Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2006

we have been married for about a year and 2 months i know people say the first year is hard but i can even stand for him to touch me will it last and what can i do to get over this feeling?? please help

2006-09-18 10:15:05 · 19 answers · asked by kisses4ufromcece 1

Has anyone out there met there partner/husband on the internet .We met on a chat site and are celebrating our 1st wedding anniversary next weekend.

2006-09-18 10:10:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband always wants things his way or he says nasty things to be or digs with remarks, How do I deal with this without getting into a big fight

2006-09-18 10:08:53 · 26 answers · asked by violet mcdonald 1

2006-09-18 10:05:47 · 35 answers · asked by veromickey1 1

2006-09-18 10:01:17 · 22 answers · asked by Travis 1

2006-09-18 10:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by m203 3

i have been married 17 years my wife asked for a divorce she is with another man.. I met & now live another women but I still have feelings for my wife do i say with my new relationshio or go. my new relation is great but i dont love her.. or feel i like i do for my ex

2006-09-18 09:59:57 · 12 answers · asked by surge p 1

If you want a divorce, then you already know you dont want to be there so tell the truth why lie?

2006-09-18 09:59:37 · 14 answers · asked by SANCY 2

Ive just posted a question about wedding lists and what to ask for and how to give them to people but people are saying that you have to register somewhere like argos, ive just made my own wedding lists of items we need ready to print off to put in invitations, is this completly wrong? as it sounds wrong now, please help!

2006-09-18 09:59:37 · 11 answers · asked by rach_b_2003 1

When I 1st met my husband, he was a little wild (NEVER cheating but drank too much, stayed out too late, etc.). We have been married for a few years now and he hardly ever goes out with his friends. I really like and trust most of the guys he works with. When he is out with them, he is responsible and home at a decent time. The problem is that my husband tends to do what everyone else is doing. (Example: When with responsible men, he is responsible; but when with irresponsible men, he is irresponsible.) One guy he works with is trouble.

Is it okay that I request my husband not participate in "out-of-office" activities that this guy is involved in. My husband tends to drink too much and stay out too late when he is around people who do the same.

Thanks for your advice.

2006-09-18 09:56:39 · 8 answers · asked by Baby #1 born August 2009 6

I just want to know if anyone has recently bought a wedding dress from ebay, from a hong king country? As ive just bought mine, its being made in hong kong and the picture looks lovely and it only cost me 50 pounds including p&p. Im worried that when its delivered its not right, and worried incase it doesnt look like the picture. Please help.

2006-09-18 09:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by rach_b_2003 1

thanks for the advice>. I'm not agry at all. I also have a 19 year old that my husband and i made pay rent$100.00 a week with chores.He's now out on his own with all well. My hsband also knew that his son was to put money away.When we found out that he wasn't saving he made an excuse for him.But he will tell our daughter to do her chores.And she does with force lol!My husband is stating to say i'm a *****.And i tell my husband i may be the right person for the job but not the only person for the job. Am i being selfcenterd?

2006-09-18 09:53:41 · 3 answers · asked by funnynotlost 2

do i need a lawyer for divorce to get financial help from my husband??

2006-09-18 09:52:52 · 7 answers · asked by Gabs 2

We have been married for 30 years and he has always been into Porn, but for the last 5 years that we have had a computer, he has been noted to view men on webcams and occasionally enter gay chat rooms and gay porn sites! When confronted with this, he says it is only his "comfort zone". He has tried to hide a lot of it from me but I have found in Cookies or Temporary files where he has viewed gay and bisexual profiles on Yahoo and even my daughter has seen him bring up web cams in chat rooms of men masturbating! He denies to me that he is gay or bisexual curious or that he would ever want to meet a man! He still is attracted to me and thinks I should be fine with all of this, but I have not allowed him to touch me for well over a year. I have found condoms in his dresser drawer even though he has a vasectomy.

2006-09-18 09:48:08 · 29 answers · asked by justneedtoknow 1

My man of 6 yrs was going back & forth w/ another b^itch on myspace. We went out of town for a weekend & when we got back he sent her a text "I MISSED U A LOT MAMI." I was VERY upset but he says I overreacted cause he was not physically cheating. I consider this emotional cheating but he basically thinks he can say/do anything as long as he's not physically doing anything he's not cheating. He swears he had no feelings for her but I feel otherwise cause of their exhanges on myspace (a week later she emailed him "I see how you are, you must have a lady. You don't bring me to your house? That's wrong, I ain't stupid you know, if you got a lady just let me know i'm a big girl! I DO NOT want to be wasting my time if it's all just gona go to sh^t anyway!" He says he loves me & wants to be together & I do too but it's hard cause we do nothing but fight about this anymore. We were supposed to get married before this b^tch came around. We have a 2-yr-old & wanted more before I found him out...

2006-09-18 09:47:50 · 20 answers · asked by smarty pants 3

My parents are getting divorced...my dad already introduced the paper for the divorce, my concern is that my mom is very sick, she cant work, sometimes she can even stand up for herself, he says that he is going to help her with her expences, i cant help her because what i earn is just for my school. do we have to get a lawyer to help us on that??, im sure he is just going to give her money for the first two months and thats it. they've been married for more than 25 years i dont know how that is in the state of florida. help???

2006-09-18 09:39:19 · 12 answers · asked by Gabs 2

2006-09-18 09:31:12 · 30 answers · asked by natalie.waterson@btinternet.com 2

My husband and i just recently allowed his son and my stepson live with us.Rent free.He was to start saving for his own place since he has a full time job. Which i found out 2 days ago he was spending freely not saing any money.With this my husband and i are now totally at each other.~ My husband was not around him growing up.My (14) daughter thinks her father doesn't spend any time with her. How do i let my daugter know this is just a phase or is it?And should he pay his way? full time job~yes own transpotation~yes grad. from school~no helps around the house ~no "he 19"

2006-09-18 09:28:16 · 20 answers · asked by funnynotlost 2

2006-09-18 09:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by morpheous143 2

2006-09-18 09:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

im asking this question for my sisterinlaw

2006-09-18 09:23:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 09:21:14 · 33 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2

My husband and I were at a wedding dancing a slow dance when my husband grabbed another womans butt,she was dancing with her husband.
This woman lives in a small town and I know this will be the talk of the town. My husband cannot figure out why I am so hurt about this. I don't know if I can ever forgive him!!

2006-09-18 09:20:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 09:15:56 · 10 answers · asked by erker34 2

2006-09-18 09:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by bsbllmm 2

Me and my "husband" (not married yet) have been together for 4 years, and have one daughter and the last 2 yeasrs we have had enormous stress, and it has taken a toll on our relationship we wnat to be together very bad and we love eachother so much but we want things like they were before, At times I feel depressed about my body because of my pregnacy weight. I just wnat things to be the way they were any suggestions? How do i put the spark back in our life and be a happy family like we were before we got all stressed out!

2006-09-18 09:10:52 · 10 answers · asked by <3 txmom2_2lilangels:) 1

my hubbie is a cd and love woman but would like to go out with a cd does that mean that hes gay??

2006-09-18 09:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by polly1949er 1

My son has made the local high school's swim team. His first organized sport that he's ever tried out for. They have meets at least once a week. My wife doesn't want me to attend the meets because there are high school aged girls there in swim wear. No I know that my wife has insecurity problems and I have worked with her for years about this. But she still gets all upset wit hme becuse I want to go see my son compete. He does very well, and I was the one that encouraged him to try out. Now I fee like I'm lettign him down by not attending his meets. What do you think about this, and what would be the course of action I should take?

2006-09-18 09:01:41 · 20 answers · asked by Pilot 202 1

In the past my husband kind of lied to me about things by saying he "did not want to hurt my feelings" (like for when he was looking at porn.). We talked about it and he told me that he would not lie to me and would tell me the truth. But now I ask him a question like "are you feeling distant from me?" he says "no", but because he use to say he did not want to hurt my feelings, I think he's lying to me and I keep asking him the questions again. This happens with all kinds of questions, and my husband hates it!!! This makes him VERY furious and angry at me because he already answered and I keep asking, but he set up the behavior... What should I do to stop this cycle?

2006-09-18 08:42:51 · 18 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

while she was in Mexico but I was standing in the united states what govt. would go after me if any??

2006-09-18 08:34:50 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous