Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2006

to her, and that I always grill the sausages at my house. Did I overreact? I think her touching the sausages caused my food poisoning. I'm sick as hell.

2006-09-18 08:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

and she needs a real man !
Should I tell her I heard she says this to them ?

2006-09-18 08:32:11 · 28 answers · asked by wimpie 1

We've been married 16 years, I always find the need to be on the defense, when we disagree or discuss anything. We don't fight physically or disrespect each other. I just find myself being critical of him and always on the defense. Does anyone else do this?

2006-09-18 08:28:27 · 8 answers · asked by 7aliens 3

He is an A** who never wants to see his kids. He pays child support, but gives me excuses when its time for his visitation. He says things like, "I dont want to waste the 5 bucks in gas to go get them". They are 5 and 7 and are very hurt by him. What should I do about this? Should I take him to court and have his visitation taken away? I have talked to him about it, and he simply doesnt care.

2006-09-18 08:24:13 · 13 answers · asked by Christy H 1

My wife and I have trust issues because of me talking to another girl and her talking to another guy. I moved out for a while. I was ready to try and work things out before she was because I love her and know I screwed up. When she decided that she wanted to work things out I started staying over there but I have yet to move back in. Now she wants to go out with her two friends that she let stay over there while I was gone 5 to 6 nights a week. She will not throw away the letters from this guy she was talking to or delete his phone number from his phone. She say to just give her time but we have four kids and I dont want to put them through any more than they have to be. Should I wait and see what happens and give her a little time since trust is a big issue for us right now or should I tell her to get her **** straight? I have straightened out the problems I was causing our relationship.

2006-09-18 08:23:51 · 19 answers · asked by playenball 1

While my husband and I were separated (for the 2nd time) with the intent to get a divorce they slept together. We are back together and in counseling I am trying to get over this ....she just had twins ( named one after me) should I confront her? Do you think it will make me feel any better?

2006-09-18 08:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Love knew that his ex would stop by this morning (while he was at work) to fix a glitch with their child's school clothes.. but then she didn't leave right away.. we ended up just chatting about everything.. for three hours.. but only through the eyes of compassion. It was a nice talk. Under different circumstances, we could probably be decent enough friends.

But then- enter: My Love.. shocked and bewildered and possibly feeling deceived-- and now I am not sure what to do. He is justified, for feeling "uncomfortable in his own house" (as he said), but neither of us meant any harm.

It is possible that he may have been listening to us for quite some time, but I am not hiding anything from him. My only concern would be if he decided to take something out of context.

I had fully intended to tell him tonight that she stayed and that we talked and yada, yada, yada, but the way he found out was shocking to him. Is there any way to work through this? Thanks.

2006-09-18 08:13:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having an affair with a married man who says that he is unhappy in his marriage, but we don't talk about it much. I feel bad, but at the same time we have great sex. He has never mentioned getting divorced, but has commented on the lack of passion between them. I want something more of a commitment with him but am unsure of what to think. Talk about confused! Not just me but him too. He said he's not ashamed of me, but introduced me to his brother as someone that he works with. When his brother confronted him, he didn't deny our relationship. His friends know about me, and he loves bragging about me to everyone. I hate it when he leaves to go home, but I understand it. Am I crazy, or is there any kind of a future with him? Any responses from men who have done this would be great, and anyadvice from women who have had this kind of relationship would be invaluable. Thanks.

2006-09-18 08:10:54 · 64 answers · asked by blackwidow13 1

she left him years ago and took his son away from him.

he has not seen his son in 3 years.

I located her online (through one of those tracking services) and now I have her current phone number and address.

How do i give the information to my man? SHOULD i even give him the information or is it really none of my business?

I know he really REALLY wants to see his son again, I was just trying to help

2006-09-18 08:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 08:08:51 · 15 answers · asked by jdbs_babygirl 1

what do u think is the best thing about being married as opposed to being single?

2006-09-18 08:05:06 · 31 answers · asked by dreamz 4

2006-09-18 08:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by wife of Ali Pasha 3

Or fell in love, put too much into a relationship that was just a dream or a fantasy? and how did you cope with it?
What did you do?

2006-09-18 07:58:05 · 16 answers · asked by You are loved 5

I want to ask my ex-wife to remarry me. If I do that will she be hurt if she decides on a NO?

2006-09-18 07:56:02 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff W 3

I cheated on my wife with her best friend, we have been married for a year now and things seem to have cooled off between us. I am not sure what to do, her best friend is super hot but and I have always wanted to do her but what should I do about this? If I tell my wife she will kill me and I hate to loose a good thing or should I say nothing and keep seeing her friend.. Afterall what she doesn't know can't hurt her can it?

2006-09-18 07:54:41 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my husband I didn't love him anymore and thought we should get divorced. The house was mine before we got together, but now he won't leave. The lawyer said I can't make him until the divorce is final. Any suggestions? He justs acts like nothing is wrong

2006-09-18 07:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your girlfriend or wife had a toy and brought it to bed with you, would that bother you.

Or if you walked in on her using it by herself, would that bother you?

2006-09-18 07:51:21 · 11 answers · asked by GreeneyedCowgirl 5

My wife of 23 yrs does not work outside the home. She seems less and less concerned with her apprearence. She rarely wears make-up or fixes her hair. She wears baggy, sloppy clothers that she says is comfortable. She says she is in her mid-40s and does not have to dress to impress anyone (I guess including me). I don't expect her to dress like she is going to a formal ball, but a little care in her looks would be great. By the way, she has always been an attractive woman that does not take much to her look great. I know if i say anything,nit will be taken wrong. What to do?

2006-09-18 07:42:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 07:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by need a divorce 1

2006-09-18 07:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 07:23:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is a honey fanatic. I keep a stash in a secret door in the closet, otherwise I'd have none for my peanut butter & honey sandwiches. Sad, but true.


Flagger guy, thanks for the "honey" idea.

2006-09-18 07:22:37 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

when a woman has a man on the side, it is called a Sancho. So where and when did this phrase bacome popular? is there a story behind it?

2006-09-18 07:10:46 · 1 answers · asked by JESSICA A 1

I am married 23 years, being divorced. Final hearing scheduled 1 month from now. My attorney is a family friend...81 years old with severe multiple sclerosis. Her attorney is among the top 3 in my town. This was initially going to be simple, but greed has entered the picture. We have three homes...and she is asking for all property and money. I have paid far and above what child support asked for....even though both of my teenage sons have been removed from her home and placed into state protective custody.
WHAT DO I DO..........I FEEL LIKE I AM GOING TO A KNIFE FIGHT WITH A BANANNA IN MY HAND!

2006-09-18 07:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by willybobjohnson 1

This is my second marriage. Been married 20 years and he has never "liked" my two kids. They are now 35 and almost 34. The 35 year old is a hard worker in a bar unfortunately. She makes good money bartending at a nice family type bar. Her companion, my grandson's father lives with them and is a musician. She needs me to babysit one or two times per week when they are both working. Example: Friday night from 7p to 12midnight and then Saturday from 4p to Sunday at 12noon. Usually only one night a week, overnight. About once a month, grandson is with other grandparents for the entire weekend as they live out of state. My husband of 20 years hates my daughter working in a bar and so do I but he wants me to tell her that I will not babysit if she works in a bar. She worked for 10 years in an office, word, excel and everything. She has been working in the same bar for 7 years. He wants me to tell her that if she doesn't quit working in a bar - I will not babysit. Help

2006-09-18 07:01:52 · 21 answers · asked by pst1947 1

I need to laugh or I will cry right here at my desk....Lothario where are you???? Somebody must be here besides, He left me, what should I do.. and.....should I leave? He only beat me twice and I only have 4 kids.

2006-09-18 06:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 4

In love with my wife's cousin, me facing divorce suite after 10 yrs of marriage, hav kids, she is separated too has one kid. Cant leave her, she is the meaning of my life now. How can I solve this problem? My estranged wife using all her might to harrass me n her.

2006-09-18 06:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by fantasyland 3

I am tired, what's a woman supposed to do? I get up go to work, come home and go jogging, cook dinner, clean the house, take care of my daughter, wash clothes constantly pick up behind "Other People". I am just fed up. I don't want to do it anymore. What's a good woman? Why are so many women giving up so easily? Here's why, I am sick of his *** coming home getting on the ******* computer while I cook dinner, watch my daughter and referee his children who's momma don't want to raise them. I am tired of not having a break from them always sitting around making noise, begging for something, hogging the computer and television, and not picking up behind themselves (they don't even have chores 7&11 years old)! I am tired of having sex that is boring, the usual oral sex then intercourse (no orgasm intercourse wise) and then the roll over and go to sleep thing! I am ******* sick of the financial strain and the arguments that follow from all of these things. I have had enough, enough, enough! I want my own damn place away from "HIS" children, where he can come home and "Cook", and "Clean" up after them, and put up with their annoying asses! I want my own place so if we get in an argument there isn't the quote "This house **** thrown up". I want him to buy all the stuff for the house that I do, plus clothing for the children and him how he can (his paycheck is just covering the living expenses). Why do I stay because I love him but I am not too sure I am in love with him? What will be the determining factor? When I save and I am fully capable of being independent of him he'll definitely be a wreck or at least I hope so. He expects so much from me but when will he see that I can do better than him that sometimes he doesn't need to press that button to get me upset because I am one foot out the door, and that he's not all that he thinks he is (when your not great or good you need to remain humble a bit)! I need peace of mind and how will I get it in the type of situation if it is obtainable I don't know!!! Pray for me!!

2006-09-18 06:50:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read an article that says that the latest research shows that joint custody is bad for kids. Each former spouse has a home. The kids do not. They are like constant visitors from one place to the next, not having a real home and not knowing whether his/her baseball glove or doll is at mom's or dad's. What do you think?

2006-09-18 06:48:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright im wit dis gurl for 2 years right. and i work six days aweek about 9 to 11 hours a day. she works 4 days aweek n goes to school 2 days she works 10:30 to 5. n on the two day she at school she goes 10:30 to 3. you no i understan its hard on her but when ever i got time off wit her i want to do something wit her and she never wants to do anything..she says she not feelin good. then when im at work she is always doin something wit her sister like goin to the mall or goin out to eat ect...and also i always want to have sex so ill ask her almost everyday n she never wants to do it so i get really made at her sometimes we will go for like 3 weeks wit out doin anything. PLeeeeez help

2006-09-18 06:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by jerzabest 1