Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2006

what do you think the best way to sit down with my wife and tell her i want a divorce with having her blow up on me is? ( this woman has a serious mean side. sitting down and having a humane conversation is most of the time out of our life.) we have been married for 2 years now. we never lived with eachother untill we got married ( Big Mistake )

2006-09-18 05:07:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-09-18 05:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by RedEye 3

Things have been real tense with my husband and I lately, we don't make love very often,we get agrivated with each other. I asked him if he's bothered that we don't make love very often he told me no, but I have noticed that when he goes to kiss me he will just kiss me on the forhead, cheek, or nose. IF he kisses me on the lips its just real quick peck. What does this mean when your husband begins doing this?

2006-09-18 04:57:06 · 37 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

2006-09-18 04:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by archie 2

I just found out my husband has been having an affair. He says he's sorry and wants to stay together. I thnk he only wants to stay together so he won't have to pay child support. I just don't know want to do.

2006-09-18 04:51:04 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in the process of getting over porn because he says he doesnt like it anymore and he knows that I dont like it. He trying not to look up stuff on the internet..etc. But is it still okay for him to start looking up movies that have "great sex scenes" in them??? Or will this just add to his pevious addiction???

2006-09-18 04:47:23 · 40 answers · asked by **What??** 4

2006-09-18 04:42:36 · 11 answers · asked by Len Rose 1

I've been married for six years, I've watched my husband stay exactly the same. I feel after having 2 kids I've grown in every aspect of my life, mentally, spiritually, and morally. He hasn't changed and acts like he wishes he was still single with no responsabilities. I am not concerned with an affair, it's just a total lack of ambition or motivation when it comes to us his family. I try not to be a bitchy wife, so as a result we rarely speak to each other. If I ask him to do anything he considers it bitching. He pays no attention to me or my two beautiful boys who are the best. I feel like he's missing out and he doesn't even care.

2006-09-18 04:35:06 · 22 answers · asked by green eyed lady 3

2006-09-18 04:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lost and wandering what to do.
I have been married for 15 years, and fallen out of love with my husband. I wish I could say he is a horrible person, but he is not.
I wish I could say he is abusive but he's not.
We got married on the fly---meaning I met him and two months later we were married, then had a baby. (Yup I was pregnant) I guess I don’t always make good choices. I don’t regret having my daughter; we now had her and another. I love being mommy.
I just don't have feelings for my hubby. I have tried to make myself get over it, and deal with things. I can't the thought of him touching me does nothing to excite me. I am almost repulsed at thought of us touching.
Could it be that I have grown apart from him?
My sisters tell me I seem so unhappy and have changed.
I don't want to hurt our children so I try to act as if everything fine.

Before the questions are asked, no there is not anyone else.
I am not having an affair.
I think I got married to young and now it’s starting to have an impact on me

2006-09-18 04:32:57 · 25 answers · asked by lovingurlife2day 1

husbands sexually. I've been married 15 years my wife says it's normal..Helps her get excited. I dont like it at all..Is this a common occurance?

2006-09-18 04:31:55 · 19 answers · asked by Tommy 1

2006-09-18 04:29:59 · 19 answers · asked by coleman 1

Since we've been together, the only way I can get my wife to have an "orgasm" is by role playing. She really loves it when I play as Steven Urkel, the crocodile hunter. He's that guy with the glasses and he says stuff like, "did I do that" after he catches the gators or them snakes. Anyway, now that he's dead, it freaks out my wife too much for me to play him. It sucks because I just bought her a crocodile suit to give to her for her birthday.
Are there any other black adventurers that I can role play as? I really want her to be able to use this suit.

2006-09-18 04:27:31 · 4 answers · asked by Dialup, Avatar, Jones! 2

In my state, you have to have something showing that he has other coverage first. Or that you are divorced. He refuses to get any. I am thinking of changing jobs just so that I don't have to cover him anymore. In this state you can't file for separation and if it is contested, you have to wait two and one-half years for the divorce to go through. Why should I cover a a philanderer who moved out on his wife and kids?

2006-09-18 04:26:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=190032518611
is he trying to tell me something?

2006-09-18 04:22:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 04:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by surge p 1

we fight all the time and i am in the process of getting a divorce, butit is because he used to leave me at home with our daughter all the time all day and night. so i told him i wanted a divorce and now he is trying to make everything better he is doing what he should have been doing all along now. what should i do.

2006-09-18 04:20:46 · 23 answers · asked by WONDERFULMOM 1

My wife is leaving me and taking the kids will you please pray for us to work things out and get back together thank you

2006-09-18 04:19:12 · 15 answers · asked by duke 2

Me and my husband decided to have a threesome I wonder will it make things better for us or worse. It really has my husband excited and he thinks it will give us something fun to do because he said everything we do we have done over and over.

2006-09-18 04:18:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things have been real tense with my husband and I lately, we don't make love very often,we get agrivated with each other. I asked him if he's bothered that we don't make love very often he told me no, but I have noticed that when he goes to kiss me he just kisses me on the forhead, cheek, or nose. And if he kisses me on the lips its just real quick peck. What does this mean when your husband begins doing this?

2006-09-18 04:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

I am MBA & fell in love with a girl when she was doing high school. we broke off and met again after 4 years. I think i really love her. But problem is that she is just high school passed and has wasted 6 years over nothing just staying idle and foolling around. Even she loves me still. My family is very trasitional one where education, values matter. I am very confuse and worried for my future. please give genuine responses.

2006-09-18 04:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by troubled_guy 1

my husband is paying child support of $600 a month to his daughter from his previous marriage....she rings him over and over asking for more money.....we have 2 of our own children....his daughter is 18 and can look for a job right? so why can't my husband tell her to get a job? she is always emotionally black mailing him ....always pretending that she is going to commit suicide and her mum encourages this....its driving me crazy....because he never told me he had a daughter b4 we married....and i would have got along if she wasn't such a lunatic....I don't want to expose my 1 and 3 yr olds to this weirdo who is also a sponger.....I work too ....and its hard to make ends meet....but people are just selfish. what can we do??

2006-09-18 04:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5

's mother, who also happens to be his ex-wife. They've been apart for a while now, but I think he'll still be upset. This is a real moral dilemma.

2006-09-18 04:11:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do people really intend to honor marital vows today. Or are vows simply viewed as ceremonial.

2006-09-18 04:05:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

or trust your womans instinct as to whether your man is cheating?
What if you are just imagining it. my husband has been distant lately, and i overheard him talking on the phone to the secretary, whilst he wasn't saying anything "wrong", he was talking and joking with her in a way that he only used to talk to me, you know like playful teasing.
But i am quite insecure so maybe my instinct is faulty?!!

2006-09-18 04:01:11 · 25 answers · asked by BRICK 3

my husband is a 2 minute man and its so annoying he says we start at the same time but damn this is crazy how do i get him to go longer .it takes me a little alot longer than 2 minutes

2006-09-18 03:58:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

checked my pc for downloaded pics the other day and there they were..PORN..staring right back at me. He has been looking agian..What to do? btw..we have been married for 6 years and have 2 kids and I am a christian and he professes to be one also...really confused...I have put up with physical abuse, verbal abuse, one affair, no attention, him ignoring our son, and the PORN. I am so tired..emotionally and at the end of my rope...HELP!!!

2006-09-18 03:47:27 · 47 answers · asked by T&E 2

I don't know what to do , I love him we shared many happy days, he never showed me any disrespect. He lived a double life this girl was young, he told her that we were having problems in our marriage that he was going to leave me, when he had no intensions of doing. she waited for two and a half years until she finally realize that he was not leaving me. They had a child he was there for the birth, he gave her his last name. he provided for her until he couldn't do any more, then she took him to child suport and it came to my house and i opened it on the day of my birthday abd question him while he was at work and he didn't denie any of it. It was devestating and i went a way only because it was planed before i found this out. Please i just need some one to help me get through this. Some times it's hard to talk to people that you know because the don't always give you the best advice. I'm saved, married and have one child from him. And it's not because he doesn't love me.

2006-09-18 03:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 03:37:21 · 17 answers · asked by smoothie 1

I have been married for almost 17 years and we have 4 children together. I found out that he was cheating on me for the past year. He moved out about 6 months ago. His reason for cheating was for sex. We have 4 children and they take up most of my time and sex was not a daily thing the past few years. His father died last summer and that is when this all started and I am not sure if that had something to do with it.
He has said that he is not seeing her anymore but he does not live with us and I am not sure if he is telling me the truth. He comes around to visit our children, takes them to practices,games. He is building an addition on to our house too. I asked him why he was doing it and he said that it was to get me back, he tells me he loves me alot,.but I don't know whether I want him back. Our house is so much more relaxed since he left. I do love him, but I am not sure if I love him as a lover anymore or just the father of my children.

Please advice !

2006-09-18 03:36:09 · 25 answers · asked by konfusedkathy2006 2