect it helped to decrease the pain. But try to go easy on your wife because it can be pleasurable but at the same time it can be a very painful experience. If you don't think it can be a painful experience have someone give it to you in the butt and you'll understand why she cries.
2006-09-19 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your wife is saying that it hurts, then it probably does really hurt. she's not being a baby and just because she loves u doesnt mean that she should have to go through that kind of pain for u. another thing, if u really love her, u wouldnt be asking her to go through that for u. u should just accept that it is hurting her and stop asking her to do that. stop doing it all together. usually when something hurts thats a red flag that u shouldnt be doing it in the first place. when things hurt sometimes that means that there is already damage or u could be causing damage.
2006-09-19 07:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by wildprincess1218 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How about her sticking something in your back door, giving you some loving. If you love her, you won't be such a baby.
2006-09-19 07:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..maybe you should be alittle more experienced in this area and then she would stop crying. If you were my lover and was so self absorbed I would squeeze and rip it right off of you. Now w/that said...lets educate you. First....be gentle and use lubrication. Work it slowly to relax those muscles. If you are not a courteous lover in this area you can cause damage. As she relaxes and you have relaxed this area you may penetrate slowly, working it back and forth until you have full penetration. You have hurt her in the past so she is automatically tensing up and shes gun shy now. Get her confidence back. Stimulate her clitoris while your working the other area. Good luck.
2006-09-19 07:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with you. If you really loved her, you wouldn't want to hurt her. You are being such a jerk about that. Why don't ya'll try something new. Maybe something that doesn't hurt so much.
2006-09-19 07:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tamiikaaa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is so heartless for you to say. Your being sooooooo selfish and not paying attention to her. If she says it hurts then STOP. You should be thankful she's letting you do that to her in the first place. But it's obvious it hurts her which means she's not enjoying it. Sex is suppose to be about pleasing each other not just you! I could only imagine how miserable that is for her because I personally wouldn't know and don't want to find out. If you loved her you wouldn't continue to hurt her, And men wonder why women call men selfish!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-19 07:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Quit being so insensitive & selfish and take care of your wife. If you loved her you'd quit being such a baby.
2006-09-19 07:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Umm that whole "if she/he loves me" goes both ways hun. love is about respecting what your partner does and doesn't like and finding a middle ground that you are both happy with. Are there things that you don't like to do? Even if there aren't, you owe to her to respect her feelings. When it comes to sex you can make exceptions to do things that you might not normally try for the other person, but you have every right to have those lines and you should be able to count on the other person to respect that. I don't give BJ's and my husband knows it, he doesn't love me any less and he has never once asked for one. I try to please him in other ways. If she doesn't like them and she has still allowed you to do it then she has already proved she loves you, now give her the same respect and next time tell her she doesn't have to. Sex is supposed to be a bonding point for two people, if you make it so that she is doing it only to help you enjoy it then you have destroyed the whole point and you should be with a hooker who get's paid to do exactly waht you want. Love has nothing to do with being forced to participate in something you don't like. It's just as bad as rape.
2006-09-19 07:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it really hurts... look to make it fare to her why dont u let her stik a broom into ur bak door n u tell me if it hurts n if does " stop being such a baby, dont ya think "
2006-09-19 07:40:55 · answer #11 · answered by mperez637 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋