Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2006

when we men becomes too sure of ourselves and authoritative, they call us male chauvinistic pigs. now shouldnt we pull the pighead over the heads of women who think too highly of themselves and who are constantly fighting for every single damn rights. can we call them female feministic pigs (FFP)?

2006-09-18 06:40:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

We know we can't win this one. What is the thing that men ask (or do) that women can't win?

2006-09-18 06:37:41 · 21 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

My wife wrote her ex-boyfriend a letter in June. He wrote back and she let me read it. He told her that he thought about her a lot and that he was married and had two kids. He said he did not want her contacting him at home because his wife would not understand but he gave her his email address. My wife asked me what I thought. I told her that I did not want her to contact him and let it be. Two months latter she went out of town overnight by herself to shop. Our cell bill came a month latter and it was way high. I noticed she called the city where her x lives five times. I asked my wife if she had called her x she denied it and said it was one of her coworkers number. I wanted to belive her so I let it go. But I was suspisious of the call times and called the number and it was her x-s number. I am afraid she met him an may of had an afair because most of the calls were on the night she was out by herself. We have been married 12 years and have 2 kids. I don't know what to do.

2006-09-18 06:37:30 · 23 answers · asked by ????? 2

i.e...it just gets annoying sometimes when you have to take orders...

2006-09-18 06:34:11 · 19 answers · asked by Missylicious 3

What did he say or do? Or was it you that asked him about it an.al stuff?

I would like to ask my girl about doing this. Could anyone help?

2006-09-18 06:31:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is strange but true. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship. We are best friends and have vowed to be completely honest with each other about everything. Her birthday is coming up and she has told me that she doesn't want jewlery or clothes. She says that she wants to do something naughty for her 25th birthday. Something completely out of character. She wants a stripper in a private hotel room. She said that she would pay back on my birthday. Any fantasy I wanted. I agreed--it may not sound like it but she is actually a good girl..she's been faithful.. Well, she has obviously put some thought into it because she recently said that she has decided upon a muscular, black stripper., completely naked. Ground rules are this: no touching but no sex. I searched forever for her stripper without luck. Finally, I found a guy at my gym. Only, his rule is this: his g-string comes off only if she removes her panties. When i told her, she just smiled and said it was up to me. Should I?

2006-09-18 06:25:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 06:20:55 · 18 answers · asked by jgp 1

I am having feelings I have never had before. I am not a vindictive person, but after years of standing beside my bf and helping him with his drug addiction and he relapsed two weeks ago and I kicked him out. I am going back to college full time and he was paying the bills. He told me that he would take care of everything and stand beside me 100%. So I quit my job and went back to college. He then decided to start doing his drugs again and I could not go through that hell again so I booted him. The day I kicked him out he went to the bank and put a stop on the checks he wrote to pay for the bills. I am so ANGRY. I never did anything to hurt him. I have to children 13 and 15 and I cannot have drugs around my kids. What kind of person does that. He told me over and over again that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and I am the only one that ever tried to help him in his whole life. How could he be so mean and hateful. I just want to mess up his life.

2006-09-18 06:20:36 · 27 answers · asked by zora w 1

First off let me say that I truly feel confused, I am married for 3 years I think I married the wrong woman. There was no Sexual chemistry to start with. I think I have married for the wrong reasons. landed a good job, bought a house, got a dog, thought it was time i was dating my g/f for 4 years she was there for some tough times I love her but am not in love with her does that make sense? we have no kids. I am starting to have wondering eyes and have had eyes look at me also I need somone who I am sexually attracted I feel verry strongly about chemistry and think I may have found that person. Please do not bash me for being married and having wondering eyes. My wife and I have not been intimate for about 5 months and this has just recently been happening to me. I need to know if what I am feeling is true chemistry the other party has told me that she feels it too.

2006-09-18 06:17:13 · 19 answers · asked by Tom M 1

2006-09-18 06:12:50 · 49 answers · asked by Hacker 3

Playboy cufflinks for the groom? A Burberry garter?

2006-09-18 06:11:19 · 22 answers · asked by Ms. Roxie 2

Vacuuming, washing up, empty the rubbish, etc.
We need some rest too!

2006-09-18 06:09:44 · 49 answers · asked by Hacker 3

my boyfriend and i are just out of high school...and we want to get married..does anyone think that its ok or should we wait untill we are finished with college...we are very much in love and we understand what it takes to pay bills and depend on each other,,,so it's not just a crazy teenage romance..my parents dont' think we are ready and should wait...but i just want to be with him and he's the same way toward me...can anyone give me any advice...

2006-09-18 06:08:37 · 46 answers · asked by littlebittyprettyone 2

I hardly ever visit my family, they drive me up the wall. They always have advice on how I should raise my kids and whenever I am around them I feel uneasy. But when I go over to my husband's parents house I feel more at ease. I can be myself, they are more like me than my own family. Has anyone else experienced this? I feel like this is awful of me. I just don't get along with my parents very well. I never have. I just wanted to know if this has happened in anyone elses marriages.

2006-09-18 06:07:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone out there got married from the age 18-21.. if so how is it working and are u glad u did it because my boyfriend and i are seriously thinking about having a kid and getting married i just wanted to see how it is?

2006-09-18 06:03:50 · 33 answers · asked by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2

im curious!!!

2006-09-18 05:59:16 · 21 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2

I met my husband 7 years ago. We started dating in high school. We got married about 2 years ago.

I know my husband loves me but he doesn't show it at all. I don't think he has kissed me (besides a good by kiss) in about 7 or 8 months. Everytime I try to kiss him he will kiss back back I feel like I am kissing someone who doesn't care. I think he would rather die than ever put he hands around me to hold me. I have tried to show him a lot of affection and at the end of the week he tells me he never gets affection (even though I know he does since I try to do it on purpose). I feel like we are best friends but not lovers. Is this what marriage is? If it is I will try to get over this. He is a great provider and has never cheated. I just feel like I am a roomate that cleans instead of a wife. I tried to talk to him about this and he says that he is not that type of guy. He has never been been over affectionate but he was better than this. I have been getting so depressed.
Thanks.

2006-09-18 05:55:38 · 21 answers · asked by Sam468 2

This has happened to me recently and now I am miserable trying to forget this other man. I love my husband very much and would never cheat on him. We are very close. So why am I feeling mixed emotions of guilt and misery for another guy that I seemed to have instant chemistry with? Why would life throw me that curve ball? It seems so unfair that I should be faced with this when all I try to do is live a good life.

2006-09-18 05:44:28 · 20 answers · asked by applecheeks 1

On my boyfriends softball team there are 12 other guys and some of them are nice and I say hi to them or just talk to them about softball or whatever and their wives start giving me glares and saying mean stuff about to their husbands...I try talking to the wives too like saying hey...or talking about the game...or even anything else...but they're all pretty set on being mean because of me talking to their husbands...it's stupid because my boyfriend is on the same freaking team....oh well anyone got any idea on another way I could possibly change their mind while not having to give up friendship with the guys?

2006-09-18 05:40:37 · 33 answers · asked by Baby Evan is due May 18th! 5

im moving out and starting from scratch

2006-09-18 05:39:58 · 14 answers · asked by bigcat 1

That way you will have a better relationship? I think so. It's been working well for me.

2006-09-18 05:39:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

By just sticking my head in and gently start spanking her she comes fast and hard. Is this normal or is she a freak?

2006-09-18 05:36:03 · 27 answers · asked by gavera 1

What kind of container should I use? Help me fast..I want to send it tomorrow.

2006-09-18 05:32:25 · 5 answers · asked by Shannon U 1

My wife has put on 50-60 pounds since giving birth to our son. I love her but have no interest in her sexually anymore, none. The thought of touching her in that way makes me sick. What should I do? How do i get her to lose the wieght? Am I a bad person? Do you think its fair that she has altered his physique so drastically that she does'nt even look like the beutiful woman I married. I have a good job, am a great father and provider, why should I put up with this?

2006-09-18 05:32:15 · 52 answers · asked by kmankman4321 4

2006-09-18 05:31:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 05:31:15 · 3 answers · asked by qwerty 2

I caught my husband looking at pictures of nude women on the i nternet while touching himself. He is not undersexed in any way. I am extremely hurt and I'm not sure what to think. Please help.

2006-09-18 05:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by jeffandchristymoss@verizon.net 2

A quick synopsys: My wife and my marriage has been a train wreck for over 3 years. My brotherinlaw inadvertently sends me an email instead of my wife, after staying with me for 2 weeks sharing my home my food etc. Treating me as a friend, or so I thought. The email say that I am white trash
( I am a fairly educated presently unemployed not by choice) Enterpreneur. and that basically she should document all corrospondenses between my wife and myself. Here is my question? My wife wants to go to his house and have a birthday party for her other sister. They live in North Carolina and I live in New York. I told her to respect the fact that I do not want her to go because this ***-hole totally played me, disrespected me etc.and she should also feel the same way about him as I do. Please respond with either a yes or a no. Should I let her go? and why and if I should NOT let her go WHY? I told her I will divorce her if she goes I am depending on the answers given here to see if I am WRONG

2006-09-18 05:18:46 · 37 answers · asked by HENNY 1

I want to get a book that helps me get a divorce in California. I cannot afford an attorney so I'm going to have to do it all myself. If someone knows of a book that helped them do all of the paperwork that would be great.

2006-09-18 05:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by laalaau2 1

how do you move on from a 13yr marriage you thought would last?

2006-09-18 05:11:53 · 13 answers · asked by pandorasbx007 1