I caught her with her ear up against the toilet door listening to my sister doing a pooh. She was touching herself. SHe didnt see I saw her. I want to tell her i saw but in a civil way. Any ideas??
BTW This is not a joke!
2006-09-19 14:28:16 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hahaha maybe she is bisexual and has a thing for your sister? Why don't you ask her about it just say hey I have something kinda silly to talk to you about..just bring it up casually not like it's a big deal or else she will get embarrassed and ashamed.
2006-09-19 14:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If this is not a joke, what you can do depends on how much you love your wife. Maybe you didn't see what you thought you saw. In any event, you should man up and discuss it with her. You may learn that it's not that serious. After all, all of us have certain degrees of freak in us, including yourself. That's your loving wife and if you're her loving husband there is nothing you and her can not work through. Marriage is about "FOR BETTER OR WORSE", and this is not a joke. Discuss it with her. Don't make any unfounded accusations, and your marriage may take on a new excitement Be strong. It's not the end of your world. Man, if you truly love this woman, be strong enough to accept her as she is, and patient enough to do what is necessary to bring about change if you feel that change is necessary. In my humble opinion, a woman who is not freakish is some form or fashion is a bore. One of the main reasons prostitutes prosper is because they will perform freaky sexual acts that many men are too shy to ask their significant other to perform. Tune in to the love you have for your wife, and nothing else matters, because it's supposed to be all about you and her. Was there any harm done that makes you feel that what she did is a threat to your marriage and her love and devotion to you? Think about it, but be sure and engage brain before engaging tongue on this issue. Good luck, and happy matrimony.
2006-09-19 14:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by tyrone n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm,
Ok are you sure your sister was making a poo?
People do a lot of things in the bathroom?
Should you mention it.
If you want the marriage probably not.
We all have secret things and feelings, this one is odd but you may have misinterperted it. Could be a factor you don't understand.
Ask Yourself?
How much does it matter to you that she has that odd behavior?
Have you seen it more than once? Again perhaps you didn't have all the pieces to the puzzle. I doubt you would stop the behavior just because you mentined it if it is real. Would be really be enough to divorce over?
2006-09-19 14:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by dayakaur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dose this make you a freak for watching her touch her self while listening to you sister pooh? Thats the real question. If so get another chick (not ur sis) and have a 3-sum
2006-09-19 14:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mondo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were looking at Porn Star material.Go to Colinga Park California, home of the Adult Entertainment Business and make your millions. Think about it, if you become her manager, you can live off her riches and be envied by every guy drinking a beer on a Friday night. Make the guys proud and start pimping your wife.
2006-09-19 19:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOH! Lemme answer this one please...Okay. Dont do anything yet. Just wait. See if she does anything else freaky first before you go in and let it be known. I have some stuff on my husband that seem to be unnatural. But its to early to say something. Hold on a minute. and see if she does this kind of stuff on a regular basis.
Plus sometimes us wives do things that may look funny in our husbands eyes, but reality, she might have been rotating her bra (You know what'em saying?"
IN THE MEANTIME....Dont tell yo' boys about this.
Trust me. they will think you are a freak for marrying her.
Low-key though. she might have slipped your sister a laxative and was turned on by it. If she did, she would be cool as hell with me
2006-09-19 14:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Tru Indeed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start out the conversation by calling her a "Freak", It will go down hill fast. Just ask her if there is anything going on that she would like to share with you. What you saw may not be what you think. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 14:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Steve B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she wasn't just scratching an itch or fixing her pad?
I mean, first of all, being attracted by your sister is incest and not usual; and then being attracted by your sister taking a crap, not necessarily orgasmic.
I think you should ask your wife what in the world she was doing. If she stutters, she must have some nasty fetish. If she tells you what it was and sounds honest about it, then you'll know.
2006-09-19 14:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings are better left unsaid.
I am a woman and I would be humiliated if my man told me he saw me doing something like that. (I wouldn't do that though)
If there is a next time, you need to confront her while the event is happening. Just say, "Honey what are you doing"? You will know everything just by the look on her face.
Are you absolutely sure she was listening in?
Good luck to you....
2006-09-19 15:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by zora w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little weird to me. Try asking her to describe the things that really turn her on. Be open about it, talk fantasies and everything. She might open up to you and confess her true feelings. As long as you both won't freak out on the other then you might just deepen your relationship to a new level. Good luck.
2006-09-19 14:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by RedC. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋