We broke up 2 months ago. Iam still in love but he doesn't love me. ;(
2006-09-19 14:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by Ordinary man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats a strange request on your ex's part. It's like taking sand to the beach. Unless maybe he really does want to be there with you. Hmmm....just a thought
2006-09-19 14:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sleeper_M3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason he's an "ex" boyfriend. He doesn't love you. Going with him on a trip to Vegas would be a disaster; you'll be expecting something to turn around for the two of you, and my guess is that he's looking to have fun in Vegas, period. It's a bad idea. Give yourself some time to get over him and move on.
2006-09-19 14:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are available and he gives you the round trip ticket and pays all expenses just call it a date and go. But if he is the pouty unreliable type and he wants to take you then you are taking a risk that he leaves you there alone when he doesn't get his way. It's also possible he wants you to go so he can hit you up for money. The more I think it thru ; the best move would be to tell him NO. He doesn't love you and anything you do for him and with him will only hurt you in the long run.
2006-09-19 14:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay away if you have feelings he don't in the end your setting your self up to be used HE made it clear he feels different about u then you do him. I chased a ex i loved 4 a long time in the end it only hurt me he knew he was not attached he had nothing to lose emotionally by toying with me. my ex always said ONLY friends he knew i wanted more i should have backed off when he made it clear he did not want what i did. TOOK ME YEARS to wise up.
2006-09-19 14:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you say you are still in love but he isn't so you wouldn't be going to just have fun. You'd be going in the hopes of hooking up again. So I say no you shouldn't go. Save up some money and go with someone else.
2006-09-19 14:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, this is like my last chance to get him.To rekindle the love that we once had. Show him we were meant to be.lol. j/k but yeah , go on the trip.Just make sure you look real make him think you'll really put it on him but Never give it up.That will make you vulnerable and make you feel like you still have a chance but he just really wanted a hit.So look your best and make sure you don't spend a dime of your own money.
2006-09-19 14:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go to Vegas when you are not loved? You opening yourself up to being used & disrespected. You don't deserve that.
You can't force love...... oh so painful!
I hope you are able to "move on" at some point. There are men out there who will love you for who you are. :)
2006-09-19 14:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes I would go! He must still have some interest if he wants you to go with him. It's a good chance to see if you can ignite that spark again.
2006-09-19 14:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely!!
2006-09-19 14:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by happymixer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you are only putting yourself in agony if he isn't serious and doesn't love you. Don't go, you'll regret it later.
2006-09-19 14:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by momofericha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋