I caught my husband looking at pictures of nude women on the i nternet while touching himself. He is not undersexed in any way. I am extremely hurt and I'm not sure what to think. Please help.
2006-09-18 05:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by jeffandchristymoss@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its something that turns him on. They are pictures. Dont make too big a deal out of it.
Would it offend you if you simply walked in on him in the bathroom masturbating? Same thing, only hes using visual aids. Let it go.
2006-09-18 05:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't about you. He still wants you. Looking at pictures and masturbating is no big deal and more men and women do this than you think. Even if you have a good sex life, he may like to "blow" off a little stress, and this way he doesn't have to please you. If this starts to effect your sex life, or he is doing it all the time, then you need to speak up, otherwise it is normal.
2006-09-18 12:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. Men are very visual, he was just looking and giving himself a little pleasure. It's not as if he is going out and having sex with another woman. Don't worry about it.
2006-09-18 12:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the problem is. He's coming home to you every night, right?
Also, why is your email address in your user name? Do you enjoy spam? Do you want everyone to send Jeff a reprimand via email?
Good luck working it out.
2006-09-20 21:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know what to tell you. Seems lots of men do this. I dont think its right and I dont think it should be done but it is. The older I get and the more I know about men the less I ever want to be married.
2006-09-18 12:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man I know (a) masturbates and (b) enjoys looking at a beautiful woman...........therefore, congrats...you're husband is normal and 100% man!
2006-09-18 12:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. he just happened to be browsing some pictures then something came up.
2006-09-18 12:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it would hurt my feelings as well but its not uncommon thats just a man for you seriously
2006-09-18 12:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by boredism 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id talk to him and get the truth.
2006-09-18 12:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes the one you should be talking to about this....only he knows why he is doing it ...not us
2006-09-18 12:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋