im gettime married and i have no idea how to have sex??????!!!! my parents never taught me and my fiance expects me 2 know how. help please
2006-09-19 06:08:28 · 23 answers · asked by x_brunett4life_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please excuse the mispelled words
2006-09-19 06:08:49 · update #1
i mean what are the basics?what should i know?
2006-09-19 06:14:02 · update #2
It comes naturally. You and your fiance will explore together and he should love being the one to teach you.
2006-09-19 06:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he knows that you are a virgin then he shouldn't expect you to know everything about sex. He'll teach you what you need to know or you can try reading a book about sex, a porn or ask your friends i'm sure that they have had sex and could give you a few pointers. Don't ask your parents. There not suppose to tell you how to have sex!!! Good luck.
2006-09-19 13:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you because I don't know anyone over the age of 17 who atleast don't know the basics of sex. If you don't know and are of legal age then go rent a porn so you can see what is done. But I really think that you are looking for someone to describe how to have sex on this website and I REALLY hope no one will fall for that one.
2006-09-19 13:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by momof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your level of intellegence it's a good thing you know nothing about sexual intercourse.
The world is already full of folks such as yourself. Please do not make any attempt to discover how to perform this serious act that results in the birth of another human. You'll only be passing on your genetics to an innocent.
Thanks for asking the question though.
2006-09-19 13:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you like 12?? Your parents ARE NOT suppose to teach you how to have sex. Whats wrong with you. Just tell him that you've never had sex before. He'll help you.
2006-09-19 13:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jamacaray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound cheesy, .. but get a book on it--- not a porn--- a real book. They are out there and they will educate you. You probably won't feel so in the dark after reading one. Trust me it helps.
2006-09-19 13:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are a virgin then sex will just happen dont freak.... your parents are not suppost to teach you....thats would just be weird. I am sure you fiance does not "expect" you to know how....
2006-09-19 13:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by rhodes727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will come naturally. why does your fiance expect you to know how? did you tell him that you have had sex before and you are really a virgin? if he knows that you are a virgin, he will guide you. but if he don't know, it will definitely be known when you have sex. you better tell him. but it all comes naturally.
2006-09-19 13:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worries, you'll figure it out that night.
But if you lied to your fiance and told him you have had sex before then your introuble. Otherwise, he will understand
2006-09-19 13:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your wedding night, just lie there and let your new husband do all the work. You'll catch on from there.
2006-09-19 13:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋